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12-11-2008, 10:52 AM | #1 |
YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: rochester,ny
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| guys i really need your help little background...my hubby and his exbest friend got itno a fight...and i work with the ex bestfriends girlfriend... there is a company party next week...and my hhubby is comming and her boyfriend is commin...and when she just got a wind of this she emailed her boyfriend...and he called me threatening me at work infront of her tellng me if me and my hubby come to the arty he will personally do something to us ..and i called the cops for harrasment and i want a restraining order.... I dont know what to do...help guys what do i do? this has gotten out of hand...police are going to be comming to my job..and im in tears...and alll this b*tch can say is about supposibly my hubby has been with his exgirlfriend with him while we have been together up here..sigh i dont know...im so lost right now
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12-11-2008, 11:23 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | The first thing is to make sure you are both safe. Your employer may have to get involved to make sure he does not get in to your place of work. Hopefully your employer will be supportive. Then you need to have a serious talk with your husband to see what is going on. Good luck
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12-11-2008, 11:42 AM | #3 |
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| well...cops came..civil matter because i was not the one physically threatened...so thank you so much for your reply...and hopefully this will work out
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12-11-2008, 01:09 PM | #4 |
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| So his exfriend thinks that your hubby cheated on your with his girlfriend? Is that the story? He won't do anything at the party.... if he does he'll be the one kicked out and someone will call the cops on him. Just tell your hubby not to fight back so that he does not get in trouble also. He is hoping that his threat will make you guys not come, don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he can run an aspect of YOUR life. Go to the party both of you. Stand up for yourselves and don't let HIM ruin your night. Thats all he wants.
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12-11-2008, 01:23 PM | #5 |
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| the story is that we all went to a clam bake...and the exbestfriend was upset that my hubby said to his girlfriend that he is not the best guy around because she was tryin to say to my hubby that he wasnt a good hubby at all to me. so she thought that ment her bf was cheating on her...so the bf threw us out of the party.. that was in august...so since then we all dont talk. but no that there is a christmas party that me and my hubby plan on going to and she threw a hissy fit emailed her boyfriend and had her boyfriend threaten me over the phone ..so i called my hubby told him what his exfriend did to me and in the background the girlfriend said I should tell her that her hubby saw his ex.and i told him because i know she is lieing and hubby wouldnt do that to me (it jst stems from her bf actually being the one cheating on her...she recieved chlamydia(sp) from him because of it...so she prolly upset and tryin to hurt me ??). so i called cops in tears because I was so upset...cops came and my hubby came to my job because I needed my rock and we told the cops we dont want any problems and we want to be civil and they are not. they are still being little kids....if we go they wont go..and my manager has had enough and said that WE ARE welcomed and just because I am part time does not mean i have to be treated this way. ----
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12-11-2008, 01:31 PM | #6 |
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| Wait.. Didn't you recently post a thread about your husband taking pictures with a random girl at a club? You have one dramatic life.
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12-11-2008, 01:39 PM | #7 |
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| yes that is me! ...dramatic is not the word..this girl is suing me (for gifts she gave us), her bf got his dad to evict us...and it never ends with these people..so im tryin to leave this job and get a better one...and then im done with them! just because....get this...the boyfriend is actually a cheater and my hubby called him out on it..
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12-11-2008, 01:53 PM | #8 |
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| Wow! You have WAY too much drama in your life girl! I couldn't deal, that's for sure.
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12-11-2008, 02:10 PM | #9 |
YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: rochester,ny
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| I really dont know how I havent gone crazy lol...but hubby really showed his father bear today. protected me even spoke to his exbestfriend and told him it needs to stop..and he was my rock today...things are getting better with us...its just the world, and people around us that is hectic.. but we have a new apartment and we are so excited bout it!
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12-11-2008, 04:25 PM | #10 |
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| Don't give them the satisfaction of reacting to their juvenile games. Be the better person (couple) and just ignore them. If they cause a scene it's on them. Let them embarrass themselves and don't stoop to their level.
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12-11-2008, 06:24 PM | #11 |
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