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Doodlebug · 01-02-2008, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by LunasMomma

I was even hesitant to post that, that is how bad it's become

You posted what a lot of people see going on but no one wants to come out and speak up about it. I'm sorry but I just had to speak out here and back you up when I saw your post.

tiggerr36792 · 01-02-2008, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Doodlebug

You posted what a lot of people see going on but no one wants to come out and speak up about it. I'm sorry but I just had to speak out here and back you up when I saw your post.

Well I am here to say we need to back each other up!

Buddy-licious · 01-02-2008, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792

That's why we all need to speak up and make sure no one is being attacked here!

I agree....I see it happening everyday on here!!! I was just on another thread and I can see it coming....this new member is getting ready to be attacked!!! She asked a simple question and someone already jumped her....baiting her ...the poor new member has no idea what is about to happen.

Nikki+2 · 01-02-2008, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

I have to say I've seen this also....I don't post as much as I used to.... sometimes it's like walking on egg shells wondering if I worded everything perfectly, I usually just delete my post and say forget it....there does seem to be an agreement that "those few" are making it hard for people to post on here....

That is so funny because I can't tell you how many times I've sat here and typed out a response and then didn't post it.

There certainly are some hot buttons on this forum and when they're pushed, look out!

Nikki+2 · 01-02-2008, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Buddy-licious

I agree....I see it happening everyday on here!!! I was just on another thread and I can see it coming....this new member is getting ready to be attacked!!! She asked a simple question and someone already jumped her....baiting her ...the poor new member has no idea what is about to happen.

Which sub forum?

jp4m2 · 01-02-2008, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Buddy-licious

I agree....I see it happening everyday on here!!! I was just on another thread and I can see it coming....this new member is getting ready to be attacked!!! She asked a simple question and someone already jumped her....baiting her ...the poor new member has no idea what is about to happen.

If it's the one I've saw I seen it coming also....I feel bad when this stuff happens.....

Personally it's doesn't bother me when someone is trying to point something out to the poster, if it's in a decent way, it's the repetition that follows that one post....there doesn't need to be numerous people pointing out the exact same thing thing first poster did....

Just as an observer it looks like the O.P. is getting ganged up on......I can only imagine what the O.P feels like.....

kosoma · 01-02-2008, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792

Why do people always assume the worst in a person or breeder without having proper knowledge.

I would love an answer to this too! The knowledge on this board is amazing....but the one thing that just aggrevates me to no end is when someone posts ONE detail about a breeder (or themselves) and the next post is, 'oh, that's definitely a bad breeder'. It seems like there is a very narrow view of what constitutes a reputable breeder, and the rules often have nothing to do with level of care, time, commitment, and concern for the breed; and are based on someone's idea instead of facts.

I have not been visiting here for long, but have on several occasions considered not coming back just because of the narrowmindedness I have seen. But so far I have been able to keep reminding myself that not everyone is like this....sometimes it just seems like they dominate. And I do think that most people (even those with whose views I disagree) do have right motives.

yougetthesmiles · 01-02-2008, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792

Why do people always assume the worst in a person or breeder without having proper knowledge. I am appaulled at how my friend has been attacked on her for sale thread and do not understand why othesr felt the need to continue to put her down. She is absolutely the sweetest, kindest, honest and most caring person I have had the pleasure of knowing yet she has been put down by people who don't know a thing about her or her breeding techniques.

I had her join YT because I love it here and have never had problems such as this, yet I sit here crying because I am so hurt by this recent attack. Natalie I am so sorry for all these rude and uncalled for comments by others here and can tell you I don't know how else to fix this for you but to say I am soooo very sorry!!

Here is a quote from someone who actually knows her as well as I do and I totally agree with them on this: http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...6&postcount=51

I wish I knew the answer to this question! I also was attacked when I posted that Baby was preggo. I guess you will have those who just like to start crap for no reason. They don't care about others feelings, it's all about them!

xnatalie · 01-02-2008, 04:44 PM

i think it was unfair of everyone to attack her, she has beautiful dogs. i hate when people just assume things without asking..

chazjonz · 01-02-2008, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by LunasMomma

I can tell you why no one speaks up. Because to do so, to speak against a "regular" here, will get you flamed and ostracized. Then that person that you spoke against doesn't get even a slap on the wrist around here. That's why. I've seen it happen on this board, and MANY others

I just try to stay outta crap like that, got NO time for it!

Been lurking for months now, noticed the same thing, no one speaks up because they are afraid,don't know who the special people arebut make sure you don't say anything bad about them,afraid to say anything so we just stay out of it,thats why it keeps happening,got an email 'why don't you post?' this is it. Scared of administrations wishy washy job. Won't post again,just read the good stuff.

Gingergirlsmom · 01-02-2008, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Buddy-licious

I agree....I see it happening everyday on here!!! I was just on another thread and I can see it coming....this new member is getting ready to be attacked!!! She asked a simple question and someone already jumped her....baiting her ...the poor new member has no idea what is about to happen.

Well, can you point us in that direction?

tiggerr36792 · 01-02-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

I wish I knew the answer to this question! I also was attacked when I posted that Baby was preggo. I guess you will have those who just like to start crap for no reason. They don't care about others feelings, it's all about them!

So true and I myself will do my best to make sure people aren't attacked and get the answers they come here for as much as I can. The breeders section is where there are alot of stong opinions and I feel if your asking the questions they deserve answers without having to feel beat up for even asking your question!

Yorkie3 · 01-02-2008, 05:18 PM

When someone sees a hateful post, why not everyone click on the triangle below the avatar and report it. Maybe if they are reported enough for saying such hurtful things they won't be allowed back. YT would be so much better off without the judgmental bashings.

BabyFidgette · 01-02-2008, 05:46 PM

I don't know you, nor do I know the breeder in question. I also didn't read any of the posts that were deleted, but I can figure what they were about.

I believe it is the known "rule" in the YT community (not agreeing or disagreeing, just making a statement

) that reputable breeders breed to better the breed, not to make money. Charging $5000 for a Yorkie seems as if the breeder is making a ton of money ($13,000 to be exact). Also, the breed should be 3-7lbs (I've even seen 4-7lbs). This breeder obviously breeds for tinies. Being that it's not within the standard, this breeder is not attempting to "better the breed," hence why people get upset.

Please know I am NOT condoning bashing and being rude on a forum! I am just saying that a lot of people are very passionate about their beliefs in the standard. I'm not sure if anyone said she was a mean, bad person. She may be the sweetest lady on the face of this earth, but that doesn't mean she has the best breeding practices.

I hope you understand what I mean. I'm not trying to upset anyone. I'm just saying people believe strongly in certain regulations on breeding Yorkies.

KathyinCali · 01-02-2008, 05:53 PM

I read the Natalie thread earlier today and thought that some - and note I said "some" of the same people "BREAKING THE RULES" are those that speak out so strongly in other instances about others breaking the rules. If someone is going to be so vocal and up on the soap box about upholding the rules of this forum then those same people should perhaps spend as much time following the rules than explaining why they aren't. My entitled opinion. I don't care if I'm popular or with the "in" crowd - especially on a forum...lol.

I come on here to share my love of my precious baby with others and their love of their babies and enjoy doing so very much. I will continue to do so.

I am sorry your friend was bashed. She has lovely Yorkies and I wish her the best.

01-02-2008, 04:44 PM	#54
xnatalie Lovin' My Mika-Monster Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: New Jersey Posts: 1,462	i think it was unfair of everyone to attack her, she has beautiful dogs. i hate when people just assume things without asking.. __________________ Mika & Ollie

01-02-2008, 05:18 PM	#58
Yorkie3 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,686	When someone sees a hateful post, why not everyone click on the triangle below the avatar and report it. Maybe if they are reported enough for saying such hurtful things they won't be allowed back. YT would be so much better off without the judgmental bashings. __________________ Janet

01-02-2008, 05:46 PM	#59
BabyFidgette Learn Yorkie CPR! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 6,855	I don't know you, nor do I know the breeder in question. I also didn't read any of the posts that were deleted, but I can figure what they were about. I believe it is the known "rule" in the YT community (not agreeing or disagreeing, just making a statement ) that reputable breeders breed to better the breed, not to make money. Charging $5000 for a Yorkie seems as if the breeder is making a ton of money ($13,000 to be exact). Also, the breed should be 3-7lbs (I've even seen 4-7lbs). This breeder obviously breeds for tinies. Being that it's not within the standard, this breeder is not attempting to "better the breed," hence why people get upset. Please know I am NOT condoning bashing and being rude on a forum! I am just saying that a lot of people are very passionate about their beliefs in the standard. I'm not sure if anyone said she was a mean, bad person. She may be the sweetest lady on the face of this earth, but that doesn't mean she has the best breeding practices. I hope you understand what I mean. I'm not trying to upset anyone. I'm just saying people believe strongly in certain regulations on breeding Yorkies. __________________ Nicole & Baby "The more men I meet, the more I love my Yorkie!"

01-02-2008, 05:53 PM	#60
KathyinCali Love My Li'l Lucy Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Southern California Posts: 6,700	I read the Natalie thread earlier today and thought that some - and note I said "some" of the same people "BREAKING THE RULES" are those that speak out so strongly in other instances about others breaking the rules. If someone is going to be so vocal and up on the soap box about upholding the rules of this forum then those same people should perhaps spend as much time following the rules than explaining why they aren't. My entitled opinion. I don't care if I'm popular or with the "in" crowd - especially on a forum...lol. I come on here to share my love of my precious baby with others and their love of their babies and enjoy doing so very much. I will continue to do so. I am sorry your friend was bashed. She has lovely Yorkies and I wish her the best. __________________ Kathy and Lil' Lucy and Jammies Rest in Peace my Sweet Buster Last edited by KathyinCali; 01-02-2008 at 05:56 PM.