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05-29-2014, 05:12 PM | #1 |
YT 1000 Club Member | I Am So Over This!!! So. One of my friends came by so we could plan a ladies night and one of my neighbors came outside to get her son from the bus. The bus came her son (11 year old) got off ,said hello, and asked me could he come into my home and play with my son. I told him fine that my son was getting ready for kung fu but they could play until my husband said it was time to go. I told my husband to put our dogs up Roxie(non aggressive 2 year old English bulldog) and Rasta( 1 year old aggressive yorkie). The little boy and his mother told me he's scared of dogs. My husband put Roxie in her crate in the living room and put Rasta in our bedroom. ClOSED the door. After kung fu my husband tells me the little boy went in our room and was aggravating Rasta by yelling and clapping at him. Luckily my husband put Rasta in his upstairs crate so he couldn't bite the kid, but seriously! This kid has seen my dogs enough to know Rasta isn't the nicest to ppl not in his family. Who goes just opening pplz bedroom doors after they've been closed? If he's so afraid of dogs wouldn't he have stayed away from both dogs in the first place? I want to be on good terms with my neighbors and let my kid have friends over but if I put my furry family members away so your child to come in my home please teach your child to respect my home and pets! I know kids get overexcited at times and forget their manners but the rudeness and lack of respect seems to be continuous with this particular neighbor(and her kid). Unfortunately our kids get along great. Ugh. Ok rant over Last edited by ColesMommy01; 05-29-2014 at 05:13 PM. |
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05-29-2014, 05:34 PM | #2 |
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| If this happened to me, I would sit down with this kid and his mother, (and also have my husband there since he saw the kid in your room), and tell them both that either he respects your whole family(incl your pups) or he is not welcome in your house. I would keep a close watch on him whenever he's in your house. If you don't stand up for your family members, nobody will. On second thought- I've been thinking about this situation and I might be really tempted to just say that from now on he's not allowed at your house. If this is the kind of kid that sneaks into private areas of your home to antagonize family members (furry or not!), he might not be the kind of kid you want your son hanging out with. Good luck!
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05-29-2014, 05:48 PM | #3 |
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| If your son and your neighbor's son really are good friends then have your son go to their house. Then again, do you really want your son to be such good friends with a kid like this? He obviously is not scared of dogs. Maybe he's scared of them when they bite him after he's been a jerk to the dogs? Did your husband say anything to him while he was doing it?
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05-29-2014, 06:22 PM | #4 | |
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* on a side note it seems I'm not the only one with an issue. I was at another neighbors home for a bba Easter wknd. Just to say hello and drop off a dish since I had other plans. The same neighbor's son walked into this particular family's home without ringing the doorbell or knocking and didn't even say hello!!!! He just came in asking to be fed. Are manners a thing of the past? DANG!!! | |
05-29-2014, 06:28 PM | #5 | |
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05-29-2014, 06:32 PM | #6 |
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| Teasing an animal when it's helpless and harmless (in a cage) is not a good sign! I would not let that child within an inch of my animals, in my house or outside. I'd have a serious talk with my child, too, to see how this boy treats other kids. |
05-29-2014, 06:41 PM | #7 |
YT 1000 Club Member | This was what my husband was saying, but I was like "Maybe he's just being a little boy". Then I realized MY little boy has never done anything like that. I know I shouldn't judge all children based on my kid but I feel so crappy that I wasn't there to protect Rasta while this kid who's supposedly scared of dogs was teasing him. |
05-29-2014, 06:42 PM | #8 | |
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05-29-2014, 06:50 PM | #9 | |
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05-29-2014, 07:10 PM | #10 |
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| Wow, after reading your other posts, I'd have real, serious concerns about your child's associating with a boy who has no respect for others' privacy, rules, boundaries, language, pets, etc., and I'd never let him visit at a home where the mother drinks and is irresponsible in raising a child without basic manners and respect. |
05-29-2014, 07:18 PM | #11 | |
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05-29-2014, 10:00 PM | #12 |
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| I think her mom is lying about him being scared of dogs to avoid letting out that she doesn't like pets, or doesn't allow him to have one for whatever reason. I'm not surprised the kid acts that way since he might truly feel more at home when he's visiting neighbors. I'm sure that he will try to change his attitude if you talk with him, since chances are that he might think higher of you and your husband than he does of his actual parents. Last edited by JuanRamos; 05-29-2014 at 10:04 PM. |
05-30-2014, 03:26 AM | #13 |
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| I would talk to the kid myself about what the expectations are in my home and let him know what you expect of your child is what you expect of him. And if needed have your husband there as well because that fatherly influence might help. I have always been a firm believer in it takes a village to raise a child and because his mom is turning a blind eye, that's where I think it would be okay for you to chime in. The kids get along and we would hate to see this kid end up down the wrong path. Afterwards, I would tell the mother, but not before I talked to him. In this instance it's better to ask forgiveness than permission. I've had to say something to some of my daughter's friends and they know that I don't play with disrespectful children.
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05-30-2014, 03:53 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member | I would just let the kids know when they are in the house if a door is closed they are not allowed in that room. And that he needs to ask permission if he wants anything
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05-30-2014, 03:57 AM | #15 | |
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I dont think she's being quite honest myself when it comes to the whole "scared of dogs" thing. She does like pets or at least mine since she's asked repeatedly that I breed one of them and that she get a puppy at a "military discount" ummmm no. He just won't be coming over any longer. I called his and told her about the situation and asked that she say something to him about it. The hubs already said he didn't want the child coming over at all anymore but I was trying to be more lenient if the mother was understanding. I told her next time I would have to say something to him since we don't allow that type of behavior. Her answer was "I don't allow anyone to tell my child what to do". My response "If you want your child to come into my home and I catch him doing something wrong I'm going to say something. So I guess he won't be coming over again." | |
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