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Originally Posted by lovespandp   I am so sorry for your pain. I know from my own life it is a very hard thing to deal with. People say it gets easier, but I beg to differ. I think it gets harder. ( I lost my father in 2002) So many things that have happened in my life that I wish he was here to expierence with me, or want to tell him. All I can tell you is to keep all the memories close to you. I was having a really hard time with things, so I started to write a journal just on my Father, I write every night a certian thing I loved about him or a memory I have of him.
Try to stay strong in this time of pain, and know that she will always be around you. |
A journal is a good idea. My dad died in 2006. That is when I started caregiving my mother. I find myself at times, just for a fleeting minuscule second, wanting to pick up the phone and talk to him. Old habits are hard to break.