How long did it take to know that was THE ONE?

[amandawash]

Awwww, I am sorry that happened but oh-so-glad that you found out before you got really serious about him.

It's Ok! Things will be great! You are now one guy closer to meeting the man of your dreams!!

GOOD LUCK and always go with your instincts- sounds like you have some good ones!!

[DukesMommy]

Originally Posted by Gracie2006

I'm happy I found it before things got too far as well. I think I will stick with paid only dating sites. I doubt perverts would be too willing to pay to play. Will probably higher a PI to do a background check on anyone I think I might get serious about. A strange thing happened. A soldier's photo ended up on my laptop's desktop, with his name. I don't know who he is or where he came from, it looks like it was downloaded about the time I got a bunch of viruses and malware from somewhere. He's really creepy looking. I'm going to do some research on his name.

But one good thing came of this. We have a wonderful thread full of love stories for Valentine's Day!

That's way creepy that your desktop changed and everything. Ick there's some major weirdos out there! That's true though about the paid sites, at least I would hope that the sickos wouldn't want to pay to harass people.
My mom's boss uses E-Harmony and seems to like it.

[chloesMama]

I'm glad you found out about him before things progressed to far. There are alot of not so great , sketchy , weird guys out there ....I should know ...I dated alot of them and my ex-husband was the king and glorified exalted leader of DUMBASS men

But you will meet a great guy. They always come around when you least expect it When I met my hubby ( my hubby now , not the first dh) he was not my normal type ( he was a decent guy...not something I was use to) He was mellow , fun loving , hard working and wanted nothing more than a family...so of course I did the natural thing and ran like hell away But fate and love won out in the end and it will for you also

[wemple2]

My hubby and I were friends for years, hung around with the same group of friends...but we never dated or had any romantic ties what-so-ever, as a matter of fact we both were dating others. But when my then boyfriend and I broke up and I was feeling so depressed...my future hubby sent me roses with a note saying that he was sorry to hear that my heart was broken. We've been together now 35 years...married for 29 of those years.

[alishasmom]

I met my husband at work. in all jobs, there are two employees that hate each other. We were those two. I almost got fired because of his many complaints about me. I dont know why we got married. I guess I is revenge time. But nowadays he won't stop saying how much he loves me

[hviola]

I met my husband at a friends get-together. We talked all night that night, and made a date. After our third date, I told my best friend "I wish he was my husband!". lol. I was so head over heels for him. Six months later he proposed to me on valentines day and we were married by May. That was 1 1/2 years ago. There is no doubt in my mind that this will be a long lasting healthy relationship.