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carladean · 08-29-2007, 10:35 AM

I may be wrong. That is how I perceived the answers. Please accept my apology.

Vinnie's Mom · 08-29-2007, 10:57 AM

I've been reading this post and keeping updated since day one. I think we all need to take a minute to remember that we are all very passionate people here. When we are typing online and not speaking in person it is hard to understand how to take a person, or their advice. We as humans benefit greatly from facial expressions, body language and inflection in a tone of voice, unfortunately on Yorkie talk we lack the ability to be face to face and rely on type written words. We may not understand that our "words" may be offensive to some or that as we are typing that our "words" actually are offensive and we didn't mean them to be. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but you know what they say, "Opinions are like a**holes, everyone's got them." Conflict is healthy, but conflict also walks a fine line. Let's all be openminded and optimistic and give others the benefit of the doubt. We are all trying to help by offering advice, everyone helps in different ways. I'm just trying to keep peace!

Janie616 · 08-29-2007, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetr72

I dont feel judgemental or preachy either...I just dont understand how on the 27th this was posted...and then...

...she is taking on a pregnant puppy who could possibly have complications and end up costing her a ton more money when she already has a ton of other bills to pay...it dosent seem right when people here have graciously sent her money and then see her possibly get back in debt..maybe I am not seeing this as others are...but that is my opinion and its not meant to hurt the OP...just hopefully she has thought this over..its easy to jump into a new situation..I am guilty of that..I just dont want her to be stuck in the same situation again..

Dawn

I am not being judgmental either, but I do think this is a situation that needs remedy ..

baffled!!!!

Oh well, I tend to agree with the poster who questioned the responsibility of taking on another pup, and a pregnant one at that.

I wish her the best ... and definitely hope for the best for the furbabies ...

BabyFidgette · 08-29-2007, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by carladean

I may be wrong. That is how I perceived the answers. Please accept my apology.

I'm just going to reiterate what others said, but we are not trying to be rude here. We are just trying to understand and maybe talk some sense. Sorry you took it the wrong way, but we are a very passionate group.

yorkiegirl83 · 08-29-2007, 02:31 PM

I definitely don't agree with you taking on a pregnant mother dog at this point when just two days ago you said you still had bills to pay and were considering giving up Bruizer.

I know you said you got the bill paid, but it doesn't seem smart for you to take on another dog at all, plus a pregnant one at that.

What will you do if she is sick or has complications in her pregnancy? How will you afford the possible c section, ect that comes along with a pregnant dog? How will you afford the extra food and general wellness checkups?

I thought your main concern was to keep Bruizer with you and safe and now you have taken on a huge undertaking with this new dog. I also got the impression the main reason you are keeping her is to make money off of her future puppies. I hope I am wrong about that.

I really hope you reconsider and find her a home with a family that is more financially stable who can give her the vet care and protection she needs.

I don't say this out of cruelty or judgement, but you really need to take care of your family and Bruizer right now. Just because that last bill got paid, does not mean that you won't have a lot of hard battles ahead of you still.

Please take my advice to heart and think hard about what would be best for everyone.

08-29-2007, 10:57 AM	#77
Vinnie's Mom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: PENNSYLVANIA Posts: 767	I've been reading this post and keeping updated since day one. I think we all need to take a minute to remember that we are all very passionate people here. When we are typing online and not speaking in person it is hard to understand how to take a person, or their advice. We as humans benefit greatly from facial expressions, body language and inflection in a tone of voice, unfortunately on Yorkie talk we lack the ability to be face to face and rely on type written words. We may not understand that our "words" may be offensive to some or that as we are typing that our "words" actually are offensive and we didn't mean them to be. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but you know what they say, "Opinions are like a**holes, everyone's got them." Conflict is healthy, but conflict also walks a fine line. Let's all be openminded and optimistic and give others the benefit of the doubt. We are all trying to help by offering advice, everyone helps in different ways. I'm just trying to keep peace! __________________ Beth - Mom to Vinnie, the wonder-yorkie!

08-29-2007, 10:35 AM	#76
carladean No Longer a Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: conway, ar Posts: 208	I may be wrong. That is how I perceived the answers. Please accept my apology.

08-29-2007, 02:31 PM	#80
yorkiegirl83 Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere Posts: 4,427	I definitely don't agree with you taking on a pregnant mother dog at this point when just two days ago you said you still had bills to pay and were considering giving up Bruizer. I know you said you got the bill paid, but it doesn't seem smart for you to take on another dog at all, plus a pregnant one at that. What will you do if she is sick or has complications in her pregnancy? How will you afford the possible c section, ect that comes along with a pregnant dog? How will you afford the extra food and general wellness checkups? I thought your main concern was to keep Bruizer with you and safe and now you have taken on a huge undertaking with this new dog. I also got the impression the main reason you are keeping her is to make money off of her future puppies. I hope I am wrong about that. I really hope you reconsider and find her a home with a family that is more financially stable who can give her the vet care and protection she needs. I don't say this out of cruelty or judgement, but you really need to take care of your family and Bruizer right now. Just because that last bill got paid, does not mean that you won't have a lot of hard battles ahead of you still. Please take my advice to heart and think hard about what would be best for everyone.