Grieving the loss of him in a dif. way

[chattiesmom]

Sending you hugs..... lots of hugs

I am so very sorry..... sometimes things in our lives go wrong really wrong.....

I'll keep you and your entire family in my prayers -- it sounds like your plate is full. Also sending HUGE GET WELL QUICK wishes to your precious daughter.

[scrapindee]

Go and get your Louie. Your husband is very wrong for making that decision. Your nephew will be disappointed, but you're heartbroken.

Maybe it is time for some counseling for your husband, since that was a real slap in the face.

[YorkieGuru]

Originally Posted by LuvtheCooper

Do you feel you can't ask for him back because your nephew is just a child, and a child that has just lost him dog at that? If so, I understand your delima..you want him back, but how could you hurt this child and he is a member of your family to boot? Sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place! Not even sure I have the whole situation correct, but is it possibe you could buy your nephew a new puppy and have your precious Louie back? I wish you the best whatever happens...

Yes.. this is exactly the way I feel right now. The bad part about it is I let him go. I watched him leave. I DID NOTHING.
I'm making a phone call tomm. I miss him too much.
Please don't hate on my hubby. He was trying to make it easier on me but he didnt mean to hurt me so much. With me going back to school, I have made comments that I needed help around the house and with the dogs and with the house cleaning, etc. He thought he was trying to make a bad situation better by relieving some of my stress. He asked my opinion of it one night and I told him that I didn't think Louie was happy here lately cause he wasn't getting as much attention.... Things would have been different as soon as I was out of school, and the puppy done with potty training, and my daughter all healed up... but he was trying to do the right thing for Louie and making a family happy, He didn't realize I would be the one hurting so much.

[Itspuppyluv]

That is good. I thought it might be a situation where your husband wouldn't let you get him back.
Tell them how terribly you miss Louie. You could even help them find another. There are millions of dogs, all shapes and sizes, looking for homes. They can save a life.

I hope everything works out and you get him back without any trouble.

[Doodlebug]

I hope you can find them a puppy like someone suggested and tell them you made a terrible mistake and you want them to have their own puppy to raise. Then chances that they will just give him back are probably really slim.

[Dina_Nichole]

Your story is so sad and I truly hope you can get your Louie back. I have no clue what to even say to you but I'm sending prayers your way. I hope everything works out for the best. So sorry your going through this

[TLC]

Originally Posted by YorkieGuru

Yes.. this is exactly the way I feel right now. The bad part about it is I let him go. I watched him leave. I DID NOTHING.
I'm making a phone call tomm. I miss him too much.
Please don't hate on my hubby. He was trying to make it easier on me but he didnt mean to hurt me so much. With me going back to school, I have made comments that I needed help around the house and with the dogs and with the house cleaning, etc. He thought he was trying to make a bad situation better by relieving some of my stress. He asked my opinion of it one night and I told him that I didn't think Louie was happy here lately cause he wasn't getting as much attention.... Things would have been different as soon as I was out of school, and the puppy done with potty training, and my daughter all healed up... but he was trying to do the right thing for Louie and making a family happy, He didn't realize I would be the one hurting so much.

Oh this is great news!!!! Louie is coming home - Louie is coming home
I don't think your husband is a bad guy, I understand completely, he thought is was doing a good thing. BUT, in reality, giving Louie away was not the right thing. Sometimes in life we have struggles and difficulties, but we are strong and we make it through. Once you get Louie back and your daugther heels, the puppy grows up and you are out of school, things will get better, BUT - You All Do It As A Family - INCLUDING LOUIE!!!

I can't wait to hear that he is back home with his MOMMA

P.S. I know there is a 'child' involved - and while it may be hard for you - I do beleive it would be harder for you not to get your baby back! And I agree with everyone elses comments. There are so many dog (in a sizes) that need to be saved from shelters - The 'child' can get his own dog to love and raise - but LOUIE is YOURS - Go get him!!!

[ellie81]

I hope you can get him but without nobody getting harsh on you because you are right, it's your baby, you should get him back. And tell your hubby to never ever do anything like that without asking you first!!!

[jp4m2]

Kim, so sorry to read about this, it brought tears to my eyes...Allison has my good thought & prayers for a speedy recovery...I can relate to the quad accident my son fractured his back on one a few years ago...it's very scary for us as parents when our children get hurt...as for Louie it sounds like you weren't
giving him away willingly, but under guilt,pressure, & maybe a lot of reluctance. You have nothing to lose..you could go to the nephews home & speak to the parents in private ...if you explain it as you have here I don't see how they would not give Louie back...maybe offer part of the funds for a new pup for their inconvenience ...I really hope you get Louie back..Good luck.

[xxmxaxrxyxx]

So sorry to hear about your loss...i hope as the days continues your spirit will be lifted...

[red98vett]

Sending you hugs...I don't know what to say except that if you really can't live without him maybe they'll give him back ?? It sounds like whatever the outcome, he has 2 homes that love him and that's more than many dogs have ....I hope your daughter is on the road to recovery and your heart mends...Will you be able to see him ?? I don't want to say anything against your husband but he never should have done that without talking to you first.... Maybe you can help then find a rescue dog in exchange for them giving him back ??

[sshaw]

Originally Posted by yorkiegirl2

What is it that you are wanting??
are you wanting him back??
If so Call Them and tell them what you have said here.
That your husband said they could have him without talking to you first and then offer to help them find another pet.

I could not agree more, just give them a call and explain how you feel.

[Wylie's Mom]

I don't know what it is about this thread that just pulls my heartstrings so dearly....I had to post a 2nd time!

I'm so glad to hear you'll probably be getting your baby back. Like someone else said, there are millions of dogs out there looking for a home.

Heck, for this situation - I'd be willing to donate some money toward getting them their own yorkie, if they are intent on a yorkie - AND I'M NOT KIDDING!!!

Hugs galore,
Ann

[PEACHES917]

You either go get your baby back and they will understand or you get a new baby for your self. Ther grief is bad when someone gives your dog away for a bad reason. And any reason is a bad one unless you can't control the dog I wish you all the best. Keep us posted.

Mim's mom

[Yorkie3]

I do hope you get your baby back. My heart was just breaking along with yours.