Please help

[Wylie's Mom]

I am so very sorry ! You sound just heartbroken and Bella sounds like she was so special.

To me, this sounds like she either was stung by something, or ate a poisonous leaf/plant -- especially w/ the foaming at the mouth. The immediacy of her "quietness" with your daughter though, makes me lean more toward a sting of some kind. Sadly, she would not necessarily have to be "allergic" and have an allergic response to die from a sting. In certain bug venoms, there are neurotoxins and all sorts of nasty things, and she could have been more sensitive due to her size, due to something unknown -- and/or she could have progressed to shock simply due to some of the effects of the venom and pain.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss !

[yorkiemalt]

I am so sorry about your baby. May your memories help to heal your heart.

[spiritwings1202]

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how you must be feeling, but know that one day you will see her again in heaven. My heart goes out to you at this time during your loss.
I truly believe that it wouldn't be heaven if we couldn't be see our beloved pets. I am sure she is running and playing with other dogs in heaven, and I hope she is visiting my beloved Goldie.

[cathys]

I'm sorry for your loss, I wish I could remove your pain.

[Amazing Yorkies]

I am so very sorry for your loss! You did all you could, and she knew how much she was loved! You may never know, but I would lean towards a bite or sting as well.
Hugs!!

[jrsygal37]

Originally Posted by denee07

the only thing about that is that i think they would have noticed if her throat was swollen when they put the tube down to help her breathe?

When my Bella was bitten by the brown recluse there was no swelling, no mark they could find etc. She just went limp and through blood work they found her liver enzymes very high which indicated poisoning of some sort or liver shunt. I'm pretty certain that your Bella was probably bitten by a spider. They are really deadly. E.

[dwerten]

Originally Posted by jrsygal37

When my Bella was bitten by the brown recluse there was no swelling, no mark they could find etc. She just went limp and through blood work they found her liver enzymes very high which indicated poisoning of some sort or liver shunt. I'm pretty certain that your Bella was probably bitten by a spider. They are really deadly. E.

this is so scary

I bet the ALT was high as that usually goes up with toxins

[denee07]

for all your kindness. i will never know and that is scary. to think that something as simple as a bite could kill my baby. and i know that if it was crawling across the porch, she would be on it! Wanting to play with it. Maybe that's what it was. The vet at the hospital said he didn't think it was a plant. He asked of i had a sago. i don't. And i check the aspca website before i plant anything in the fenced area. aside from a few azaleas which they don't fool with, everything is pretty much on the non-toxic list.
I know it will just take time. lots of time. her little shirts are still on the hearth, her toys scattered around. the water hose is still out in the yard. i can't bring myself to move anything. right now i'm just depressed and heartbroken.
again, thank you all for your thoughts, ideas, and kindness.

[dwerten]

WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
The sun will rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me.
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
Remembering how I'd lay my head
In your lap that special way.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me.
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And petted me with her hand.
She said my place was ready,
In Heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But, as I turned to heel away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I never thought
That I would have to die.
I had so much to live for,
So many sits and downs to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought about our lives together,
I know you must be sad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
Remember how I'd nudge your hand,
And poke you with my nose?
The frisbee I would gladly chase,
The bad guy, I'd "bark and hold".
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd wag my tail and kiss you,
Just so I could see you smile.
But, then I fully realized,
That this could never be;
For emptiness and memories
Will take the place of me.
And when I thought of treats and toys,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you and when I did,
My dog-heart filled with sorrow.
But then I walked through Heaven's gate,
And felt so much at home;
As God looked down and smiled at me,
From His beautiful golden throne.
He said, "This is eternity,
And now we welcome you,
Today your life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last;
For you see, each day's the same day,
There's no longing for the past.
Now you have been so faithful,
So trusting, loyal and true;
Though there were times you did things,
You knew you shouldn't do.
But good dogs are forgiven,
And now at last you're free;
So won't you sit here by my side,
And wait right here with me?"
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart.
For every time you think of me,
I'm right there, in your heart.

~author unknown~

[Connie]

My heart aches for you in the sudden loss of your sweet baby. I can't imagine...she was just a baby. My guess is some kind of bug bite also. Gosh, I feel so terribly bad for you and yours. I send heartfelt sympathy and I will pray for God's comfort to you.

[Ringo1]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one. It is so hard to lose them when they are that young.

Sometimes, there just are no good answers. I learned when my Mom died - not to question 'Why" because I was never going to get an answer.

I hope in time, you can find peace. You were a good Mom; you did nothing wrong.

Peace be with you.

[Mom to Hot Rod]

so very sorry for our loss. sounds as though you did everything right. Hugs to you. RIP Bella.

[bchgirl]

I am so very sorry for your loss and completely understand the gaping hole it leaves in your heart. My deepest condolences. RIP Bella.

[kjc]

I 'm so sorry for your loss.

[mzw00dy]

Remeber her in your heart....I think of all the sweet things they do...then smile at the joy that came with that. Sorry for your loss