Someone please help me

[TxVicki]

I am so very sorry for the sudden loss of your boy. I know how very heart breaking it is. Just remember all the good memories with him.

Sending hug's to you.

[smelcerk]

I am so sad for you and your loss. I understand your pain as I also lost my precious girl earlier this year. I was completely unprepared for the level of grief I would feel and my heart hurts that you are also feeling that pain. The only thing that helped me through it was to throw myself into the world of Yorkies. That I when I found yorkie talk and frankly spend each and every night researching the breed and devoting myself to the breed as a way of tribute to my girl. This eventually led to my purchase of a new puppy. Word of warning! The new puppy in no way lessens the grief and does not replace your lost one. BUT they are very needy and do find a way to quickly wiggle a new spot in your heart which is exactly what I was hoping for.

[matese]

So very, very sorry for the sudden loss of your little boy, I know the pain you are going through as I lost my baby girl 14 months ago, also, suddenly. I was devastated and in shock, the pain in my heart was overwhelming. I was in a very dark place too. Then my little unplanned adopted boy entered my life and my heart, he pulled me out of that dark place,made my house a home again, he rescued me. No dog can ever "replace" one that you have lost, but they do help you heal, and give you love and fill that empty space in your heart. I pray soon you will be able to open your heart to another awesome little furbutt, your boy would want you to be happy. I will keep you in my prayers to help give you strength in this very painful time. (((HUGS)))
RAINBOW BRIDGE
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

[sandy simpson]

I have that poem hanging up, it is so comforting. My Teddy Peanut went to the bridge at 10yrs. No real symptoms, then loss of weight and the emergency clinic said he had a stomach obstruction. Never knew what it was. Buried his little body in the backyard. I cried so hard. Now I do believe that the Lord knows the day He wants his beautiful creatures back home. He knows when each sparrow falls. When my Ted was called home, I had to hand him back to His creator. He is safe in the sweet place prepared for him. It gives me great comfort to know that all of life is planned. Days are determined. I will see my Ted and you will see your precious baby. May the Lord of Life surround you with His great love and peace and you find comfort knowing that He holds your little dog and you will see him again.

[chestermama]

Im so sorry for your loss

[chestermama]

Im so sorry for your loss

[betsygage]

I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you this morning. I hope you got some sleep last night. Remember you are not alone here. There are a lot of us thinking of you, even if not every one is posting. Sometimes I think people don't write because it hits so close to home. Kind of like when a couple gets a divorce and the other couples don't include the single friend any more because it is a reminder it could happen to them too......I started to write you last night about a book, but then I think I erased it after I saw the Rainbow Bridge poem. But if I didn't erase it then this here it is again. But the book is called There are no sad dogs in heaven. Written by Sonya Fitzpatrick. kind of a pet psychic. You might check it out online. She's been on the animal channel and now on Sirius radio. Claims to connect with pets who have "crossed over'. I enjoy her although I can't buy everything she says. I'd sure like to think she's right. Anyway, I hope today is a little better for you. Take care.
Betsy

[gracielove]

It does take time to get over a trauma like you just suffered. When my little guy who was 15 years old passed on it took me several months to even consider having another dog. Give yourself time to grieve. Losing a much loved pet is no easy thing to get over especially when it comes as such a shock like you suffered.

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find a new love to bring that joy to your life again.

[Jkpal]

I am so sorry for your loss...and though it doesn't seem possible, please know that eventually the pain will lessen. You did everything you could...
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love."

[Buster Brown]

Originally Posted by BC030495

I apologize, but being unsure how to use this site, I will try agains to post a reply. Thank you so much to each and every me of you who took time out of your busy lives to reach out. I actually looked forward to seeing the messages when I got home.

I too thought about having the full necropsy done but couldn't bear the thought of my baby going to the University and possibly being misplaced, etc. the why's and what if's were driving me to the brink. I appreciate to hear that sometimes getting an answer doesn't always solve your feelings.

I know it has only been 10 days but it seems so dark and black and I hope I can get out of this and function normal again soon.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of you,.

When you are a new member there is a hold on your posts so that they can be reviewed before they are posted. Once you have posted a few times they will post when you submit. If you want to answer back to a specific post hit the blue oval Quote sign in the bottom right of the posting you want to respond to and this will copy the post and you can write your answer below the quoted post.
I hope you are coping better. This is a wonderful supportive community who understands how these little dogs can fill our whole world and how the loss of them can create a huge void in our lives. Sending hugs and best wishes that your pain eases.

[4carolyn]

So sorry for the loss of your precious baby.

[joyce evans]

I am so so sorry for the loss of your sweet boy. It is never easy to say goodbye to them. I lost 2 older dogs just a few short months ago. Both to cancer. Jasmine my lab and Bisquit my chow mix. Both were a huge part of my family. I miss them and they will always be in my heart. What helped me was going to my local SPCA and seeing all the poor homeless animals there. I knew my babies had a good life. They were happy and loved. But somehow going to the SPCA opened my eyes. Yes I was blessed to have had them but they were blessed too. I remember driving there that day in such a fog. I had no intentions of bringing home another animal as I still had 7 of my own. I didn't even know the reason why I was going. My heart was so heavy. I was so sad. It didn't make sense. I never even spoke to anyone there. I just loved on some of the dogs and left. It was almost like an outer body experience. It's hard to describe but that day after my visit I felt a peace and calm. I knew I had done everything I could for my babies and I knew I had to get home to my other 7 that were waiting for me. You were a good mom. You provided for and loved your baby for the short time you had him. You may not have all the answers but they probably wouldn't change how you feel. I hope you find peace in knowing that your baby lived a happy life. There are so many out there that don't. So many out there that never feel the love that you gave your baby. I personally thank you for that!