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2Parises · 01-01-2008, 03:00 PM

I read the post...I read a lot of posts today... more than I usually have time to and I am a bit shocked at the number of "passive aggressive" attacks on people...and those that are downright nasty. Shame on some of you. That's why there are so many people with so few posts. They are afraid to say anything for fear of getting jumped on by the pack of hyenas.

daisy mae06 · 01-01-2008, 03:03 PM

Deb You know how I feel. But I will tell here.
I feel that if some one has a For sale thread that is what is is it is not a debate/bash/put down thread! If you have a View of the Breeder and want to tell all then do so in the Review section. If you don't like the prices or practices Then leave the thread alone.
there thread is not the place to try to educate.
I really think some people feel that it is OK to Be Rude and demeaning to People.

Why do people have to be hurtful????

Nat I am Really sorry you were hurt by these People.

tiggerr36792 · 01-01-2008, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by mistyinca

While I, too, disagree with the sale of tinies for such high prices, I do think that all the questioning posts should have been removed from that thread. I think admin should uphold the integrity of the featured breeders forum by making people stick to the rules of that forum. After all, I understand that they are required to pay $50/year for the priviledge of posting ads in that forum. By those requirements alone, I think admin does have a responsibility to uphold the policies of that forum--whether or not I or anyone else agrees with the practices of any particular breeder.

Just my $.02, fwiw

Yes it was taken care of as always Admin was ontop of it!!

Doodlebug · 01-01-2008, 03:05 PM

I just looked at the puppies and they are the cutest Yorkie puppies I have ever seen. I didn't read the thread, just saw the pictures. I hope the breeder stays here, she sounds like a great asset to YT.

red98vett · 01-01-2008, 03:08 PM

OUCH ! I got deleted and I posted about my Chanel's breeder and the experience we had with coccidia - but I didn't post anything regarding your friend - Heck - I've never seen her website -

I see ALOT of posts got the boot

tiggerr36792 · 01-01-2008, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

OUCH ! I got deleted and I posted about my Chanel's breeder and the experience we had with coccidia - but I didn't post anything regarding your friend - Heck - I've never seen her website -

I see ALOT of posts got the boot

V- Read the featured breeders rules hun especially # 4. Your thread was deleted because it wasn't following the rules, not because you said anything rude.

red98vett · 01-01-2008, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792

V- Read the featured breeders rules hun especially # 4. Your thread was deleted because it wasn't following the rules, not because you said anything rude.

Thanks - I always forget we can't comment in that section -

patty58 · 01-01-2008, 03:47 PM

I am sorry she got slammed. It is a very hurtful practice of some people and I hate it. I am the first to admit that I am not a very knowledgable person regarding much of anything

but I would hate to get slammed for something I was doing. I know she isn't a newbie but I have seen several new people run off because maybe they posted in a wrong forum and someone jumped their butt or asked a question that rubbed someone the wrong way. Like Thumper's daddy says....if you can't say something nice, don't say nuthin' at all. Let's just all get along and love our babies.

Yorkie3 · 01-01-2008, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792

Why do people always assume the worst in a person or breeder without having proper knowledge. I am appaulled at how my friend has been attacked on her for sale thread and do not understand why othesr felt the need to continue to put her down. She is absolutely the sweetest, kindest, honest and most caring person I have had the pleasure of knowing yet she has been put down by people who don't know a thing about her or her breeding techniques.

I had her join YT because I love it here and have never had problems such as this, yet I sit here crying because I am so hurt by this recent attack. Natalie I am so sorry for all these rude and uncalled for comments by others here and can tell you I don't know how else to fix this for you but to say I am soooo very sorry!!

Here is a quote from someone who actually knows her as well as I do and I totally agree with them on this: http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...6&postcount=51

I'm sorry your friend was attacked so harshly. I think you're very lucky to have someone with such class and graciousness in your life and thank you for inviting her to YT. We need more people like her and with her experience.
Glad to have you here Natalie, your dogs are beautiful.

abbey46923 · 01-01-2008, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Yorkie3

I'm sorry your friend was attacked so harshly. I think you're very lucky to have someone with such class and graciousness in your life and thank you for inviting her to YT. We need more people like her and with her experience.
Glad to have you here Natalie, your dogs are beautiful.

MyFairLacy · 01-01-2008, 07:59 PM

Of course no one should be attacked, but a reputable yorkie breeder should be following the YTCA's codes of ethics and standard. With all the misconception about "teacup" yorkies that the public has (most are very uneducated about there being no such thing), there has to be someone that will stand up and point out red flags to potential buyers. Rules are rules on this forum so I can understand all the posts being deleted, but I wish this site would have more requirements for "featured breeders".

daisy mae06 · 01-01-2008, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by MyFairLacy

Of course no one should be attacked, but a reputable yorkie breeder should be following the YTCA's codes of ethics and standard. With all the misconception about "teacup" yorkies that the public has (most are very uneducated about there being no such thing), there has to be someone that will stand up and point out red flags to potential buyers. Rules are rules on this forum so I can understand all the posts being deleted, but I wish this site would have more requirements for "featured breeders".

Michelle .
If Member has A issue with a breeder that is what the review Forum is for.

Deb Stated she was appalled by people attacking her friend on her for sale thread. That is exactly what happened and it was WRONG period!
If you have a beef with a breeder Fine put in Review but if you don't know that breeder and just don't like the breeder or her (ways) then stay off the for sale thread for that breeder...
I don't see how that Rule is so hard to follow for grownups??

Tinker'sMommy · 01-02-2008, 12:22 AM

I didn't post on her thread but her yorkies are beautiful.......oh well they are pricey.....most breeders here on YT that have tinies charge that much

Even on their websites they state how they are priced by size

What is the deal?? Also, I didn't see anyone asking for more info or reviews on the breeder, not once did I see a potential buyer ask if she was a reputable breeder

Why attack her because you dont like her prices

I love her yorkies but if I dont have the money to buy her babies.........I simply look and leave

JUst my .02

hooliacasa · 01-02-2008, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by 2Parises

I read the post...I read a lot of posts today... more than I usually have time to and I am a bit shocked at the number of "passive aggressive" attacks on people...and those that are downright nasty. Shame on some of you. That's why there are so many people with so few posts. They are afraid to say anything for fear of getting jumped on by the pack of hyenas.

Amen to that sister. I joined this group well over a year ago and was all gungho about getting on here and talking to other yorkie lovers but the BASHING OMG - I couldn't believe it. I am now a surfer for the most part. I'm not a breeder but I absolutely adore my yorkies. I do love this site for the information on it but I totally gave up trying to 'make friends' on this site.

ryorkies · 01-02-2008, 08:12 AM

I came to this site to LEARN and to SHARE my obsession with the Yorkie breed and when I see any kind of hurtful posting it really annoys me and I usually " Change the Channel ", but I guess there is a time when one feels they must speak up and this is mine. There are ways to educate without hurting anyone's feelings and if we were all PERFECT ... we wouldn't be here attempting to learn more. Sure, I could get turned off and leave YT altogether, but I have also learned that there are those here that will overlook the fact that you might not know what everyone thinks you should already know and then they take the time to educate you with open hearts and minds.
THIS is what I LOVE about YT and why I will stay and learn as much as possible.

01-01-2008, 03:00 PM	#16
2Parises Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Michigan Posts: 951	I read the post...I read a lot of posts today... more than I usually have time to and I am a bit shocked at the number of "passive aggressive" attacks on people...and those that are downright nasty. Shame on some of you. That's why there are so many people with so few posts. They are afraid to say anything for fear of getting jumped on by the pack of hyenas. __________________ Lorene, Paris, Paris, Samira, Aja and the newest addition to our family... Halle Belly Bands & Rag Quilts - http://2Parises.etsy.com

01-01-2008, 03:03 PM	#17
daisy mae06 Kodi & Pixie 2 Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: NEBRASKA Posts: 14,766	Deb You know how I feel. But I will tell here. I feel that if some one has a For sale thread that is what is is it is not a debate/bash/put down thread! If you have a View of the Breeder and want to tell all then do so in the Review section. If you don't like the prices or practices Then leave the thread alone. there thread is not the place to try to educate. I really think some people feel that it is OK to Be Rude and demeaning to People. Why do people have to be hurtful???? Nat I am Really sorry you were hurt by these People. __________________ OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org LorisCritterSitter.com

01-01-2008, 03:05 PM	#19
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	I just looked at the puppies and they are the cutest Yorkie puppies I have ever seen. I didn't read the thread, just saw the pictures. I hope the breeder stays here, she sounds like a great asset to YT. __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

01-01-2008, 03:08 PM	#20
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	OUCH ! I got deleted and I posted about my Chanel's breeder and the experience we had with coccidia - but I didn't post anything regarding your friend - Heck - I've never seen her website - I see ALOT of posts got the boot __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

01-01-2008, 03:47 PM	#23
patty58 Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 5,272	I am sorry she got slammed. It is a very hurtful practice of some people and I hate it. I am the first to admit that I am not a very knowledgable person regarding much of anything but I would hate to get slammed for something I was doing. I know she isn't a newbie but I have seen several new people run off because maybe they posted in a wrong forum and someone jumped their butt or asked a question that rubbed someone the wrong way. Like Thumper's daddy says....if you can't say something nice, don't say nuthin' at all. Let's just all get along and love our babies. __________________ Decide To Make It A Good Day

01-01-2008, 07:59 PM	#26
MyFairLacy Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: DFW, Texas Posts: 11,003	Of course no one should be attacked, but a reputable yorkie breeder should be following the YTCA's codes of ethics and standard. With all the misconception about "teacup" yorkies that the public has (most are very uneducated about there being no such thing), there has to be someone that will stand up and point out red flags to potential buyers. Rules are rules on this forum so I can understand all the posts being deleted, but I wish this site would have more requirements for "featured breeders". __________________ ~Magnifique Yorkies~ Purchasing from backyard breeders, pet shops, and puppymills perpetuates the suffering of other dogs. Educate yourself and buy from reputable breeders or rescue.

01-02-2008, 12:22 AM	#28
Tinker'sMommy YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas Posts: 2,107	I didn't post on her thread but her yorkies are beautiful.......oh well they are pricey.....most breeders here on YT that have tinies charge that much Even on their websites they state how they are priced by size What is the deal?? Also, I didn't see anyone asking for more info or reviews on the breeder, not once did I see a potential buyer ask if she was a reputable breeder Why attack her because you dont like her prices I love her yorkies but if I dont have the money to buy her babies.........I simply look and leave JUst my .02 __________________ TINKERBELL, CHIQUITO, AND MOMMY MICKIE

01-02-2008, 08:12 AM	#30
ryorkies No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Yorkieville Posts: 2,860	I came to this site to LEARN and to SHARE my obsession with the Yorkie breed and when I see any kind of hurtful posting it really annoys me and I usually " *Change the Channel* ", but I guess there is a time when one feels they must speak up and this is mine. There are ways to educate without hurting anyone's feelings and if we were all PERFECT ... we wouldn't be here attempting to learn more. Sure, I could get turned off and leave YT altogether, but I have also learned that there are those here that will overlook the fact that you might not know what everyone thinks you should already know and then they take the time to educate you with open hearts and minds. THIS is what I LOVE about YT and why I will stay and learn as much as possible.