It's a difficult one isn't it as we all grieve and get past these things in different ways I know when I've lost a family member I appreciate people carrying on as normal as possible and would be unhappy thinking people were holding back. But as I say we are all different and there simply are no rights or wrongs in this situation. I would also say after a loss I would not be using the internet for a few days so I could get to grips with my emotions on my own but everyone needs different things when they are grieving. I guess all we can do is what feels right to us at the time. |