Threat!

[JasmineNoelle]

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Oh, no! Not on your neighbor - to use fighting a possible fire on your property or house. Our police department told me that in today's world, anytime anyone makes a complaint about a neighbor for whatever reason, the neighbor could take it out on their home from breaking a window to setting their house on fire. They were just trying to alert me to be ready for possible ugly repercussions if I reported her barking dog and it shocked me that people would go to those ends. I checked my fire extinguishers and got ready for the worst but thankfully upon talking to my neighbor, she did blow up with anger at first but then subsequently taught the dog not to bark and all is good now. I sure hope your neighbor can get some help and you no longer have to fear what he might do to your dogs, your family or your premises.

Oh, wow I guess you have to really cover all your basis. Thank you for the advice, I would have never thought about that at all. We haven't seen him at all today. Very quiet today still. I think some family has intervened.

[wemple2]

Peace and quiet is a good thing, sure hope it just continues...

[yorkietalkjilly]

Originally Posted by JasmineNoelle

Oh, wow I guess you have to really cover all your basis. Thank you for the advice, I would have never thought about that at all. We haven't seen him at all today. Very quiet today still. I think some family has intervened.

Maybe the police contacted his NOK and told them they needed to step in and begin a dialogue with him about the way he's been acting and what could happen if he doesn't get a handle on his behavior. Hopefully he's got enough awareness of his condition to listen to them, get help and rein himself in. I sure hope so because I know having neighbor troubles is so awful as one has to live cheek-by-jowl with them and it can get very dangerous when tempers flare or one party is truly dangerous as this man is. I pray for safety and peace for you and yours.

[JasmineNoelle]

Originally Posted by wemple2

Peace and quiet is a good thing, sure hope it just continues...

Yes, so do we and of course for him too.

[JasmineNoelle]

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Maybe the police contacted his NOK and told them they needed to step in and begin a dialogue with him about the way he's been acting and what could happen if he doesn't get a handle on his behavior. Hopefully he's got enough awareness of his condition to listen to them, get help and rein himself in. I sure hope so because I know having neighbor troubles is so awful as one has to live cheek-by-jowl with them and it can get very dangerous when tempers flare or one party is truly dangerous as this man is. I pray for safety and peace for you and yours.

I sure hope someone has intervened. This person needed help badly and I pray he received the help he needed. Thank you for your prayers, I greatly appreciate them. Blessings to you and yours.

[wemple2]

Hey, just wondered, have you seen him around there? Maybe he was admitted...and getting some much needed help.

[Yorkiemom1]

Perhaps you could conbtact the police and see if they can tell you if there has been anintervention of some kind....especially if you are terrified by this person and you have seem to have lost track of him....and you really are on high alert and you dont know where he has secluded himself......they may feel sorry for you and at leaast tell you if his family was contacted or if he was picked up and hospitalized......

[kjc]

Wow! What a nightmare! Just read through this entire thread... would calling an ambulance (if he starts up again) be better than calling the police? They would have to come and check him out medically, then they would get the police involved if he is acting irrationally.... just guessing though. But I think the ambulance attendants would be more likely to remove him to a hospital than the police would be to arrest him. Keeping you all in my prayers.

[wemple2]

Originally Posted by kjc

Wow! What a nightmare! Just read through this entire thread... would calling an ambulance (if he starts up again) be better than calling the police? They would have to come and check him out medically, then they would get the police involved if he is acting irrationally.... just guessing though. But I think the ambulance attendants would be more likely to remove him to a hospital than the police would be to arrest him. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Exactly, but the police should have done this when they saw him acting erratically...he would then be taken...most likely against his will to the nearest ER for a mental health assessment. He still may not have been admitted, depending on their findings, but at the very least he could have gotten treatment...

[JasmineNoelle]

So far all continues to be quiet here and I am thankful.

[yorkietalkjilly]

So glad for you and your babies! I hope the family got him into a hospital and he's getting some medicine and help.

[JasmineNoelle]

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

So glad for you and your babies! I hope the family got him into a hospital and he's getting some medicine and help.

So do we.

[dawn27]

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

Welcome to my world....and MY neighbor is a police officer with hoodlum kids that are dealing me misery. I NEVER let my babies outside without me being right with them, because of holes in or under the fence, predator birds, bob cats, etc. But I never dreamed the little b******* would throw fish hooks into my yard. My back yard is "fenced and cross fenced" to keep them from even going anywhere near that side of the yard because I am so fearful poisoned meat will be tossed over the fence....not because my babies bark, but just because they are my babies and I reported the thugs when they shot out my car windows and it pizzed them off. I have the 9 camera security system, I also have a laser system that throws beams across the yard, so that if anyone comes over the fence, they will break the beam and an alarm will sound inside the house. I have every thing else you listed...my privacy fence is 8 feet tall, but that wonty keep them from throwing stuff over tthe fence. My babies do not go out into the "big yard" where I have all their ecercise equipment and fun activity center set up, until I do a complete and thorough sweep of the yard on that side of the house. I set up swimming pools over here by the patio area....the babies all stay over here in this area, where the thugs can not access.......I have this area covered by concrete and flag stones, so it is easier for me to see stuff on the ground......it is pretty dad gum sad when we have to be terrified for the safety of our kids and animals.....and even our homes, as this thug "of mine" was caught setting the local elementary school on fire.

This reminds me of a situation we had a few years ago when two of my four pups got really sick with diarrhea issues. I jut recently found out the cause of by a neighbor who he told he did it to. My neighbor the Father/Police officer who threw laxative laced hot dogs over our fence for the dogs to eat not the kids. I would of never imagined someone especially him doing that. It disgusts me to even speak to him with respect knowing that I know that he doesn't think I know, but for the sake of keeping the peace I keep it to myself.

OP; I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your babies !! Stay safe and I agree keep records of all of the happening and going ones for future reference. You just never know when you may need it.

[JasmineNoelle]

Originally Posted by dawn27

This reminds me of a situation we had a few years ago when two of my four pups got really sick with diarrhea issues. I jut recently found out the cause of by a neighbor who he told he did it to. My neighbor the Father/Police officer who threw laxative laced hot dogs over our fence for the dogs to eat not the kids. I would of never imagined someone especially him doing that. It disgusts me to even speak to him with respect knowing that I know that he doesn't think I know, but for the sake of keeping the peace I keep it to myself.

OP; I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your babies !! Stay safe and I agree keep records of all of the happening and going ones for future reference. You just never know when you may need it.

Wow.....some times that is all I can say.

When I was a child (I am 60) we ran all over our neighborhood. Not as a gang, not in a hood......a hood was what was on a jacket. We had fun. No one poisoned our dogs and they actually ran free with us kids. Neighbors knew each other, had block parties together, watched out for all the kids (meaning if you did something wrong like said a swear word or spit on someone they immediately corrected you and then called your parents...and your parents were glad they did). Teenagers babysat the younger kids in the neighborhood. We all went to the Saturday matinee by ourselves and our parents never had to worry about someone molesting us. We took our pillow cases on Halloween night, just us kids, and walk the neighborhoods trick or treating. No one had to check our candy for razor blades or worse. You didn't pick up your newspaper with your morning coffee and read about a neighbor going crazy and blowing away several next door or in a theater. Things moved at quieter, slower pace. You could still hear children laughing while they played outside late into the night catching lighting bugs. I miss those times.

[dawn27]

Originally Posted by JasmineNoelle

Wow.....some times that is all I can say.

When I was a child (I am 60) we ran all over our neighborhood. Not as a gang, not in a hood......a hood was what was on a jacket. We had fun. No one poisoned our dogs and they actually ran free with us kids. Neighbors knew each other, had block parties together, watched out for all the kids (meaning if you did something wrong like said a swear word or spit on someone they immediately corrected you and then called your parents...and your parents were glad they did). Teenagers babysat the younger kids in the neighborhood. We all went to the Saturday matinee by ourselves and our parents never had to worry about someone molesting us. We took our pillow cases on Halloween night, just us kids, and walk the neighborhoods trick or treating. No one had to check our candy for razor blades or worse. You didn't pick up your newspaper with your morning coffee and read about a neighbor going crazy and blowing away several next door or in a theater. Things moved at quieter, slower pace. You could still hear children laughing while they played outside late into the night catching lighting bugs. I miss those times.

I am almost 50 and I remember when we not only had our parents we had neighbors who became sergeant parents that watched over us and corrected us as you described, boy do I miss those days. We never got away with anything. Try to correct someone's kids today and you get cussed out or the law called on you. But I still do it, its the child care provider in me I guess. Times and people have changed so drastically and I can only imagine what it will be like for my kids as parents. It just so sad and disturbing to me it make me cry every day seeing the tragic and crazy stuff that happens now a days.