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margaritaville · 06-23-2014, 03:52 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. My BIL was here last week playing with my two and he said he is not getting another dog until he is so old that he will die before the dog.

. We had to ask him, so what will happen to the dog? He looked totally confused. His dog had gone into liver failure and died about 15 yrs ago.

matese · 06-23-2014, 07:01 AM

Elsa so sorry for the loss of your lil April. I had to put my sweet lil girl down this past Oct. 2013. I know the pain you are going through. I have lost to many but she was the last of my brood and was 16 y/o. All I was doing was crying, the house felt so empty, I have not been with out a baby for 35 + years. This last girl Matese was gotten as a companion for my other baby. In 1996 I had 3 babies, all females, in Feb. 96 I lost one she was 13 y/o, the 2 remaining had each other although you could tell they missed their sister, but they still has each other, 6 months later the 2nd older one passed away in the house, age 10 y/o, the last one was the baby of the 3, now she was alone, she was pining away for her lost sister, was not eating, not playful, not so happy to see me when I would come home from work. I gave her 6 months to adjust, she didn't, so in 1997 I got my beautiful Matese to keep her company. It was an immediate bond, my Schnae adored Matese so much. Schnae had to be put down in 2005 age 13 y/o. Being they were extra, extra close Matese took it very hard, I was now not in a position to get her a companion as my work kept me out of the house 15 to 16 hours a day. I could could not raise a puppy being gone so many hours. It took Matese 9 months to adjust and she just got closer to me. So loosing this lil girl for me was very over whelming. I swore no more dogs, loosing them is too painful, I can't do it anymore. As it turned out 6 weeks after having to put my sweet girl down I did adopt a 2 1//2 y/o yorkie male all unplanned and a surprise. He rescued me, I needed him, he helped me cope with the loss of my lil girl. You need to grieve, cry, talk. They say in time the pain lessons, I don't know for me how that would have worked out. I have a memorial of my Matese, and I still cry for her 8 months later, but then my lil Cody boy will jump at me and give me lil yorkie kisses, and puts that smile back on my face and eases the pain in my heart. All of us on YT have lost a beloved baby, we know the pain you are in and we are all here to help you get through this. I know to write about your lil April is painful, I cannot write, or even talk about my Matese without crying. But we are all here for you. I will keep you in my prayers to help you stay strong to be able to get past this. Give your other baby lots of love and extra attention for she is also grieving and missing her lil sister.

rubymoon2072 · 06-23-2014, 07:02 AM

I am so very very sorry for the loss of your April may she RIP.

EarthAngel · 06-23-2014, 07:07 AM

Elsa, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved April.

BELLBELLBOO · 06-23-2014, 07:11 AM

My heart breaks for you !!! Be strong,and remember all the good times !

JstPooh · 06-23-2014, 07:39 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

Wylie's Mom · 06-23-2014, 08:00 AM

Elsa - I am so very sorry for your loss - it's indescribable to lose a pet; it's a kind of love that is unmatched elsewhere.

Please do tell us about your lovely April, if you feel so inclined. We're here for you.

Btw, we also have a Rest In Piece/Grieving section that has some articles on surviving the loss of a pet: In Memory Of... (R.I.P.) - YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community

april4ever · 06-23-2014, 11:07 AM

I received baby April's ashes! I the pain in my heart just hurts! I can't even open my eyes! I thank God for guiding me to this website! This is helping me cope! Thank you (all) for helping me get through this challenging day!! Thank you God for all of you! April's mommy ( elsa)

sandy simpson · 06-23-2014, 11:11 AM

Sending prayers of comfort for you, Elsa. You really did the right move for your sweet Yorkie. I don't like to say I put my Teddy Peanut down. I handed his precious little spirit back to his creator. Animals are given to us as a gift to have in our lives temporarily. When their job is done, it is time for them to go home. Just like us. Home is where they are the happiest, no suffering, no pain. We do not know why their lives end when they do but it is a heartbreak for us. I know in my heart when we are called to our eternal home will will see them again. The Lord loves us and all of our precious Yorkies.

Lil Sis · 06-23-2014, 11:12 AM

I am so sorry. It is hard to loose one you love.. but it is still better that you had that love. I read somewhere the best way to show that love in memory is to save the life of another. I hope you find you way to remember April.

take care

kreuer · 06-23-2014, 11:20 AM

I am very sorry for your loss. I know this must be a hard time for you. I see you are from sc. I grew up and lived in summerville until I moved to wi 5 year ago. I miss it there.

april4ever · 06-23-2014, 11:22 AM

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of YOU! You are helping me get through this challenging time ( my baby april) is the love of my life! I received her ashes and I didn't know I had so much pain in me! Thank you God for guiding me to this website! Hug your babies and give them a lot of love!

April's mommy

dawn27 · 06-23-2014, 02:16 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, I share in your grief as I just lost my own baby this past December. It's not easy seeing the every day things that remind us of them and our loss but I can tell you that it gets easier with time. Just try to remember that she is in a better place now and that she is with you in spirit.

Silver Lace · 06-25-2014, 04:23 PM

April 4Ever,
What helped me was having my baby's ashes like you have your baby's ashes. It really gave me comfort. I lost other dogs in the past but never got their ashes and this helped me cope with her loss more than when the others were gone and I had nothing of them anymore. As all said it will get easier as time passes and you do have another love to share your grief with. I used to talk to my Joey about my Lacey and that helped too. It helped me to have him to be there for me when the pain was too much. Your baby you have now will no doubt be a great consolation for you. Best Wishes

Dudley's Mom · 06-25-2014, 04:34 PM

I, too, lost my baby on June 10. It was the hardest thing of my life but he needed to be with my late husband. He had kidney failure and hung on for me for 7 years. I know the feeling that you have but it will get easier. you are in the right place.

06-23-2014, 03:52 AM	#16
margaritaville Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: west long branch, n.j. Posts: 4,457	I'm so sorry for your loss. My BIL was here last week playing with my two and he said he is not getting another dog until he is so old that he will die before the dog. . We had to ask him, so what will happen to the dog? He looked totally confused. His dog had gone into liver failure and died about 15 yrs ago. __________________ Joan, Bubba and Sissy-BEWARE OF PUPPY MILLS breathe in, breathe out, move on -jb

06-23-2014, 07:01 AM	#17
matese Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa. Posts: 69,269	Elsa so sorry for the loss of your lil April. I had to put my sweet lil girl down this past Oct. 2013. I know the pain you are going through. I have lost to many but she was the last of my brood and was 16 y/o. All I was doing was crying, the house felt so empty, I have not been with out a baby for 35 + years. This last girl Matese was gotten as a companion for my other baby. In 1996 I had 3 babies, all females, in Feb. 96 I lost one she was 13 y/o, the 2 remaining had each other although you could tell they missed their sister, but they still has each other, 6 months later the 2nd older one passed away in the house, age 10 y/o, the last one was the baby of the 3, now she was alone, she was pining away for her lost sister, was not eating, not playful, not so happy to see me when I would come home from work. I gave her 6 months to adjust, she didn't, so in 1997 I got my beautiful Matese to keep her company. It was an immediate bond, my Schnae adored Matese so much. Schnae had to be put down in 2005 age 13 y/o. Being they were extra, extra close Matese took it very hard, I was now not in a position to get her a companion as my work kept me out of the house 15 to 16 hours a day. I could could not raise a puppy being gone so many hours. It took Matese 9 months to adjust and she just got closer to me. So loosing this lil girl for me was very over whelming. I swore no more dogs, loosing them is too painful, I can't do it anymore. As it turned out 6 weeks after having to put my sweet girl down I did adopt a 2 1//2 y/o yorkie male all unplanned and a surprise. He rescued me, I needed him, he helped me cope with the loss of my lil girl. You need to grieve, cry, talk. They say in time the pain lessons, I don't know for me how that would have worked out. I have a memorial of my Matese, and I still cry for her 8 months later, but then my lil Cody boy will jump at me and give me lil yorkie kisses, and puts that smile back on my face and eases the pain in my heart. All of us on YT have lost a beloved baby, we know the pain you are in and we are all here to help you get through this. I know to write about your lil April is painful, I cannot write, or even talk about my Matese without crying. But we are all here for you. I will keep you in my prayers to help you stay strong to be able to get past this. Give your other baby lots of love and extra attention for she is also grieving and missing her lil sister. __________________ Joan, mom to Cody RIP Matese Schnae Kajon Kia forever in my A House Is Not A Home Without A Dog

06-23-2014, 07:02 AM	#18
rubymoon2072 Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA Posts: 9,209	I am so very very sorry for the loss of your April may she RIP. __________________ Cedric N Lola N Keylo RIP Punkee Princess

06-23-2014, 07:07 AM	#19
EarthAngel Donating YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: New York Posts: 18,134	Elsa, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved April. __________________ Dyan, Mom to Bentley

06-23-2014, 08:00 AM	#22
Wylie's Mom Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 35,889 Blog Entries: 2	Elsa - I am so very sorry for your loss - it's indescribable to lose a pet; it's a kind of love that is unmatched elsewhere. Please do tell us about your lovely April, if you feel so inclined. We're here for you. Btw, we also have a Rest In Piece/Grieving section that has some articles on surviving the loss of a pet: In Memory Of... (R.I.P.) - YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community __________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann \| Pfeiffer \| Marcel Verdel Purcell \| Wylie \| Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨°

06-23-2014, 07:11 AM	#20
BELLBELLBOO Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: florida Posts: 162	My heart breaks for you !!! Be strong,and remember all the good times !

06-23-2014, 07:39 AM	#21
JstPooh YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Orange County, CA Posts: 379	I am so sorry for your loss.

06-23-2014, 11:07 AM	#23
april4ever Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina Posts: 31	I received baby April's ashes! I the pain in my heart just hurts! I can't even open my eyes! I thank God for guiding me to this website! This is helping me cope! Thank you (all) for helping me get through this challenging day!! Thank you God for all of you! April's mommy ( elsa)

06-23-2014, 11:11 AM	#24
sandy simpson YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: santee, california Posts: 2,123 Blog Entries: 1	dog Sending prayers of comfort for you, Elsa. You really did the right move for your sweet Yorkie. I don't like to say I put my Teddy Peanut down. I handed his precious little spirit back to his creator. Animals are given to us as a gift to have in our lives temporarily. When their job is done, it is time for them to go home. Just like us. Home is where they are the happiest, no suffering, no pain. We do not know why their lives end when they do but it is a heartbreak for us. I know in my heart when we are called to our eternal home will will see them again. The Lord loves us and all of our precious Yorkies.

06-23-2014, 11:12 AM	#25
Lil Sis Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,008	I am so sorry. It is hard to loose one you love.. but it is still better that you had that love. I read somewhere the best way to show that love in memory is to save the life of another. I hope you find you way to remember April. take care __________________ Shinja mom to Remy lil Sis to Bailey and Sammy

06-23-2014, 11:20 AM	#26
kreuer YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Manitowoc, WI Posts: 693	I am very sorry for your loss. I know this must be a hard time for you. I see you are from sc. I grew up and lived in summerville until I moved to wi 5 year ago. I miss it there.

06-23-2014, 11:22 AM	#27
april4ever Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina Posts: 31	Grieving for April ( my yorkie) Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of YOU! You are helping me get through this challenging time ( my baby april) is the love of my life! I received her ashes and I didn't know I had so much pain in me! Thank you God for guiding me to this website! Hug your babies and give them a lot of love! April's mommy

06-23-2014, 02:16 PM	#28
dawn27 2+2=4 X the Love ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Bean Town Ohio Posts: 9,456 Blog Entries: 1	I am so sorry for your loss, I share in your grief as I just lost my own baby this past December. It's not easy seeing the every day things that remind us of them and our loss but I can tell you that it gets easier with time. Just try to remember that she is in a better place now and that she is with you in spirit. __________________ Mommy to: Quincy, & Ruby Bella / Miah & Brandi Gone but Never Forgotten Visit: Bella Dawns for all of your Custom Pet Wear needs.

06-25-2014, 04:23 PM	#29
Silver Lace YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Hampton,Virginia Posts: 683	April 4Ever, What helped me was having my baby's ashes like you have your baby's ashes. It really gave me comfort. I lost other dogs in the past but never got their ashes and this helped me cope with her loss more than when the others were gone and I had nothing of them anymore. As all said it will get easier as time passes and you do have another love to share your grief with. I used to talk to my Joey about my Lacey and that helped too. It helped me to have him to be there for me when the pain was too much. Your baby you have now will no doubt be a great consolation for you. Best Wishes Last edited by Silver Lace; 06-25-2014 at 04:24 PM.

06-25-2014, 04:34 PM	#30
Dudley's Mom YT Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Hemet, Ca Posts: 359	I am sorry for your loss. I, too, lost my baby on June 10. It was the hardest thing of my life but he needed to be with my late husband. He had kidney failure and hung on for me for 7 years. I know the feeling that you have but it will get easier. you are in the right place.