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LoveMyBaby · 09-14-2005, 07:22 AM

oh my... what im stuck on is y would he want to go to AC during a weekday?
did his buddies go too? Men would think you were over reacting b/c he dont sweat things like we do .. but i dont think you are.. that was very inconsiderate of him for doing that to you CONSIDERING the fact that you actually said yes lets go...
so sorry hun.. has he called you this morn?

oh p.s. the ecollar the vet charged me 10 friggin bucks for that piece of chit.. can u believe that!!!!!!

luzangela428 · 09-14-2005, 07:37 AM

No just us...but this is his "weekend"..and his stingy a** doesn't like ot go on the REAL weekend because he says the bets are too high...no he hasn't called me..but I made sure to bang every door, cabinet, dish and everything else this morning...that way he could wake up at 6:30 too...I then wrote him a nasty note..and told him he should stay by his mother's....

schatzie · 09-14-2005, 08:15 AM

I feel you are not over reacting...You are worthy of being treated with respect and care. Being left alone is not only dangerous but shows lack of care and concern for you.

You can decide how YOU want to be treated and expect nothing less.

Good luck and please don't stay in a car by yourself late at night alone again.

lily's mom · 09-14-2005, 08:25 AM

I know you were joking, but you are more than welcome here!!!!!!!!! That would be just awesome to have you and Mr. Maximus.

shecass · 09-14-2005, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by luzangela428

BECAUSE I am pissed!!!..Last night after work my bf's mother came home from her job and asked if she could babysit Maximus...so I wonder why would she ask that....well my bf wanted to go drive to a/c so he had asked her if she could watch Maximus and we would pick him up in the morning....she called to ask me if it was okay. SO fine I say okay...it is about 7:00 when we get there and we start playing...mind you I have work the next day (today) and we are driving back...my contacts start irritating my eyes..I am LOSING...and I am TIRED..at 11:30..I ask if we can go...no still playing..at 12:00 I ask if we can go..in a few minutes...well at 12:30..I tell him give me the keys and I will go to the car and close my eyes for a few minutes...just meet me there..well I go to the car and close my eyes and wake up at 1:30..still no sign of my bf....cell phones don't work in there and his is in the car anyways..so I close my eyes again and this time wake up it is 2:45....he left me in the friggin car for over 2 hours...so I stomped in there and was like "are you ******* joking me"..he was like I thought you were sleeping....would you just leave your girlfriend sleeping in the car for 2 hours and not even think anything is wrong..I FLIPPED out last night in front of everyone at the table I went back to the car...and didn't speak to him for the rest of the night..as soon as we got hom he was trying to hug me and whatever...no apology so I told him to kiss my a**...and I am about 90% less pissed thenm I was last night...but I am still livid...I am a taurus..it takes alot to get me mad but once I am look for cover...do you think I am over reacting???....did I mention I woke up to a strange guy peeing by the car the second time (grrrr!!!!!!!!!!1)

You were a lot nicer than I would have been. I would have probably packed my bags got my dog & left.

You have every right to be as pissed as you are.

sunshine22 · 09-14-2005, 08:42 AM

I think you should end it.

This may ruffle a few feathers but...
people get hooked on gambling and become
so focused on it that they forget everything and everyone else.
He probably completely lost track of time and really forgot about you.
He was focused on betting.

I've seen it happen.
My father-in-law and my cousin's husband.
It doesn't happen to everyone but when it does,
it devastates their lives forever.
They live to gamble and are like street bums.

Just something to think about.

Kelz · 09-14-2005, 11:08 AM

ohhhh i would've been pissed!

Lexi Rae · 09-14-2005, 11:39 AM

i know what your going through and i feel bad for you. iv been there, done
that. i know your stomach is doing flips... i dont get why men do things like
that to us.... cause we are too good... you should be mad. i would be so upset..he should of never left his woman by herself (anywhere) alone, at
night especially 2hrs or so away from home. its just not right..

vainchick5 · 09-14-2005, 11:42 AM

Sam you know how I feel about it, after talking to you. This is the type of crap that made me breakup with my ex. He was a nice guy but was a bit too selfish. That's just how he's been raised sam and nothing you or anyone else can do to change that. It might provide a temporary change but nothing permanent. He will have to find someone that will put up with that bull****. I really believe what Dermot said (dang he's hot) in Wedding Date, "EVERY WOMAN HAS THE EXACT LOVE LIFE SHE WANTS.." OR at least thinks she wants. Don't let THIS kind of behavior be what you want in a relationship. There is no reason you should HAVE to adapt to his selfishness because he's an only child. That is not an excuse, it may have been when he was 12 but hopefully he's not that young anymore. DUMP HIM and move here so we can go accept new man applications together.

Lexi Rae · 09-14-2005, 11:49 AM

hey count me in on that application, i think you should come to
ny to fill it out with us.

vainchick5 · 09-14-2005, 11:55 AM

Haha...honey I CREATED the application and it applies to CALI boyz...I don't know NY boys..you both gotta come here..hehe (im a tricky gal)

suzysmitt · 09-14-2005, 03:03 PM

That was totally inconsiderate, and I'd seriously think about giving him his walking papers.

09-14-2005, 07:22 AM	#16
LoveMyBaby My Teeny Lil Super Guy Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 1,177	oh my... what im stuck on is y would he want to go to AC during a weekday? did his buddies go too? Men would think you were over reacting b/c he dont sweat things like we do .. but i dont think you are.. that was very inconsiderate of him for doing that to you CONSIDERING the fact that you actually said yes lets go... so sorry hun.. has he called you this morn? oh p.s. the ecollar the vet charged me 10 friggin bucks for that piece of chit.. can u believe that!!!!!! __________________ Judy and Chicle http://www.yorkietalk.com/gallery/sh...00&ppuser=3282 check out his Dogster page ... new pic added and diary entry

09-14-2005, 07:37 AM	#17
luzangela428 Maximus "Lily's Love Slave" Join Date: May 2005 Location: san ramon, ca Posts: 2,368	No just us...but this is his "weekend"..and his stingy a** doesn't like ot go on the REAL weekend because he says the bets are too high...no he hasn't called me..but I made sure to bang every door, cabinet, dish and everything else this morning...that way he could wake up at 6:30 too...I then wrote him a nasty note..and told him he should stay by his mother's.... __________________ http://www.dogster.com/?148186 Maximus' Album: http://www.yorkietalk.com/gallery/sh...=1&ppuser=2303 Maximus Woves Lily

09-14-2005, 08:15 AM	#18
schatzie *Moderator Emeritus* Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Tontitown Arkansas Posts: 4,909	I feel you are not over reacting...You are worthy of being treated with respect and care. Being left alone is not only dangerous but shows lack of care and concern for you. You can decide how YOU want to be treated and expect nothing less. Good luck and please don't stay in a car by yourself late at night alone again. __________________ ~~~~ Schatzie and Ransom ~~~~

09-14-2005, 08:25 AM	#19
lily's mom Lily Loves Maximus Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,633	I know you were joking, but you are more than welcome here!!!!!!!!! That would be just awesome to have you and Mr. Maximus. __________________ Lily and Dawn

09-14-2005, 08:42 AM	#21
sunshine22 YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 388	I think you should end it. This may ruffle a few feathers but... people get hooked on gambling and become so focused on it that they forget everything and everyone else. He probably completely lost track of time and really forgot about you. He was focused on betting. I've seen it happen. My father-in-law and my cousin's husband. It doesn't happen to everyone but when it does, it devastates their lives forever. They live to gamble and are like street bums. Just something to think about. __________________ I my little Sunshine ...!

09-14-2005, 11:08 AM	#22
Kelz YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Yukon, ok Posts: 2,885	ohhhh i would've been pissed! __________________ Kelly- momma to Parker, Star,Zoe, & Kegan.. RIP Silly Lily OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org

09-14-2005, 11:39 AM	#23
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	i know what your going through and i feel bad for you. iv been there, done that. i know your stomach is doing flips... i dont get why men do things like that to us.... cause we are too good... you should be mad. i would be so upset..he should of never left his woman by herself (anywhere) alone, at night especially 2hrs or so away from home. its just not right..

09-14-2005, 11:42 AM	#24
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	Sam you know how I feel about it, after talking to you. This is the type of crap that made me breakup with my ex. He was a nice guy but was a bit too selfish. That's just how he's been raised sam and nothing you or anyone else can do to change that. It might provide a temporary change but nothing permanent. He will have to find someone that will put up with that bull****. I really believe what Dermot said (dang he's hot) in Wedding Date, "EVERY WOMAN HAS THE EXACT LOVE LIFE SHE WANTS.." OR at least thinks she wants. Don't let THIS kind of behavior be what you want in a relationship. There is no reason you should HAVE to adapt to his selfishness because he's an only child. That is not an excuse, it may have been when he was 12 but hopefully he's not that young anymore. DUMP HIM and move here so we can go accept new man applications together. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

09-14-2005, 11:49 AM	#25
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	hey count me in on that application, i think you should come to ny to fill it out with us.

09-14-2005, 11:55 AM	#26
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	Haha...honey I CREATED the application and it applies to CALI boyz...I don't know NY boys..you both gotta come here..hehe (im a tricky gal) __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

09-14-2005, 03:03 PM	#27
suzysmitt Currently Suspended! Join Date: May 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,150	That was totally inconsiderate, and I'd seriously think about giving him his walking papers.