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Kodak · 01-31-2007, 08:49 PM

How many of you would use SEX, yes Sex just to get a new puppy? Not just any puppy, a yorkie?:

While in petsmart this girl held a cute white poodle while another lady talked about yorkies. Of course I was all ears as I played like I was

while looking at puppy clothes. The lady with the poodle ooohed and aawwed as the yorkie owner gave her all the WRONG information. I was going to intervene when I hear the poodle owner make this statement: She goes, I want a yorkie so bad, I'm going to have to sex my guy up for an entire week to get one. I was like

at "a week of sex" just for a puppy. My mind wondered as to how many weeks of sex she would put out for a dayum car.

How many of you had to SCHMOOZE up to your significant other to get your 1st or 2nd yorkie, or any pet for that matter? I need to know, because I must be doing something wrong.

I paid for both of mines w/no help. I just got a steady boyfriend, I've been dating for a while till now. Maybe a week of sex would've paid for my new puppy.

Thank goodness I don't use sex as a tool. LOL

sweetr72 · 01-31-2007, 08:55 PM

I dont know about any of your but Im the one who is always asking for sex lol...Id probably have to promise not to bug him for sex in order to get a new yorkie lol...

Dawn

Kodak · 01-31-2007, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetr72

I dont know about any of your but Im the one who is always asking for sex lol...Id probably have to promise not to bug him for sex in order to get a new yorkie lol...

Dawn

, I hear ya sweetr72, and I wouldn't be asking for it just for a puppy. I got my own needs! LOL!

sweetr72 · 01-31-2007, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Kodak

, I hear ya sweetr72, and I wouldn't be asking for it just for a puppy. I got my own needs! LOL!

Hehe...

BlondieGirl87 · 01-31-2007, 09:24 PM

That's just sad, sorry but I bought both of mine on my own. I've always been very independent and do what I want when I want to do it. If I want something, I go out and get it. I've moved past the 6 year old little girl having to ask "Daddy" before she can go get something...let alone having to butter some guy up to buy me something, I'm a grown woman now and I can pay for my own things

If my boyfriend wanted to buy me something as a gift to say " I know you wanted this and I got it because I love you" fine, but a gift because "I got you this because you were sleeping with me" to me, that is just about as good as being a prostitute. I think anyone who sleeps with someone to get their way on something obviously does not have enough intelligence to get it with her brain and therefore must resort to using her body. So, my answer for this question would be no, I would never use sex as a means to something, it's stupid and petty to play with someones physical emotions that way you either always have it or you don't. Not, hm, maybe this week cause I'd like a diamond ring...oh and hun, I'm good this week I don't need anything....but next week I want that new suit at Saks and 5th so I'll be back then! Give me a break!

Trin · 01-31-2007, 09:54 PM

I bought my yorkie on my own but it took me a little bit to convince my fiance that I needed her. However I did not use sex as the weapon.. I used the way I get my way every time..I just didn't drop the subject.Eventually he gave in and said Fine. and he loves her!

LuvtheCooper · 01-31-2007, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Kodak

, I hear ya sweetr72, and I wouldn't be asking for it just for a puppy. I got my own needs! LOL!

I second that!!

Annuta · 01-31-2007, 10:15 PM

I don't think the woman at the store is necessarily talking about prostituting herself, nor do I think that she is not independent and can't pay her own way (though, that may be true too, there's just no way to tell from that statement alone). In any healthy romantic relationship there's a dose of play and flirtation when it comes to many things, which also includes buying items for each other. It could all be a part of their private romantic game. Or, it could be that he is her sugar daddy - who knows? There's a great book about this topic, the name of it is "Games people play" by Eric Berne. He talks about both "good" and "bad" games in relationships. An excellent read.

Would I personally do it? Maybe

Depends if my personal need have been satisfied, like one of the posters above mentioned

Dougal&Little · 01-31-2007, 10:28 PM

Well I'm gleefully single now. But I was married for eight years - I didn't sleep with my husband especially to get my yorks - he helped me out with some $$ cos he wanted too - not because I put out.

However, I knew that if I wanted him to do some household chore there was only one time to ask - - the morning after!

But now - I'm all about satisfying the woman within ! Hooray for being single!

scrapindee · 01-31-2007, 10:50 PM

Interesting discussion. Maybe you could post it to the poll section and see how many reply.

FlDebra · 01-31-2007, 11:03 PM

I've never used sex as a bargaining chip. Maybe it was more of a joking comment -- like "I will really have to butter him up for him to say yes" more than actually trading sex for puppy money.

I'm old now, I would probably do better promising to polish his golf clubs ...... than something else.....

makemepretty · 02-01-2007, 04:11 AM

I'm sure she meant it as a good thing. I've been married almost 16 years(together since we were 17) and I'm all in favor of trading some nookie for something I want

. It's just fun..yes, I'm sure he'd just give me what I want if I asked but this way is just plain easier sometimes!

Sometimes it just makes light of a situation when you're tired. Hubby will look a little frisky and I'll say "well...maybe...as long as you fix the front door today". I could totally see me saying "Honey, I'll make sure you get lucky every day this week if I can get a new puppy!". LOL It'd be a win win for both parties if you ask me.

chachi · 02-01-2007, 04:47 AM

I would in a heartbeat if it would work

pepe mint · 02-01-2007, 05:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trin

I bought my yorkie on my own but it took me a little bit to convince my fiance that I needed her. However I did not use sex as the weapon.. I used the way I get my way every time..I just didn't drop the subject.Eventually he gave in and said Fine. and he loves her!

yeah, this is pretty much me....well..I didn't buy her on my own...we are married now and share our money...but i did have to beg him and convince him. we had 2 dogs already and he just didn't want another dog. but now that we have her, he loves her more than anything. it is so sweet. but no, I did not use sex to get her and would never use sex as a tool for anything. he just realized how much it meant to me and decided to get her for me for christmas.

genie · 02-01-2007, 05:11 AM

I use sex sometimes to get what I want...my husband doesn't realize that is what is happening...but it magically changes his mind...and I get what I want without an argument..whatever works

01-31-2007, 08:49 PM	#1
Kodak And Lil Sister Kamari Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 2,438	This question may sound CRAZY, but I must ask How many of you would use SEX, yes Sex just to get a new puppy? Not just any puppy, a yorkie?: While in petsmart this girl held a cute white poodle while another lady talked about yorkies. Of course I was all ears as I played like I was while looking at puppy clothes. The lady with the poodle ooohed and aawwed as the yorkie owner gave her all the WRONG information. I was going to intervene when I hear the poodle owner make this statement: She goes, I want a yorkie so bad, I'm going to have to sex my guy up for an entire week to get one. I was like at "a week of sex" just for a puppy. My mind wondered as to how many weeks of sex she would put out for a dayum car. How many of you had to SCHMOOZE up to your significant other to get your 1st or 2nd yorkie, or any pet for that matter? I need to know, because I must be doing something wrong. I paid for both of mines w/no help. I just got a steady boyfriend, I've been dating for a while till now. Maybe a week of sex would've paid for my new puppy. Thank goodness I don't use sex as a tool. LOL __________________ I'm In Love With 2 Yorkies! http://www.myspace.com/studkodak http://www.dogster.com/dogs/548996

01-31-2007, 10:28 PM	#9
Dougal&Little Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: New Zealand Posts: 944	Well I'm gleefully single now. But I was married for eight years - I didn't sleep with my husband especially to get my yorks - he helped me out with some $$ cos he wanted too - not because I put out. However, I knew that if I wanted him to do some household chore there was only one time to ask - - the morning after! But now - I'm all about satisfying the woman within ! Hooray for being single! __________________ Dougal (card carrying member of the Teapot Club) & Dixie (aka Evil Wee) Dougal's Facebook Dixie's Facebook

01-31-2007, 10:50 PM	#10
scrapindee Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Redlands Posts: 4,842 Blog Entries: 2	Interesting discussion. Maybe you could post it to the poll section and see how many reply. __________________ Scrapindee--Team Furry & the Biewers www.houseofwags.com

01-31-2007, 11:03 PM	#11
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	I've never used sex as a bargaining chip. Maybe it was more of a joking comment -- like "I will really have to butter him up for him to say yes" more than actually trading sex for puppy money. I'm old now, I would probably do better promising to polish his golf clubs ...... than something else..... __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

02-01-2007, 04:11 AM	#12
makemepretty YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Middleville Posts: 933	I'm sure she meant it as a good thing. I've been married almost 16 years(together since we were 17) and I'm all in favor of trading some nookie for something I want . It's just fun..yes, I'm sure he'd just give me what I want if I asked but this way is just plain easier sometimes! Sometimes it just makes light of a situation when you're tired. Hubby will look a little frisky and I'll say "well...maybe...as long as you fix the front door today". I could totally see me saying "Honey, I'll make sure you get lucky every day this week if I can get a new puppy!". LOL It'd be a win win for both parties if you ask me. __________________ http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?j=t&i=369717

01-31-2007, 08:55 PM	#2
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	I dont know about any of your but Im the one who is always asking for sex lol...Id probably have to promise not to bug him for sex in order to get a new yorkie lol... Dawn

01-31-2007, 09:24 PM	#5
BlondieGirl87 No Longer A Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: The Big Friendly City :) Posts: 4,236	That's just sad, sorry but I bought both of mine on my own. I've always been very independent and do what I want when I want to do it. If I want something, I go out and get it. I've moved past the 6 year old little girl having to ask "Daddy" before she can go get something...let alone having to butter some guy up to buy me something, I'm a grown woman now and I can pay for my own things If my boyfriend wanted to buy me something as a gift to say " I know you wanted this and I got it because I love you" fine, but a gift because "I got you this because you were sleeping with me" to me, that is just about as good as being a prostitute. I think anyone who sleeps with someone to get their way on something obviously does not have enough intelligence to get it with her brain and therefore must resort to using her body. So, my answer for this question would be no, I would never use sex as a means to something, it's stupid and petty to play with someones physical emotions that way you either always have it or you don't. Not, hm, maybe this week cause I'd like a diamond ring...oh and hun, I'm good this week I don't need anything....but next week I want that new suit at Saks and 5th so I'll be back then! Give me a break!

01-31-2007, 09:54 PM	#6
Trin Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Alberta Posts: 53	I bought my yorkie on my own but it took me a little bit to convince my fiance that I needed her. However I did not use sex as the weapon.. I used the way I get my way every time..I just didn't drop the subject.Eventually he gave in and said Fine. and he loves her!

01-31-2007, 10:15 PM	#8
Annuta Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Naples, FL Posts: 57	I don't think the woman at the store is necessarily talking about prostituting herself, nor do I think that she is not independent and can't pay her own way (though, that may be true too, there's just no way to tell from that statement alone). In any healthy romantic relationship there's a dose of play and flirtation when it comes to many things, which also includes buying items for each other. It could all be a part of their private romantic game. Or, it could be that he is her sugar daddy - who knows? There's a great book about this topic, the name of it is "Games people play" by Eric Berne. He talks about both "good" and "bad" games in relationships. An excellent read. Would I personally do it? Maybe Depends if my personal need have been satisfied, like one of the posters above mentioned

02-01-2007, 04:47 AM	#13
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I would in a heartbeat if it would work __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

02-01-2007, 05:11 AM	#15
genie Loves Hannah & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: washington Posts: 1,752	I use sex sometimes to get what I want...my husband doesn't realize that is what is happening...but it magically changes his mind...and I get what I want without an argument..whatever works