Originally Posted by lynzy420 (Post 4486833)

Listen "Lady", the Bills won today tooooooo!!!!!!!!! Girl, New Yorkers always win....hahahhahahaha....Go Yankees!!!! lmao


(I called you and left a message, you never answered, I'll call you tomorrow)

Originally Posted by R-Teddy (Post 4486706)

Im not going to get into this argument with you. other then to say this, then im refusing to go any further.

There are some people on this forum that have a nasty habit of putting people down ( regardless if they see it or not) and basically making them feel like their dogs are or likely will be crap and they are crappy people for buying them. im sorry but I feel that is wrong.

Forgive us for not being so well knowledge as all of them about "Back yard breeders" or what ever. But is that not why so many people come here to look for help and advice? people come here looking for help and advice, and often end up running away and not returning for that very reason. Because they get sick of being put down and being made to feel like they are BAD people or the likes.

there are several people on this particular thread alone, that even if they dont necessarily agree with the OP or what she is doing / asking about, still manage to be respectful and kind and simply answer her question without putting her down. Why is that so hard to do?

You guys would probably call the breeder I got my Athena from a "Back Yard Breeder". I dont know. Before coming to Yorkie Talk I had never even heard the term Back Yard Breeder before so didnt know the difference. she didnt normally breed her dogs to sell puppies. But the accidentally got together and it happen. Are there things she could of done. OF COURSE. she could have gotten the dogs spayed and neutered, for one, and perhaps other things as well. but she didnt. But my Athena is not a crap dog, and I dont feel I am a crappy person for adopting her. In fact I think I have done very well at caring for her, and getting her proper vet care etc. My vet seems to think I have done very well. So what right do a bunch of people who have never met me in person have to say other wise? Athenas breeder may not have been a top notch breeder, but I am not going to be breeding her. I got her spayed. Just because I can not afford to pay out a grand for a new puppy all at once doesnt make me a bad owner that shouldnt have a dog. And my Athena, who is the bill of health so far, deserves a good home just the same as the one that cost a grand.

There im done. let the ridicule begin. I dont care. I love my baby and I am a good fur baby Mama regardless of what some of the HOITY-TOITY people on here want to say.

Originally Posted by Nancy1999 (Post 4486717)

And I thank you for being there and being a good mom to this little one. I just want to add, one of the members who replied to this thread, Ladyjane , runs a rescue and some of the dogs are her personal pets. I’m sure none of her dogs came from excellent breeders, but I don’t think anyone could ever call one of her babies a “crap dog!" It’s not about the dog, it’s about the breeder. We truly are all on the same side, once you get enough information.

Originally Posted by sandil1205 (Post 4486796)

yep...and i'm one of them...
and, on top of that...i guess i own a *crap* dog too!! i paid quite a bit for Jake, but he was evidently, from information i found out later, from a bad breeder...oh, and he's a morkie...i know some people also think they are *crap* dogs anyway...but i do agree that they are not a breed...they are a mix...
i got a morkie because, it's real simple...i like the way they look and their personalities...so i probably shouldn't have even joined yorkie talk, because my baby isn't a yorkie...

i almost posted here last week, as Jake was having some problems... but i decided not to...thankfully, all is well...and i had a lot of support and love from RTeddy, who's a wonderful dog mom and a terrific person...

I did post when we had to say goodbye to our Gus, and got a lot of very wonderful responses...so thanks for that, i always appreciate kindness...most people do, and they don't want to feel like they are *less than* anyone else...

like i've said before, i worked on a forum for over 10 years, not related to dogs...and trained my moderators...we never allowed *anyone* to attack anyone else...period...

Originally Posted by windwalker (Post 4486852)

This was the starting question


"Two pups, different breeds, same age..... same day pick up? (No vacs)"


Almost 5 pages of BoB comments, very few addressing this question, would you as a new person feel comfortable asking a question here???


Again my thoughts are it would be dependent on your experience with dogs and training. Along with that experience would be the knowledge to evaluate the two puppies environment and health risks.

Originally Posted by MaWilliams3 (Post 4486927)

Which is why I decided against it. But at this point, my question no longer matters.

Originally Posted by windwalker (Post 4486852)

This was the starting question


"Two pups, different breeds, same age..... same day pick up? (No vacs)"


Almost 5 pages of BoB comments, very few addressing this question, would you as a new person feel comfortable asking a question here???


Again my thoughts are it would be dependent on your experience with dogs and training. Along with that experience would be the knowledge to evaluate the two puppies environment and health risks.

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1 (Post 4486949)

You skipped right over the most important part!! The title of the post!! I think the attitude of the post was set with the title, not the question!
" honest thoughts w/o the uglies" sets a negative tone, as if it was expected that people would be "ugly" or intolerant of the OP or the question. I am sure without that negative connotation straight out of the gate, with just the questions asked, the entire post would have never produced "5 pages of BoB" (have NO idea what that means!) and the question would have been answered with opinions directed specifically to the question, rather than members getting their backs bowed up over the implication they had better answer sweetly and only in a manner approved by the OP or dont answer the post at all because "what you have to say is irrelevant". Dont approach people with an attitude, expecting hatefullness and meaness and beligerance, and you more than likely will not find the need to run and hide. I hope all new posters take that advice to heart....all breeds are welcome here, no dogs are crap, and if members on this forum are treated like they are sincerely concerned and more than willing to help address any question or issue a poster may have, rather than like a bunch of ogres just waiting to attack some poor new person, they may just be amazed at the positive responses they receive.
And congratulations go out to New Yorkers for their win!! Their very pretty representative from New York, won Miss America title this evening!!

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88 (Post 4486906)

I don't know anyone who thinks your dog is crap or would ever even say that. Its general knowledge reputable breeders don't breed mixes because they breed to better the breed that doesn't mean your dog is crap and if you didn't know that before you do now. I really don't think anyone on yt would call your dog crap and if they did you should report it. Anything you think is wrong report it that's the only way to make it stop and go away.

Originally Posted by R-Teddy (Post 4486757)

But it appears I have now find myself doing exactly what I would not do, which is argue or debate the subject. Sorry for being condescending on that. I have spoken my peace. Those who dont see or understand what I am trying to say here, highly like will not wont no matter what else I say.

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88 (Post 4486906)

I don't know anyone who thinks your dog is crap or would ever even say that. Its general knowledge reputable breeders don't breed mixes because they breed to better the breed that doesn't mean your dog is crap and if you didn't know that before you do now. I really don't think anyone on yt would call your dog crap and if they did you should report it. Anything you think is wrong report it that's the only way to make it stop and go away.

Originally Posted by R-Teddy (Post 4486960)

I dont think anyone said anyone said those words, "you have a crap dog". What was said is it often comes across in a way that makes us FEEL like some people are saying that.

Was it their intent to make people feel that way? Perhaps not, but that doesnt mean it doesnt happen.

To say, no one has ever made anyone feel that way, well im sorry but I disagree. You have at least two people on this thread that say they were made to feel that way at some point on this forum in the past at least.

Originally Posted by MarkFromSea (Post 4486979)

Very often, reporting a rude or condescending posting remains in the thread. It just depends on who wrote the rude post.

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88 (Post 4486980)

I never said made them feel that way I said never called there dog crap.