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06-06-2014, 10:28 AM | #46 |
Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA
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| and these types of threads right here are the reason I seriously consider leaving YT. wow. talk about assuming and slandering someone. unreal.
__________________ Cedric N Lola N Keylo RIP Punkee Princess |
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06-06-2014, 10:40 AM | #47 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| The initial post doesn't say a thing about your immediate searching the internet and neighborhood, calling vets, groomers, shelters to try to connect with the dog's true owner. Your initial post also mentions you'd already allowed your daughter to name her, rather as if you intended to allow her to keep her rather than just calling her "little one" or something rather generic until a proper search could take place. Your initial post sounds as if you're announcing your good luck in finding a Yorkie but doesn't seem to show any worry about where she came from or how you can get her back there. I'm sorry if that's not true but that's exactly how it struck me when I read it! I truly hope you understand how traumatic it is to lose a precious little Yorkie that you've loved and has come to love you and to know that your dog is out there somewhere but you just can't get to them. It's heartbreaking and utterly miserable for the owner and they spend all of their time wondering, worrying themselves sick, going non-stop to find the dog. It's exhausting and horrible. I pray you are doing all you can to find that dog's real owner and get her home again ASAP. I know if I found a Yorkie, my first post about it would be to tell approximately where it was found, describe it, mention the efforts I'd already made to start the search and ask what more could I do to locate the owner and, maybe most importantly, post a link to a Facebook posting about the dog being found and asking others to help find the owner.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
06-06-2014, 10:47 AM | #48 |
Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA
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| It does not matter what she says or does no one here has a right to pass judgement. Nor is it ok to tell someone what to do she is an adult. Advice is great but this is beyond that. Also let me add not everyone who has lost a dog wants them back. My Punkee Princess may she RIP was found. I brought her directly to the vet she was chipped. The owner had dumped her three weeks prior up here in NH, lived full time in Mass and was no where near thrilled when the chip company called them to tell them their dog was found. They let me keep her so there is another side to the story. She ran the streets for three weeks with no food or shelter because her owner was not kind enough to surrender her.
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06-06-2014, 10:47 AM | #49 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Orange County, CA
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| What is sad is that he is trying to find the owner and unfortunately for him, it's not up to your standards. Now that is Wow... Wow! When you have made other feel the same then one would think you might step back and say hmmm... maybe I could have worded that differently. This is suppose to be a helpful place to go for advice and help, not lectures. Have a good day. |
06-06-2014, 10:57 AM | #50 | |
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06-06-2014, 11:11 AM | #51 | |
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As for your Punkee, there was an effort by the chipping company to contact the owners who didn't want the dog. But there was an effort to locate the owners. What if someone would have stolen Punkee and then abandoned him and his family had been looking for him? That puts an entirely different spin on the story. I have Bogey who is from a shelter in Portage IN. He was found running on a country road in a thunderstorm with a leash on. He was malnourished, his nails were curled under and he was a matted mess. But the difference is that he sat in a case at animal control for 2 weeks before he became adoptable. Nobody ever claimed him. But he was posted on their site as a lost dog/stray. After the required length of time he was put up for adoption. I'll never know what his story is but I know that it was done under the rules of the laws.
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06-06-2014, 11:38 AM | #52 | |
Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA
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And you do not know for sure that the owner of this dog did not do the same thing as was done to my Punkee Princess. Bottom line it can go either way there are always three sides to a story so unless all the facts on are the table it's a crap shut on what really happened to poor Belle. At least for the time being she is safe and being well cared for and loved. I understand both sides trust me if I ever lost my babies I would never stop until I found them...I make every effort to ensure that will never happen.
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06-06-2014, 11:39 AM | #53 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| How does the OP actually know this dog was neglected or mistreated for a fact - she doesn't. My Jilly, born a runt, was frail all of her life - ate little, had serious congenital problems with her GI system that kept her thin but had only the best vetting, love and care trying to get her to eat well. Possibly, as the vet and she are surmising as to how the dog got the way it is, we have equal rights to surmise, too, based on the things we've been told - that perhaps the dog had an eating disorder, the owner was working hard to entice her to eat; or she'd been out on her own for a good deal of time trying to survive. Perhaps she'd just recovered from a long illness. Suppose she was a recent rescue or foster, efforts made to get her well-nourished and she found a way to get out while she was yet un-adjusted to her new home? All kinds of things happen with dogs - they get out all the time - and the OP making a judgment that's she's malnourished because she's been neglected by her former owner, based allegedly on what some vet says or not - who doesn't know why she's malnourished -, is jumping to conclusions and allows us to do much the same. Everybody makes judgments based on what we read, see or hear all day long - just as the OP is doing. What's fair for her is fair for us. This thread starts out as if a serendipity had occurred in her life with no concern about finding the prior owner expressed. Then later, the OP states she will have to be certain that the dog wasn't neglected before returning her, a decision a judge needs to make - someone who is not biased or whose own self-interests are involved. The law states we cannot claim things as our own just because we find them and due process is owed to all involved. If the owner were found, the AC investigates, interviews neighbors and inspects the home, premises, checks with the dog's vet, the true story should come out and perhaps the judge would award her to the OP. But to just make up your mind based on a couple of facts that the dog was malnourished due to neglect and state she's the one to decide its fate without making a heck of an effort to find the true owner, is just wrong, according to the morals and laws we all live by. It's just as likely there is a woman and maybe even another child somewhere desperately looking for that dog. I just hope the OP is making a real Facebook and other efforts to find her owner and take it from there as to what situation she came from.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
06-06-2014, 11:56 AM | #54 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: Bellflower, Ca, USA
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| Please look for the owner. Someone could be so desperate right now trying to find this baby. |
06-06-2014, 11:57 AM | #55 | |
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06-06-2014, 12:05 PM | #56 | |
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__________________ “Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.” Mark Twain | |
06-06-2014, 12:36 PM | #57 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker | Yes I've not been on for a while, due to very hurtful comments (bold capitals etc) and I'm very passive in my content. Unfortunately when YT writes saying they miss you, they don't facilitate a response vehicle as to why you have abandoned the forum? Probably too time consuming? A great shame. |
06-06-2014, 02:10 PM | #58 |
and Khloe Mae's too! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Eastern Washington
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| I hope you continue to look for her owners. Baxter and Cooper were missing for 18 months before their mom was able to find them. She spent thousands in fliers and billboards and was finally able to get them back thanks to the police. Good luck finding her owners!
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06-06-2014, 06:12 PM | #59 | |
Yorkie mom of 4 Donating YT Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LaPlata, Md
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__________________ Taylor My babies Joey, Penny ,Ollie & Dixie Callie Mae, you will forever be in my heart! | |
06-06-2014, 06:15 PM | #60 | |
Yorkie mom of 4 Donating YT Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LaPlata, Md
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__________________ Taylor My babies Joey, Penny ,Ollie & Dixie Callie Mae, you will forever be in my heart! | |
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