NODAK's Fiancee

[chardjo]

Originally Posted by patty58

You know Heidi, I know I was upset because to me my Murfee is "not just a dog". he is my best buddy, my baby and I love him with all my heart. That is what I was trying to get across to Chris. If he just loves on Tanner and gives him a chance, he will have another significant other in his life. And also he came across like he was so very controlling over you and none of here like that either. Maybe as you say he was just trying to rile us up and it worked, but most of us here are really compasionate, caring people and are willing to forgive and start over....I know I am. Patty

Over the last couple days Chris has taken that in and has been spending quality time with Tanner. He loves Tanner..
And he definitely is not controlling over me. I wouldn't take that..

[chardjo]

Originally Posted by SophieRose

The exact words I was waiting to hear. "saying stuff to get your gals riled up". That is not the purpose of this forum and most of us were savvy enough to read between the lines. As for me, I won't be responding to any posts written by your boyfriend or you.

Oh that's quite the grown up approach here. I never did anything to anyone on here at all and I sure have not written a post to get people riled up. But if you must ignore me.. I can understand.
It's because I'm affiliated with someone that speaks their mind. Right? Much like you just did by telling me that you will not respond to any post that I make.
I suppose that if you really don't want to give me the time of day.. you don't deserve the time from me either.

[Anna Banana]

Originally Posted by chardjo

Oh that's quite the grown up approach here. I never did anything to anyone on here at all and I sure have not written a post to get people riled up. But if you must ignore me.. I can understand.
It's because I'm affiliated with someone that speaks their mind. Right? Much like you just did by telling me that you will not respond to any post that I make.
I suppose that if you really don't want to give me the time of day.. you don't deserve the time from me either.

Don't worry, a lot of people here understand that you are not responsible for your fiance's rude, hurtful, and offensive behavior. You seem like a wonderful woman that cares alot for your little Tanner. I look forward to getting to know you better. I'm not sure if I can tolerate Chris though, he's burned to many bridges to just start over with me...

[paulapoo]

There is a HUGE difference between speaking your mind, or giving your opinion, and being purposely arguementative and insensitive. I hope we can FINALLY switch the focus OFF of Chris, and put it back where it belongs,, ON TANNER!!!

[Anna Banana]

Originally Posted by chardjo

Oh that's quite the grown up approach here. I never did anything to anyone on here at all and I sure have not written a post to get people riled up. But if you must ignore me.. I can understand.
It's because I'm affiliated with someone that speaks their mind. Right? Much like you just did by telling me that you will not respond to any post that I make.
I suppose that if you really don't want to give me the time of day.. you don't deserve the time from me either.

You already said that Chris didn't come on here to "speak his mind." He came on here to rile up the caring, open hearted people that love it here. In the process many people people were personally offended by his reactions to our friendly advice, and completely hurt by his thoughtless comments. Please don't be too quick to imply that SophieRose is immature after we've all dealt with YOUR immature fiance.

[chardjo]

Originally Posted by Anna Banana

You already said that Chris didn't come on here to "speak his mind." He came on here to rile up the caring, open hearted people that love it here. In the process many people people were personally offended by his reactions to our friendly advice, and completely hurt by his thoughtless comments. Please don't be too quick to imply that SophieRose is immature after we've all dealt with YOUR immature fiance.

No.. What I said was at first Chris came here for advice and tips.. Then when something was happening that everyone didn't like they all threw punches.. And from then on he just came here to get everyone riled up.

That's the truth.

But rest asure.. I am done with this thread/board and the immaturity of some people. I will get help elsewhere.

[SadieSaysYes]

Oy vey.....