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01-08-2010, 02:39 PM | #1 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Greenville,North Carolina, US
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| Need advice on living situation... I will try and make this as short as possible but I am going to start form the beginning... Last year my best friend found herself in a huge prediciment when her apartment fell through a few months before she was supposed to move in with some friends. I broke my lease at another place and we decided to find a place together. It was a big risk to give up my place not knowing if I could find another but there was NO way I was leaving my best friend homeless.Luckily we found a wonderful place we love! Now a year later, my boyfriend has found himself with the need to find a new place to live...Just some background info: my best friend,boyfriend and I are best friends. He basicially lives with us now and she is perfectly okay with that. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years so this is not a fling....We have all discussed getting a house together after graduation so us three living together has been brought up before...Anyway I am thinking of speeding of the process a little bit and thinking of asking my best friend if she would like to get a 3 bedroom duplex...My boyfriend and I have found brand spanking new place with hardwood floors, huge fenced in back yard, security system,etc...It is just as nice as the apartment I am in now and the rent is even more affordable. I really think She would love it but I am nervous to ask her to move again...do you think this is selfish for me to ask of her?
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01-08-2010, 02:47 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Weymouth, Ma
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| I think it would be fine!!! Maybe she will be excited too , if there is more room , then there is more privacy , however you have to prepare yourself for her to say, why dont I keep this place and find a new room mate and you two take the house!! If you truely want her to come with you then I would involve her as much as possible into the decision making of the new place. The fence , the back yard , more space , more rooms ect.. all sound wonderful... maybe she will be excited!!
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01-08-2010, 02:50 PM | #3 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Greenville,North Carolina, US
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| that is what I am hoping...she is form the country so I am thinking the backyard will sell it for her...everything about it so far is perfect, I haven't found anything we don't like and for me dogs I am just intching for a yard for them....I just want to make sure I am not getting carried away and not thinking of anyone else... Oh and if she was completely against the idea and didn't want to move I don't think id leave...we are too close
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01-08-2010, 06:53 PM | #4 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I think it sounds like a great idea. You could ask her what she thinks about moving to a duplex and take it from there. I don't think you are being selfish. You broke your lease so she wouldn't end up homeless. Keep us posted.
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01-08-2010, 09:59 PM | #5 |
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| Sounds like a win-win to me. And with the economy the way it is, anything more affordable is a HUGE plus. |
01-08-2010, 11:33 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 7000 Club Member | I must say that it sounds like you 3 must have a lot of fun together. What a great relationship/friendship! I definitely think you should talk to her about it! Sounds like a win-win to me. It's inconvenient to move, of course, but it's a matter of whether or not it'll be worth it when you get to your new place, and from the sounds of it you think it will be. Best of luck to you!
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01-10-2010, 06:49 PM | #7 |
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| It doesn't sound like there would be a problem, if the three of you are living together in harmony. I would ask her if she would like to see the new house rather than tell her that you and your bf found another place, that way she doesn't feel left out of the loop, especially since your bf was the last to move in. As long as everyone is in agreement, that's all that matters! Good luck!
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01-10-2010, 07:14 PM | #8 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Crofton, MD, USA
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| I think it'd be a good idea for all of you, and since you said it is more affordable, if one person happened to have to leave for unforeseeable circumstances two people might be able to afford it. And the pups would love the backyard |
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