Someone please help me
 

10days ago I lost my 10 1/2 year old Yorkie. I posted on a blog on this site but I am not sure how this works and I have not heard back from anyone yet, so I thought I would send a "new thread" since I am not that tech savvy. Anyway, in a nutshell, my baby had a bacterial infection, bad, but in the morning vet said hydration and antibiotic and he would be better next day. Well he passed that same night and I have beenDEVESTATED and can't seem to function.

I had the vet do an autopsy desperately looking for answers. They found he had an enlarged gallbladder and liver. But no DEFINITIVE cause of death. I had the option to send his precious body to CSU for a full necropsy but I decided against it. The thought of him being far and for an unknown amount of tie was too much to bear. I choose to have him cremated and want him to just rest in peace.

The vet has been his vet for four years and was just as crushed, not expecting the turn of events.

Has anyone ever had a similar situation?

Please help me, I am hurting so bad and am I despair.

Oh dear, I am so very, very sorry to hear of your baby's tragic and unexpected passing :(. How heartbreaking. You must be in so much pain, feel shocked, and I know you just want that little baby back in your arms. Try, if you can, to remember what a beautiful life you gave him, how happy he was, and what a great Momma you were to him. He would want you to try to remember the good and the love. Bless you during this time of loss and healing. My heart really goes out to you. (((HUGS)))

I am so sorry to read that you have lost your baby and under such confusing circumstances. I so understand you wanting to keep your sweet baby close. I am sorry I cannot offer any advice just support and hugs to you during such a difficult time. Bless the new Yorkie angel and comfort the family.

I am so sorry you lost your precious baby. I can understand how devastating it is to not have answers why it happened. Your baby knew how much he was loved and he was blessed to have you in his life. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing this. Hugs.

Thank you so much for responding. At least I don't feel alone!

Thank you so much for caring. I don't feel so alone.

I am so sorry for your lost.

What a terrible thing to have happened. I'm so sorry. It is awful not knowing what caused this. I hope his little box of ashes brings some comfort to you. My Gina's ashes sits atop my mantel and I see her everyday.

I have no info for you but wanted to say that I am so very sorry for youI !! I will be praying that God will easy the pain you are feeling right now.

So sorry for your loss. Seems we never have them in our lives long enough.

Hugs and prayers :lovewings

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know all too well how painful it is to lose a beloved pup, especially so suddenly.

It has been almost a year since I lost my 6 yr old Meika, she passed within an hour of encountering a poisonous toad. My heart is still broken, and I still have days of crying, although time has brought some healing.

I'm sending warm thoughts and prayers that you will, in due time, find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of him in the 10 1/2 years you shared.

I am so very sorry for your loss:love:

I'm so sorry for the unexpected loss of your precious yorkie. I understand how painful this can be. I too unexpectedly lost one of my beloved babies. In my case the vet said he was alright, but that couldn't have been further from the truth, later that night he was rushed to an emergency vet....they weren't able to save him and he passed. I was angry, devastated and confused all at the same time.

I had a necropsy done because I had to know what happened....why this happened......I just needed answers as to why I lost my pup..... The next day I did receive an answer, but it didn't provide me with the answers I had hoped to hear to absolve me from the guilt I was feeling. The guilt that maybe I could have prevented this. It just made me angry and full of more questions. Sometimes having the "why 's" answered won't bring the peace we're seeking.

I've cried more tears than I thought I was capable of crying when I lost my yorkie; my friend. When we love this hard and suffer the loss of our pet, the grief process is a painful, inevitable, unavoidable, process. Accept it, embrace it, and allow it to take its course, it's a testament to the power of love you had for your companion. I had to come to the conclusion that not
everything is in our control. We might like to think it is, hope that it is, but there are times it simply isn't. ....I hope in time you can think of your pup without hurting, I wish you the best ....((hugs)))

I am so sorry for your terrible loss. We know you were the best momma and will grieve terribly for your precious Yorkie.

If you never have, google RAINBOW BRIDGE. Your baby is waiting there for you. (((((((hugs)))))))

just make sure you lots of kleenex with you when you google this