A couple months after his passing, I was still a wreck. I was sleeping, something woke me up, I sat up, my back to my headboard. For some reason I just sat there. My door was almost closed, it had a little crack, I looked I saw a white blury image. I just sat there, the white blury image came closer to me, it came in my room. Then I saw my Dad's face on this white blur, I then realized this was MY DAD. He came closer, all the way up to me. he stopped and looked at me. I thought I was dreaming, I pinched myself, I felt it. I knew I wasn’t dreaming. I asked my Dad, “why did you leave me, I miss you so much.” He said “ its ok, I am always here, I am always around you, I love you.” When he was saying this his mouth wasn’t moving, it was like his words were transferred in my head..( he use to always make a fist and touch the side of my face with it) he then touched the side of my cheek. As SOON as he touch me I felt soo unbelievable, I felt loved, My whole body was at peace. Even my mind. That was it, after he touched me he went away, I watched him, I saw him go into my brothers room..
The next morning when I woke up I first asked my Mom or My brother if they had any dreams of Dad, they said No. I told my Mom what happened. She said that I was very lucky, she said my Dad knew I needed him, I needed to see him for the last time, and thats why he came to me.
I would give anything to have that happen to me again! To see his face and hear his voice, feel the touch was unbelievable![/QUOTE]
I had a very similar experience. My mom passed away 4 years ago. She was 91. I had a very, very hard time accepting her loss. A couple of weeks after she passed I had a dream she was there singing "You are my sunshine". She looked so happy and much younger. I woke up and swore she had really been there. I had forgotten about that song. She used to sing "You are my sunshine" to my daughters when they were little. I felt such peace inside to think she was happy. It never happened again.
I believe what your mother said. I think we needed to see them and know they were ok. |