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Old 03-29-2006, 02:22 PM   #1
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It has been over a month since She-Ra passed away. It still feels like a bad dream. Every Wed. I have a bad day, I guess that since she passed on that day, I think of it more. I visit her grave daily, I know she isn't there, but still I go. Everyone says, It will get better, just wait. But when does it?? I haven't hurt this bad since 1995, that is when my best friend died in a car accident. I still "hurt" over his loss. She-Ra was a one of a kind girl. She loved life and everyone in it. She didn't know what a stranger was. Always a mother hen to the puppies she was around. When we got Harley, she mothered him so much, he would hide from her! There are so many good memories, but all I keep thinking is how I should've been a better mom, I should've took her to a different vet as soon as I felt something wasn't right. I live with that regret everyday. It isn't fair. She shouldn't have had to go so soon. I have never loved a dog like I loved her, she was like one of my daughters. Yesterday, I took her sweater and was putting it in my curio, with her collar, and I found little She-Ra hairs in it. Oh how I miss cleaning the bathtub after she got a bath, there was always little black hairs in the drain. Then she would jump out a go crazy in the bathroom, rubbing on anything that would dry her. She was a special dog, never bite or snapped at anyone. Loved my girls and tolerated anything. Her favorite spot at night was on daddy's lap, and bedtime at my feet. Sometimes, I can even feel her jump up on the bed...

Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading.

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Old 03-29-2006, 02:31 PM   #2
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I feel so sorry for you. Dezi is my first pet and I've had her for 1 month and I don't know what I would do without her. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old 03-29-2006, 02:37 PM   #3
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Sometimes we only get one extra special Yorkie in our life...I have enjoyed and loved all of mine, but I have never had another like my little KC...they were the best of the best.
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Old 03-29-2006, 02:38 PM   #4
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It is hard and even though it might not feel any better it does eventually get easier. It took me many months to get over a beloved dog who was hit by a car. But it did get easier. And I'm sure you were a great mom! Maybe you should look into getting another furbaby! Not to take her place, but someone to fill the void.
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Oh gosh I am so sorry Amanda, I cannot imagine how you feel, I have 2 too but my maddy is one of a kind.. she's a momma's girl , she sleeps on my head or sometimes we sleep back to back EVERY NITE! I cannot go to bed w/ out her & to think one night I will, well I just cannot imagine life w/ out her... she is my joy I love Gizmo too but they are both so different! I hope god gives you the strength to get through this.
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Old 03-29-2006, 02:49 PM   #6
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It's rather ironic that we adopt pets, knowing that they will cross Rainbow Bridge and that it will be so traumatic for the ones they leave behind.

But we do it because they bring so much joy and love to our lives. We treat them as well as we treat our own children, and in return they give us unconditional love and loyalty.

I am so sorry for your loss. She-Ra was loved and treasured, and I can't begin to feel the pain that you feel over her passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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It's hard to lose our babies, but what a wonderul well loved life she obviously lived.
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You made me teary eyed. Especially about the part where you still find her hair. I hope some of the hurt begins to dissappear soon.
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Old 03-29-2006, 06:09 PM   #9
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A year after my Shelby died, I found her brush. I had put it away and forgotten about it, so I can relate to finding the hair. It DOES get easier, but even now (its been 3 years), I can get sad thinking about her.
You were a good mom, focus on the happy memories.
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I am so sorry that you are still having a hard time! I have never had to go through it so I dont really have any advice! Just take care of yourself and just know that she is still living in your heart!
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I'm so sorry, Amanda. I know exactly how you feel. We lost our "Maggie" last September, and I still feel sad, but it does get a little easier with each passing day. I pray for you to find peace. Don't beat yourself up about what you might have done different. Just keep talking/writing about it when you feel the need. That will help you.
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Thanks guys. I tried to fill the void with another puppy...but it didn't work. I think it was too soon. We are going to try this summer to get a little girl, but none will be She-Ra.


I pray that the hurt will ease. I try to stay busy, the only time I really get sad is when I am all alone, or awake at night. It was always the quiet time when she was right beside me looking at me with those beautiful eyes. She loved to sit with me at the computer or lay right beside my feet. She was literally my shadow!! If I wasn't paying attention, I'd trip right over her. I still look down to make sure. I swear some nights I can hear her barking, and then the faint jingle of a tag. It just lets me know that she is still here and still watching out for us. If God would allow, I'd want her as my gaurdian angel.
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Amanda - I understand how hard it is right now for you, your pain is overwhelming now. Please know you are in our thoughts! We will always help you remember She-ra at her best - she was so precious and beautiful.
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It does get some better. But, There will never be another Jesse in my life...His mom and dad are retired and I cannot even try for another one of his line. I too got another puppy but I just was not being fair to her. She is so beautiful but, I just still need to get over Jesse. He has been dead over a year and right now, I am sitting here crying over his death..
Pat was the person whose stud sired him and I loved that sire. And, then his son became my heart and soul. But, no more and I grieve every day for him..I do love others but well, just not like Jesse..
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It does get some better with time. I know it took a long time for me not hear hear a tiny little bark from my one boy. He has been sadly missed and will always have that special place in our heart.
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