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05-08-2011, 03:45 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas
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| Mom died 5 weeks ago-Today is sad My mother passed away 5 weeks ago. The pain I feel today is almost unbearable. It has been a lonesome day. I visited her gravesite and placed a dozen red roses on it. These were her favorite. As I stood there, I remembered all of those times that I use to bring her roses. It would always make her smile and her eyes lit up like the sunshine, and she would say that she loved me. I have such good memories of her. She was not only my mother, she was my absolute best friend and confidante. She told me a few months before she died that she wanted me to be happy and to not ever forget her. She placed her hand on my heart and said that she would always be right there. I can still hear her telling me she loved me. Because she had dementia, she couldn't remember my name.....so she would say, "I love you, girl." It has been a tough day without her. But, I can hear her sweet voice saying, "I love you, girl."
__________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living! |
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05-08-2011, 03:48 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I know how heartbroken you must be. The first holidays, birthdays etc are almost unbearable. Keep your memories close at hand to help you through. Hugs.
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05-08-2011, 03:53 PM | #3 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: CA,USA
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| I'm sorry for your pain, but your mom will always be in your heart. I'm sure you are making her proud. I lost my mom many years ago, and I can tell you you will always remember, she will speak to you forever. |
05-08-2011, 03:55 PM | #4 |
Luv my 7 Furkids Donating Member | Im so sorry for your pain. I know the pain of loosing a loved one, holidays always seem to be hard. Remember the good things, the things you loved. |
05-08-2011, 03:57 PM | #5 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: New York
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| This is such a difficult day for you and I am sorry that this is a sad time for you. Remember all of your wonderful memories. Your Mom sounds like she was a loving and kind person. Sending hugs to you. |
05-08-2011, 03:58 PM | #6 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Gansevoort, New York
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| im glad you posted ur thoughts, sometimes that helps a little. can't imagine how tough today was for you. u will always have her in your heart & sounds like you have many memories. sounds like your mom did her job & raised a loving daughter, pass that on in what ever way you can & she will live on. sorry 4 ur loss, give ur pooch a hug & kiss that always helps! |
05-08-2011, 04:16 PM | #7 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York
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| I thought of you a lot today, and I understand how much it hurts. The pain of losing someone as special as your mom is always with you, and Mother's Day is always a difficult day to cope with. It is also a day to cherish all of the beautiful memories and to celebrate a love so dear. Your post really touched me. Your mom was a beautiful force in your life, one that will remain forever. I know the everlasting impact of a mother's love because I can always feel my mother's love, and it also sustains me after 35 years without her. You and your mom gave each other the greatest gift of all, and that is love and devotion. Nothing can ever take that away from you.
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05-08-2011, 04:34 PM | #8 |
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| Your first Mothers Day without your Mom is really a hard one. I think the first year - with all the 'firsts' is really hard. But God and time are merciful and slowly that pain will begin to heal. You won't forget ~ but the pain will lessen.
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05-08-2011, 05:00 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: VA
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| Oh Lila, I knew today would be so hard for you. I lost my mom 6 yrs ago and today my heart hurt, until my thoughts turned to all the wonderful times we had, the amazing love we shared...we too were best friends. You have many years of memories...draw on them anytime you need to. There is nothing like the love of a mom....nor the loss of one. The one thing I do know...without a doubt, you will see your mom again and she will be waiting with a big smile and open arms. Hug ))) to you and give Betty Boop some extra kisses.
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05-08-2011, 05:06 PM | #10 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dallas, Texas
Posts: 2,234
| I am so sorry for your loss. Its hard anyway and espically around holidays. My daughter-in-law lost her mother last Saturday and its been a sad Mother's Day for her too. Like you said, remember the good times and all the times she said she loved you and time does heal, it just takes time. Bless you!! |
05-08-2011, 05:53 PM | #11 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas
Posts: 9,688
| Thank you, everyone, for your kind words. I know time will heal and it will get better. Yes, I have a zillion wonderful memories to draw on when I think of her. I hope each and everyone of the YT mothers had a wonderful Mother's Day.
__________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living! |
05-08-2011, 05:59 PM | #12 |
♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca
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| I am so sorry for your pain. I know from my own life it is a very hard thing to deal with. People say it gets easier, but I beg to differ. I think it gets harder. ( I lost my father in 2002) So many things that have happened in my life that I wish he was here to expierence with me, or want to tell him. All I can tell you is to keep all the memories close to you. I was having a really hard time with things, so I started to write a journal just on my Father, I write every night a certian thing I loved about him or a memory I have of him. Try to stay strong in this time of pain, and know that she will always be around you.
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05-08-2011, 06:24 PM | #13 | |
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05-09-2011, 05:13 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
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| awww sweetie... I'm so very sorry yesterday was so hard. Your pain is still so fresh right now. (((HUGS))) You are such a sweet daughter to bring your mom roses.
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
05-09-2011, 05:28 AM | #15 |
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| You were in my thoughts yesterday..you have precious memories to hold to big hugs to you
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