Time of Mourning?

[kp&nala]

Today is my first time on YT since last Friday and all this sad news is heartbreaking. I had a story or two to share about Nala but it just doesn't feel right posting "happy" things. It doesn't even feel right reading other "happy" posts it's almost like I can't enjoy reading them today. Does anyone else feel like that? My heart goes out to Mocha, Molly and Maddies families.

[Stitches29]

Originally Posted by kp&nala

Today is my first time on YT since last Friday and all this sad news is heartbreaking. I had a story or two to share about Nala but it just doesn't feel right posting "happy" things. It doesn't even feel right reading other "happy" posts it's almost like I can't enjoy reading them today. Does anyone else feel like that? My heart goes out to Mocha, Molly and Maddies families.

It is heartbreaking to see the loss here today. I agree with you, it is hard to concentrate on other posts, when these babies are still in the back of your mind.

[red98vett]

I do. I actually need to get out and digest all this - doing those precious pictures for the RB Angels had me in tears all morning...even my husband is telling me to take a break...I think I'll go hug my girls then hug my parents....

It's so sad...I know we'll move.... on as will the devestated moms and dads...but it's just so depressing and tragic it's really hard to think about anything else....We see by this how quickly our lives can change.....we all should be grateful for our time with our yorkies no matter how long or short - just treasure each day.....

Hugs to everyone...I mean EVERYONE... because this is touching many many people.

[Mya's_Mom]

The pics that have been posted have put a smile on my face. I went looked at the gallery too. Even when people die I like to hear of some good news. I like to look at past photos and smile. I like to hear of babies being born. Life goes on. It does not make the deaths any less tragic. Perhaps the only good thing that comes out of these tragedies is that people will be more careful and aware. More dogs may actually be saved. When I heard of the dogs that drowned I went out and bought Mya a life vest to wear up at the cottage. It did not even occur to me that she could be taken out by a wave or just the shock of the cold water if she fell in the river could make her drown. I lost sleep last night because I was so upset about the loss of our little puppy friends and the sorrow that the families are going through. I will also recheck this house to make sure it is safe, continue to be over protective and look forward to pics and happy postings on YorkieTalk.

[Julie1]

It's a difficult one isn't it as we all grieve and get past these things in different ways I know when I've lost a family member I appreciate people carrying on as normal as possible and would be unhappy thinking people were holding back. But as I say we are all different and there simply are no rights or wrongs in this situation. I would also say after a loss I would not be using the internet for a few days so I could get to grips with my emotions on my own but everyone needs different things when they are grieving. I guess all we can do is what feels right to us at the time.

[rrosenberry]

I totally agree,, I just keep re-reading the posts,, trying to make it sink in, It is so unbelievable, I cant imagine.

[wollfy]

I agree with Villette...Sometimes I think about what would I do if I lose Jane or Jeremiah. I think everyone thinks about that. Even though we all probably wish that our yorkies, pets, or people for that matter live for forever. I am still trying to get over the fact that my great grandfather died last month. On the same day I got Jeremiah . I think this is a bad year. A lot of things have been going on. But I almost think that all the loved ones, pets, and yorkies are in a better place. They know you miss them and they miss you too.

From all the good times to the bad times and the funny thing you did with them will never be forgotten.And no one can take that away from you. We don't forget the people and pets we loved so quickly.It takes time to heal.Even though you wished they were here...Just remember they are in a better place. So be happy for them...don't be sad. But we have to move on, I know its hard but thats what we people, humans do.

[rachelfraim]

I, too, agree with you kp&nala. It's hard enough to read about even one loss, but three over the weekend. I always look forward to Monday morning catching up on everyone else's weekend - SO SAD this morning!

[taje]

I am so in shock, we had such fun with the bullwrinkles post this weekend and I was so glad to hear I won on the giveaway but it all pales in comparison to what these moms and dads are going thro.

Time heals and it's hard but the pain WILL ease...you will never forget your babies but maybe in time you will find love with another Yorkie pup that is just as special as the one you lost.

You are all in my heart and mind today.

[Sydney'sMom]

I was away all weekend and just found this post. What an horrid weekend for everyone!

[SoCalyorkiLvr]

Originally Posted by Mya's_Mom

The pics that have been posted have put a smile on my face. I went looked at the gallery too. Even when people die I like to hear of some good news. I like to look at past photos and smile. I like to hear of babies being born. Life goes on. It does not make the deaths any less tragic. Perhaps the only good thing that comes out of these tragedies is that people will be more careful and aware. More dogs may actually be saved. When I heard of the dogs that drowned I went out and bought Mya a life vest to wear up at the cottage. It did not even occur to me that she could be taken out by a wave or just the shock of the cold water if she fell in the river could make her drown. I lost sleep last night because I was so upset about the loss of our little puppy friends and the sorrow that the families are going through. I will also recheck this house to make sure it is safe, continue to be over protective and look forward to pics and happy postings on YorkieTalk.

I hope you don't mind, but these are my thoughts exactly. I think this can be our Tribute to them. To continue to be protective and not let our guards down no matter how much criticism we get. We will never get over the loss of these three beautiful babies, but we can use their memories to love and protect our own little ones and hope that the ones who lost will be able to take some solace in the wonderful memories these short lives left behind.

[sophiedog]

I logged on this morning after not being online all weekend, hoping for good news on the sick puppies - I never expected hearing about 3 happy, healthy babies being taken from us!
One loss of life affects us all, it's meant to be that way. We are to share with each other in all things. Just as we laugh together at the good times we have with our babies, we also cry together and worry together during the bad times. We are connected to each other.
So many tears have been shed over these losses, many more than would have been cried if this forum didn't exist.
It helps to know others hurt with you, that you are not alone in the pain you feel, not so isolated from the rest of the world.
We all share this pain and we take it on with glad hearts because we love each other and we love yorkies.
Windy and Lida Rose

[Marie]

I also feel like you kp&nala. I feel so sad for the loss of these precious babies but I agreed i think we need to remember all the happy stories we have of them. I agreed with Kim, " we can use their memories to love and protect our own little ones and hope that the ones who lost will be able to take some solace in the wonderful memories these short lives left behind."

[sunshine22]

I just joined this forum a few days ago and I am so saddened by these untimely deaths. I know we all care.
It makes you reflect on life.
We are all here for such a short time.
It makes me think as I go about my day, I need to be more like my puppy, kind and forgiving. Isn't that something we love about our dogs? They just love us unconditionally.
I know it sounds corny, but that cashier who is so slow and won't even look at you, she might have just lost her mother to cancer.
The guy who cut you off in traffic, he might be rushing to get his dog to the emergency animal hospital.
That neighbor who is so sloppy with trash and weeds might be going through a very difficult divorce and is having a hard time just getting through each day.
You can really brighten someone's day by just a smile and a kind word or two.
Take good care of yourselves, and those around you.

[kp&nala]

Originally Posted by sunshine22

I just joined this forum a few days ago and I am so saddened by these untimely deaths. I know we all care.
It makes you reflect on life.
We are all here for such a short time.
It makes me think as I go about my day, I need to be more like my puppy, kind and forgiving. Isn't that something we love about our dogs? They just love us unconditionally.
I know it sounds corny, but that cashier who is so slow and won't even look at you, she might have just lost her mother to cancer.
The guy who cut you off in traffic, he might be rushing to get his dog to the emergency animal hospital.
That neighbor who is so sloppy with trash and weeds might be going through a very difficult divorce and is having a hard time just getting through each day.
You can really brighten someone's day by just a smile and a kind word or two.
Take good care of yourselves, and those around you.

That post really hit home with me. I have a short fuse and am quick to get angry or annoyed with someone but I never stop to think about the things you mentioned. It could easily be ture and here I am not even trying to consider they may be having a "bad day" themselves.