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Glad to see you girl. please dont torture yourself of what you could of ...should of... someone from above wanted him home. I watched my Mom go through that when my Stepdad died of Congestive Heartfailure and 911 talking her through the process of reveiving him, she felt she was doing something wrong and mabe if she tried harder... Mabe Leonard loved you so much he didn want you to see him go home ! Poor little Cheri, i am sorry, it must break your heart to walk out the door, i dont know what to tell you as you are talking to someone who has never left her Babies alone ! Realy hope everything gets easier for you, you know we are praying for you ! Hugs |
Hi V, glad to know you are back . . . . . I hope the days will get better for you. We are here always for YOU. |
SO great to see you here. I think of you every time I'm on YT (and even when I'm not!) - and I send good thoughts your way. All the best to you during this time of healing and re-birth. Much love, peace, and serenity. |
V - So glad to hear you're doing better. We've all missed you desperately. You know I'm not that far from you. If you need ANYTHING, please let me know. |
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Here are the lyrics: Get your hanky out! Softly, As I Leave You Softly, I will leave you softly For my heart would break if you should wake and see me go So I leave you softly, long before you miss me Long before your arms can beg me stay For one more hour or one more day After all the years, I can't bear the tears to fall So, softly as I leave you there (Softly, long before you kiss me) (Long before your arms can beg me stay) (For one more hour) or one more day After all the years, I can't bear the tears to fall So, softly as I leave you there As I leave I you there As I leave I you there Here's a link to a sample clip. http://www.amazon.com/gp/recsradio/r...gSuffix=dp_img |
I am so sorry to hear your news. (I just caught this thread) I wish I can do something to easie your pain and your girls' pain. I was unemployeed for a while and just got a new job about a month ago so I'm back on YT!! :D Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help for you. We are all here for you. |
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Oh, that is so good. I am so sorry that I joined YT after all this had happened. I partially know what you are going through having done Hospice for a couple years and my dad passing away when I was young. Time heals, but it will never let you forget the love that you have. It is always there with you. He loved you and I think that song said it all. You sound like a wonderful person and everyone on her loves you and is praying for you. Take everything day by day. Praying for you, Sharon |
Villette - I know we've talked about this, but you really have to give up the guilt. You couldn't do any more than you did and it isn't worth continuing to torture yourself cause you can't change things. I hope your son will be there with you soon. I think it will be good for both of you and the pups!!!! Cheri will begin to adjust. It will take her some time and Rescue Remedy may help that too. An employer will be lucky to have you. So when you're ready to dust off the work clothes, I think you'll find that will work itself out also. Big hugs to you. Be talking to you soon!!! |
Wow Vi I am so sorry I didn't know you had lost your husband, You have my most sincere Condelences. I am so sorry for your dogs loss as well. Your thread me cry........ I hope each day gets easier and the memories you have are always cherished, I can't imagine your pain but hope it is getting easier everyday. Good luck with your son moving back home mine just did as well. My yorkies send yorkies kisses to you and yours always. Linda |
V - love and peace to you and your babies...so glad to hear that your son will move in with you - good for both of you. I was out of work too for a while with a big gap but when you explain to employers why - they totally understand and you have great tech skills so play those up for sure. (I used to be a recruiter). The only thing that would hurt would be that you wouldn't make as much $$ as if you didn't have that gap but not always...depends on the employer. Sell yourself - be confident - that's what it takes - not how long you have been out of a job. You have the personality and drive - you will find something. ;) |
Thank you everyone - and OMG that made me cry Lil Bit - that was just beautiful.....I do think he tried to wake me and I was right at his side within minutes of it happening judging by how warm he was (hospice told me that) but it hurts so much that I wasn't sitting right next to him - not that it would have made it easier because we both really thought he had more time :( |
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Now you you've got me crying again! I am sure he knows how you feel and he understands. Everyone that I have heard of having a near death experience says they stayed near the body for awhile after and sought out loved ones and tried to comfort them. I have a friend who had one of these experiences in the hospital and he says he went to the waiting room to be with his wife (before having the "follow the light" type experience). He could see everyone and hear what they were saying. |
Hi Villette so good to see you on. I know we talked about the guilt and it is also part of the grieving process you have to go through and one day you will know that Leonard knew you were there as you were throughout his illness and it was his time. Call anytime |
Hi V so gald to see you posting. Im so sorry for your loss and all that your going through, all you can do is take one day at a time. As for the dogs, Mine are like that too, They are so use to me being there 24/7 they cant handle me leaving, Im sure in time they will do better . I have to use a gate at my hallway before the door, so scared they will run after me and me not know. The gate really helps and now they are so use to it that if I remove it they know not to go past it. It all takes time. |
Hey there V girl:) nice to see you post hun, You are in my prayers and thoughts every day:) Sorry your having such a hard time with cheri:( poor baby, remember one day at a time;) we love you:) |
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