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01-11-2011, 12:37 PM | #1 |
♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca
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| Dreams of those who has passed I have to get this off my chest, I have been having dreams of my Dad alot. He passed away in 2002 and I was Daddy's girl. We were very close. Nothing really happens in the dream, he is just there. I can't really remember what the dreams are about, But I would say I have had a dream with him in it like 6 times last week and now this week... I am not sure if its something or nothing? I wonder if I should go visit him or something.. I was just at his site a couple weekends ago, I cleaned his stone and put flowers. So I don't know.. I love having these dreams, I love being able to see him! I take Pnut when I go, he is my comfort system! I also take DH, Everytime Pnut is there he HAS to touch the stone, he will lay on it, or just put his little paws..it is the strangest thing! It is so cool to see. also when we are there Pnut is such a good boy! He is very calm, just lays there. I dont know maybe I am just thinking of him a lot and that makes me dream of him... I attached pics of Pnut when he was visiting his G-pa! LoL the last one wasnt suppose to be there.. hehe
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01-11-2011, 12:55 PM | #2 |
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| I feel it's comforting to dream about those who are dear to us. My dad was young like yours when he passed. He was 48. For a long time the only image I would have of him in my dreams was in the background, thin and sick. Now when I dream of him, we are together and he stands tall and strong like I wished to remember him. I dream about my dad more around the holidays and birthdays. He's been gone 28 yrs but I still treasure any dream-time we have together. My boss passed away 7 yrs ago, he was a good friend. Last week I had a dream about him and we were just spending a day at work. I felt so good the next day, it was great to remember him again. So, enjoy your dreams. I think it's great that you're having them.
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01-11-2011, 12:58 PM | #3 |
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| I got the chills when I read your post because the same thing happened to me. My Dad died in 1992 and we were very close too. I was his only child and a Daddy's Girl. For the first year or so I had many dreams about him. I would keep a pad and pen on my nightstand and as soon as I woke up I would jot down things about the dream otherwise I would forget some of it. In one dream he told me he was with my Benji, my beagle who died the year before. That made me feel so good that Benji and my Dad are together. Try to write down the dreams as soon as you wake up. I dream about him now but not as often. I think when we dream about the people we have lost, that somehow they are saying hi to us and maybe trying to comfort us if we are having a bad time. They are letting us know that they are always with us. |
01-11-2011, 01:20 PM | #4 | |
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A couple months after his passing, I was still a wreck. I was sleeping, something woke me up, I sat up, my back to my headboard. For some reason I just sat there. My door was almost closed, it had a little crack, I looked I saw a white blury image. I just sat there, the white blury image came closer to me, it came in my room. Then I saw my Dad's face on this white blur, I then realized this was MY DAD. He came closer, all the way up to me. he stopped and looked at me. I thought I was dreaming, I pinched myself, I felt it. I knew I wasn’t dreaming. I asked my Dad, “why did you leave me, I miss you so much.” He said “ its ok, I am always here, I am always around you, I love you.” When he was saying this his mouth wasn’t moving, it was like his words were transferred in my head..( he use to always make a fist and touch the side of my face with it) he then touched the side of my cheek. As SOON as he touch me I felt soo unbelievable, I felt loved, My whole body was at peace. Even my mind. That was it, after he touched me he went away, I watched him, I saw him go into my brothers room.. The next morning when I woke up I first asked my Mom or My brother if they had any dreams of Dad, they said No. I told my Mom what happened. She said that I was very lucky, she said my Dad knew I needed him, I needed to see him for the last time, and thats why he came to me. I would give anything to have that happen to me again! To see his face and hear his voice, feel the touch was unbelievable!
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01-11-2011, 01:22 PM | #5 | |
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01-11-2011, 01:24 PM | #6 |
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| That is funny because AI dreaqm of my mom all the time
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01-11-2011, 02:29 PM | #7 |
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| I've had dreams of people in my life that have passed. The most memorable one is of my high school/college BF. We remained in contact through the years and it was on my mind that I needed to call him and see how he'd been doing. Anyway, I let too much time pass and I learned that he committed suicide. A few years after he passed, I had this very vivid dream that we were both sitting and talking. He was somehow sitting lower than me, almost kneeling when he looks at me and says, "I came back for you"....my response in the dream was "what?" and he repeated it. I don't remember anything after that except being really sad for about a week. I don't know what it was supposed to mean if anything. I still think of him from time to time. He was very dear to me.
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01-11-2011, 02:46 PM | #8 |
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| A couple months after his passing, I was still a wreck. I was sleeping, something woke me up, I sat up, my back to my headboard. For some reason I just sat there. My door was almost closed, it had a little crack, I looked I saw a white blury image. I just sat there, the white blury image came closer to me, it came in my room. Then I saw my Dad's face on this white blur, I then realized this was MY DAD. He came closer, all the way up to me. he stopped and looked at me. I thought I was dreaming, I pinched myself, I felt it. I knew I wasn’t dreaming. I asked my Dad, “why did you leave me, I miss you so much.” He said “ its ok, I am always here, I am always around you, I love you.” When he was saying this his mouth wasn’t moving, it was like his words were transferred in my head..( he use to always make a fist and touch the side of my face with it) he then touched the side of my cheek. As SOON as he touch me I felt soo unbelievable, I felt loved, My whole body was at peace. Even my mind. That was it, after he touched me he went away, I watched him, I saw him go into my brothers room.. The next morning when I woke up I first asked my Mom or My brother if they had any dreams of Dad, they said No. I told my Mom what happened. She said that I was very lucky, she said my Dad knew I needed him, I needed to see him for the last time, and thats why he came to me. I would give anything to have that happen to me again! To see his face and hear his voice, feel the touch was unbelievable![/QUOTE] I had a very similar experience. My mom passed away 4 years ago. She was 91. I had a very, very hard time accepting her loss. A couple of weeks after she passed I had a dream she was there singing "You are my sunshine". She looked so happy and much younger. I woke up and swore she had really been there. I had forgotten about that song. She used to sing "You are my sunshine" to my daughters when they were little. I felt such peace inside to think she was happy. It never happened again. I believe what your mother said. I think we needed to see them and know they were ok. |
01-11-2011, 03:18 PM | #9 | |
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I believe what your mother said. I think we needed to see them and know they were ok.[/QUOTE] Yes, I think they know that we need them. I know what happened to me wasn't a dream, I was very much awake. I know the peace you are talking about, it is a very wonderful feeling.
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01-11-2011, 03:32 PM | #10 |
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| I don't normally dream anymore, or at least I don't remember them upon waking. I think it is because of all the medications I am on. But 2 nights after my husband passed, I did dream very vividly of him coming up to me as I stood in our kitchen. He put his arms around me and told me everything would be all right. It was the most comforting feeling and I truly felt touched by his presence. I remembered more than the image, I remembered feeling his arms around me and the hint of stubble on his face as he rubbed his cheek on mine. It was so real to me. I have not dreamed again (that I have remembered anyway) in the 2 1/2 years since we lost him. I wish I would. I go to sleep thinking of him and hope for a return of that dream. It has not happened again. Treasure the dreams of your dad. I don't know if it is a particular message but I would just be thankful for the chance to see him even in a dream.
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01-11-2011, 03:47 PM | #11 |
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| when my cousin passed away i often had dreams of him. i prayed for them to happen and most of the time they did. i got to dance with him. sat in a little booth in a small cafe with him. spent time just around him. hugged him. i knew he was in Heaven in those dreams, just felt it. and Heaven wasn't much different from here. just kinda hazy white around the images. i don't remember them much now, but i always shared my dreams with my aunt (his mother). i think he probably must be doing fine now and know that i'm ok because i haven't seen him in awhile. |
01-11-2011, 04:16 PM | #12 | |
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01-11-2011, 04:18 PM | #13 | |
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01-11-2011, 05:25 PM | #14 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | I have dreamt of my Mom many, many times. She died when I was 21, and she was 44 (she was sick 1.5 yrs before she died, during which I took care of her). Some dreams are very disturbing...in that, maybe they're about reliving her illness/trying to resolve something there. However, other dreams seem to be more airy, more about comfort. I've had a flying dream with her too, which was amazing. I've dreamt about her with things that have actually happened in the past, and I've dreamt about her as if she were living. I've also dreamt many times of my late cat, Einstein. She was the most precious baby, and I loved her so dearly. She has talked to me in my dreams, cuddled with me, followed me around...just all kinds of stuff. I can't say what it all means, but I do get something positive about dreaming from those who are no longer here. Maybe your Dad is telling you that he's always there with you, no matter where you are .
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