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Lee B · 12-30-2009, 04:18 AM

I lost my husband of 20 years, MY soulmate, at the end of July. I was happy before we met, but after I met him, I was complete. I didn't know before then that I wasn't "whole". Now that he's gone, there's a hole in my being that didn't exist before - his loss is very close to unbearable.

So I know how you feel, how great the loss is. And you have young children, too. You have to keep strong for them, even when you want to fall in a boneless, empty heap on the floor. I hope you have family, friends - some sort of support system. You'll need them.

I hope you have lots of pictures of all of you together. Maybe putting them in order, in a scrapbook for the kids later on, reliving the happy times will help you through this.

The Holidays are the worst, and your loss is fresh. I hope you can find peace soon. Hold your children close ... they are a part of him.

Micah my love · 12-30-2009, 04:20 AM

I am so sorry hugs to you & your children

loveyorks · 12-30-2009, 04:23 AM

I'm not very good with words, so I'll just wish you strength so you can carry on. My deepest condolences.

jenn1381 · 12-30-2009, 04:28 AM

I am so, so sorry... big hugs to you... I wish there were words to make the pain go away...

Shelby&Seymour · 12-30-2009, 05:01 AM

I am sorry about your loss.

Lorrainelola · 12-30-2009, 05:02 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how it must be for you and your children. I do hope you have close friends and family around you. You have us here if you ever need to talk. Sometimes its easier to talk to people you don't really know. Take care my thoughts are with you. x x x

Bianca · 12-30-2009, 05:08 AM

That is absolutely horrible and heartbreaking. I am SO SO sorry, I can't even imagine your pain. I don't know what to say except please accept my condolences. You and yours are in my prayers and thoughts.

rx8holly · 12-30-2009, 05:11 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

TeresaM · 12-30-2009, 05:22 AM

I know there aren't any words that will help to ease your pain. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I just hope that knowing there are so many people here who care will help to bring some comfort. I will keep you and your children in my prayers.

danyellm · 12-30-2009, 05:22 AM

I am sorry for your loss.

BonBon · 12-30-2009, 05:45 AM

I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your children in my prayers.

tjdmom · 12-30-2009, 06:00 AM

It is so hard to lose those we love. I'm so sorry....
I'm posting a video of a song that has brought me some comfort...
hope it helps you to!

YouTube - To Where You Are (Marx/Thompson) - Josh...

Darlene68 · 12-30-2009, 06:05 AM

I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

kjc · 12-30-2009, 06:52 AM

OMG! This is just too sad....you poor dear, of course I'll pray for you and your children. Sending prayers, hugs and love ... Kathy

Neenagh · 12-30-2009, 06:55 AM

Oh my, I am SO SORRY for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be in. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
With heartfelt sympathy,

12-30-2009, 04:20 AM	#17
Micah my love Donating YT 100K Club Member & Top YorkieTalk Poster! Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: western KY Posts: 108,935	I am so sorry hugs to you & your children __________________ Betty & Micah my love + Yogi

12-30-2009, 04:23 AM	#18
loveyorks YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Montreal, Qc Posts: 428	I'm not very good with words, so I'll just wish you strength so you can carry on. My deepest condolences. __________________ LoveYorks (Aggie) slave to; Chewy Choupette Tucson Sunny

12-30-2009, 04:28 AM	#19
jenn1381 YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Barrie, Ontario, Canada Posts: 427	I am so, so sorry... big hugs to you... I wish there were words to make the pain go away... __________________ Oliver & Mya are my

12-30-2009, 05:01 AM	#20
Shelby&Seymour "& Seeger, too" Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Central Kentucky Posts: 5,169	*I am sorry about your loss.* __________________ Happy Fall Y'all! 🎃

12-30-2009, 05:22 AM	#24
TeresaM Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: TX Posts: 3,358	I know there aren't any words that will help to ease your pain. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I just hope that knowing there are so many people here who care will help to bring some comfort. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. __________________ If you think dogs can't count, put 3 biscuits in your pocket, then give him only 2. Gracie Ruth & Boo & Yogi & RIP Annie B. & Bonnie Lane

12-30-2009, 04:18 AM	#16
Lee B YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Land O' Lakes, FL Posts: 735	I lost my husband of 20 years, MY soulmate, at the end of July. I was happy before we met, but after I met him, I was complete. I didn't know before then that I wasn't "whole". Now that he's gone, there's a hole in my being that didn't exist before - his loss is very close to unbearable. So I know how you feel, how great the loss is. And you have young children, too. You have to keep strong for them, even when you want to fall in a boneless, empty heap on the floor. I hope you have family, friends - some sort of support system. You'll need them. I hope you have lots of pictures of all of you together. Maybe putting them in order, in a scrapbook for the kids later on, reliving the happy times will help you through this. The Holidays are the worst, and your loss is fresh. I hope you can find peace soon. Hold your children close ... they are a part of him.

12-30-2009, 05:02 AM	#21
Lorrainelola YT Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Hampshire England Posts: 279	I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how it must be for you and your children. I do hope you have close friends and family around you. You have us here if you ever need to talk. Sometimes its easier to talk to people you don't really know. Take care my thoughts are with you. x x x

12-30-2009, 05:08 AM	#22
Bianca No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Posts: 761	That is absolutely horrible and heartbreaking. I am SO SO sorry, I can't even imagine your pain. I don't know what to say except please accept my condolences. You and yours are in my prayers and thoughts.

12-30-2009, 05:11 AM	#23
rx8holly Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 425	I am so sorry for your loss.

12-30-2009, 05:22 AM	#25
danyellm Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: ny Posts: 761	I am sorry for your loss. __________________ Danyell yipyapyorkies.com Getting a Yorkie is our only chance to choose a relative

12-30-2009, 05:45 AM	#26
BonBon Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: With my yorkies Posts: 10,350	I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. __________________ He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. -- Author Unknown

12-30-2009, 06:05 AM	#28
Darlene68 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 4,923	I am so terribly sorry for your loss. __________________ Darlene Bailey Blu & Jesse Bee

12-30-2009, 06:52 AM	#29
kjc I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 18,872	OMG! This is just too sad....you poor dear, of course I'll pray for you and your children. Sending prayers, hugs and love ... Kathy __________________ Kat Chloe Lizzy PeekABooTinkerbell SapphireInfinity

12-30-2009, 06:55 AM	#30
Neenagh Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: windsor, on, canada Posts: 123	Oh my, I am SO SORRY for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be in. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. With heartfelt sympathy, __________________ Neenagh and Lupo (my little wolf!)