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omichka · 12-26-2005, 10:52 AM

If I were you, I would prefer to buy appx the same size like yours. For instance, my Jessica loves to play with dogs from 4 to 7 pounds. She is 5.5. I go to a dog park all the time and I see that.
i have been looking for a second female too, and I don't consider buying dogs who are smaller then 3.5 and bigger than 7. I know my dog and know that she just does not feel comfortable with other size dogs.

Piper · 12-26-2005, 11:05 AM

I can't say that I am not happy with her - she is adorable, healthy and full of life. It sounds like I don't have to worry about her size compared to Angus'. The more I think about it, the more I think everyone is right - I should have known that 1.15 meant 1 pound 15 oz. As for her age - I knew that 6 weeks was very young, and still purchased her. The breeder said that she was eating well (and is!) . . . I don't know what I was thinking. But she is a living being - not meant to be moved around like a toy. Am I just obsessing?

chachi · 12-26-2005, 11:10 AM

I have 6 lb yorkie and a 9 lb yorkie and they play just fine together.

MeganS · 12-26-2005, 11:10 AM

Yorkies can play great with "bigger" dogs! remember a 10 pound dog is STILL very small. I don't think you have to worry about the weight difference, heck I have a 9 pound yorkie and a 75 lb chocolate lab mix. As for the 6 weeks thing, other people have touched base with that so I don't need to repeat them. Good luck!

suz · 12-26-2005, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by suz

:zip:

What I meant by this is that I was going to keep my mouth shut until I was better prepared for saying anything.

First, as a breeder, my biggest concern was that the breeder you got your pup from, was willing to sell her at so young an age! That is criminal! There should be a law against selling puppies before they're ready. There is a lot of teaching that a mom does between 8 and 12 weeks. They're just NOT ready to go that early (IMO).

Second, is that I don't know how everyone else feels about a breeder saying that a pup will be a certain weight at any age!! The most you can guarantee is what the pup weighs at the time of the sale. You can guess-ta-mate til the cows come home, but to give you a weight guarantee to me is ridiculous!! If all you want is a "friend" for your other dog to be with, it shouldn't matter if she's a little bigger or not, as long as she is loved and well cared for. Don't shun her for being bigger. That's just more to love!
Suz

Piper · 12-26-2005, 11:22 AM

Thank you for letting me know that. I really appreciate the advice. Now that I have made the mistake of purchasing her too young, is there anything I should be doing to help her out where her "birth" mom would have?

magnolia · 12-26-2005, 11:31 AM

In my opinion, if you love her and you love Angus AND you take the time to acclimate them to one another, it shouldn't matter about size. My Gabby girl weighs in at a whopping 16 pounds and Gage is a scrawny (at least compared to "Miss Piggy"...LOL) 5 pounds. And although Gabby did not end weighing out in the 5-8 pound range like I thought she would, I cannot imagine my life without her! My two furbabies get along rather well now. It was an adjustment for Gabby at first but once she realized Gage was going nowhere (man was she pissed at me for bringing another baby into HER house), they have gotten along great. As several people on here have stated, there are no guarantees on weight at maturity. If you love her and want her, then keep her, shower her with love and kisses

ttreatsyorkies · 12-26-2005, 11:40 AM

Lots of play and socialization is the best thing for her now. You also need to establish who is boss. My mom will place her pups on their backs to show them they are doing wrong. I know that you can place your little one on her back, gently, and keep her there until she doesn't struggle. It wont hurt her but she may resist the idea. You definitly don't wont her being over dominate, which tends to occur in pups that are taken to soon from their mom. I'm not saying all are that way, but it is a a known occurance. Angus will also help her mature too. Pups pick alot up from other dogs. Just make sure she is getting a balanced diet, and that she doesn't get low blood sugar. Good Luck with your little girl. Don't worry about her adult weight yet, she is to young to determine even an estimate. She may lvl out and only be 5lbs. Just love her lots. Being as young as she is she may have more trouble maintaining her body heat, so a heating pad may be necessary.

lilbumbleybees · 12-26-2005, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by AmandaG

It really shouldn't matter if the new puppy is twice as big as Angus. Dogs with even more substantial differences in size get along fine. Even a ten pound dog is still a very small dog, and so as long as you teach your dogs the right ways to interact with each other, you shouldn't have any problems.

Agreed. My 4 lb. babie's brothers are a 26 lb. fuzzy mutt and a 65 lb. pitbull/lab mix. And Cohen, the lab mix, is his best friend! He's very gentle with Bouncer and only plays while laying on the ground and letting Bounce jump all over him. haha. So if you're worried about the size issue as far as playing and things like that, there is no need to worry at all. Maybe though, if you really feel that you were mislead, you can call and talk to the breeder. From the way it sounds though, you were the one that misunderstood the weight when you were told it. So in a way it's mostly your fault. If there is really "fault". Either way, Things will work out!

Jaspermom · 12-26-2005, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Piper

I can't say that I am not happy with her - she is adorable, healthy and full of life. It sounds like I don't have to worry about her size compared to Angus'. The more I think about it, the more I think everyone is right - I should have known that 1.15 meant 1 pound 15 oz. As for her age - I knew that 6 weeks was very young, and still purchased her. The breeder said that she was eating well (and is!) . . . I don't know what I was thinking. But she is a living being - not meant to be moved around like a toy. Am I just obsessing?

LOL, if you are obsessing, JOIN THE CLUB! LOL!! Really, that's what this place should be called "Yorkie Obsession", not Yorkie Talk, lol!!

I am happy to see that you have learned here what you should have learned during your research. You are a quick study, and welcome here! This sign :zip: means "Lips are zipped" and the person who does it in their message usually means they do not feel they should say a word, or in many cases, does not DARE to say a word so that no one's feelings get hurt or they get in trouble for what they may say! Passions run pretty deep here when it comes to the health and well being of fur babies. You made some heads spin with words such as "6 week old", "mislead", "weight", etc. As you spend time here, you will learn what the hot buttons are.

I also vote that you should keep the pup. It is obvious to me from this post that you are becoming attached. Youngsters like her require some special care, and there are lots of wonderful and reputable people here who are willing to help, for the sake of the baby!

Nice to meet you, and enjoy your new baby whom you will keep for many years and raise to be a perfect companion to both you and your other pup!

red98vett · 12-26-2005, 11:58 AM

I have 2 that are different in weight and it's never been a problem at all - each one thinks they are the boss of something so it really works out...

Are you thinking of returning her over out of worry for your other one ? ...or is it something that bothers you personally ? If it's the first question - they probably will be just fine...

You sound like your already 1/2 in love with her - I would just accept her the way she is because you really don't know at this age how big she'll be and she sounds really adorable.....Congratulations on your new puppy and I'd love to see pictures

Piper · 12-26-2005, 12:13 PM

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I will try the "on the back" to show who is boss, and of course we are with her all the time - socializing. She wants to socialize with Angus, but he backs off (backs up?). After I am sure the bladder is not loaded, she gets to run around in the living room/dining room. Then she likes to chase Angus around. He is fully capable of jumping on to the couch to get away, but doesn't. Maybe this means he is getting used to her.
She has just discovered the "other puppy" in the kitchen. That would be her reflection in the sliding glass door. Gotta go!

amyann · 12-26-2005, 12:19 PM

I don't have personal experience on this but my breeder did tell me that my pup play with her brother all the time and he was twice as big as her. Also, a friend of my got a regular size yorkie and the pup love to play with their two Goldens. Now that's a happy family. So... I wouldn't worry too much about the weight difference if I were you.

Although we only have one puppy, she doesn't mind saying hello and trying to play with any dog she encountered. In fact, she scared off quite a few dogs way way bigger than her at Petsmart just being "too friendly". Yorkies are fearless. They are tiny but they never truely realize that. They even think they can take out any one if it comes down to that.

So, relax and enjoy your puppies. I am sure there is no way you would be able to let her go even if you can get an exchange from your breeder. She is your baby now and you have bonded. They are going to grow up together and become best of friends. Just keep an eye out for her as she is still too young. You said she is eating fine so that's good news. We don't want her blood sugar to get low. There is no turning back now so have fun with them.

troubletb · 12-26-2005, 12:42 PM

I have a puppy that is 2.5 lbs and one that is 7.5 lbs and they are rough and stuff with each other, the only problem I have is the bigger one can get on the furniture and then the little one sits there and whins until someone picks him up on the furniture and then you need to put him down again when the others jump off...LOL but he takes the roughness just like the best of them. As far as her being big or small, you have no way of knowing until she is grown. The only thing that is wrong with this sistuation is her age. If she is adjusting and you love her, just keep her and love her some more.
PS: What does your vet say about her??

Piper · 12-26-2005, 01:09 PM

My vet said that she was very healthy. Her heart is strong, baby teeth are in and lots of space for the adult teeth (he said he'd would be surprised if she had any problems there!). No mites, no fleas, nails needed trimming (which I did as soon as we were home - and she wasn't squirmie for it at all). He said that at her age any joint problems would not be apparent, but hips and knees were good. She has quite the tummy on her - but he said that was fine and would "trim down" as she grew.

12-26-2005, 11:10 AM	#18
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12-26-2005, 11:10 AM	#19
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	Yorkies can play great with "bigger" dogs! remember a 10 pound dog is STILL very small. I don't think you have to worry about the weight difference, heck I have a 9 pound yorkie and a 75 lb chocolate lab mix. As for the 6 weeks thing, other people have touched base with that so I don't need to repeat them. Good luck! __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All

12-26-2005, 11:40 AM	#23
ttreatsyorkies YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Frisco TX Posts: 430	Lots of play and socialization is the best thing for her now. You also need to establish who is boss. My mom will place her pups on their backs to show them they are doing wrong. I know that you can place your little one on her back, gently, and keep her there until she doesn't struggle. It wont hurt her but she may resist the idea. You definitly don't wont her being over dominate, which tends to occur in pups that are taken to soon from their mom. I'm not saying all are that way, but it is a a known occurance. Angus will also help her mature too. Pups pick alot up from other dogs. Just make sure she is getting a balanced diet, and that she doesn't get low blood sugar. Good Luck with your little girl. Don't worry about her adult weight yet, she is to young to determine even an estimate. She may lvl out and only be 5lbs. Just love her lots. Being as young as she is she may have more trouble maintaining her body heat, so a heating pad may be necessary. __________________ yorkies are the key to the heart of happiness

12-26-2005, 11:58 AM	#26
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	I have 2 that are different in weight and it's never been a problem at all - each one thinks they are the boss of something so it really works out... Are you thinking of returning her over out of worry for your other one ? ...or is it something that bothers you personally ? If it's the first question - they probably will be just fine... You sound like your already 1/2 in love with her - I would just accept her the way she is because you really don't know at this age how big she'll be and she sounds really adorable.....Congratulations on your new puppy and I'd love to see pictures __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

12-26-2005, 12:42 PM	#29
troubletb Love my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Port Richey, Florida Posts: 2,339	I have a puppy that is 2.5 lbs and one that is 7.5 lbs and they are rough and stuff with each other, the only problem I have is the bigger one can get on the furniture and then the little one sits there and whins until someone picks him up on the furniture and then you need to put him down again when the others jump off...LOL but he takes the roughness just like the best of them. As far as her being big or small, you have no way of knowing until she is grown. The only thing that is wrong with this sistuation is her age. If she is adjusting and you love her, just keep her and love her some more. PS: What does your vet say about her?? __________________ Karen~ Bell, Lilly and Peter's Mom Rest in Peace <3

12-26-2005, 10:52 AM	#16
omichka YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: *** Posts: 647	If I were you, I would prefer to buy appx the same size like yours. For instance, my Jessica loves to play with dogs from 4 to 7 pounds. She is 5.5. I go to a dog park all the time and I see that. i have been looking for a second female too, and I don't consider buying dogs who are smaller then 3.5 and bigger than 7. I know my dog and know that she just does not feel comfortable with other size dogs.

12-26-2005, 11:05 AM	#17
Piper Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada Posts: 12	I can't say that I am not happy with her - she is adorable, healthy and full of life. It sounds like I don't have to worry about her size compared to Angus'. The more I think about it, the more I think everyone is right - I should have known that 1.15 meant 1 pound 15 oz. As for her age - I knew that 6 weeks was very young, and still purchased her. The breeder said that she was eating well (and is!) . . . I don't know what I was thinking. But she is a living being - not meant to be moved around like a toy. Am I just obsessing?

12-26-2005, 11:22 AM	#21
Piper Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada Posts: 12	Thank you for letting me know that. I really appreciate the advice. Now that I have made the mistake of purchasing her too young, is there anything I should be doing to help her out where her "birth" mom would have?

12-26-2005, 11:31 AM	#22
magnolia YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Mississippi Posts: 1,459	In my opinion, if you love her and you love Angus AND you take the time to acclimate them to one another, it shouldn't matter about size. My Gabby girl weighs in at a whopping 16 pounds and Gage is a scrawny (at least compared to "Miss Piggy"...LOL) 5 pounds. And although Gabby did not end weighing out in the 5-8 pound range like I thought she would, I cannot imagine my life without her! My two furbabies get along rather well now. It was an adjustment for Gabby at first but once she realized Gage was going nowhere (man was she pissed at me for bringing another baby into HER house), they have gotten along great. As several people on here have stated, there are no guarantees on weight at maturity. If you love her and want her, then keep her, shower her with love and kisses

12-26-2005, 12:13 PM	#27
Piper Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada Posts: 12	Thank you, thank you, thank you. I will try the "on the back" to show who is boss, and of course we are with her all the time - socializing. She wants to socialize with Angus, but he backs off (backs up?). After I am sure the bladder is not loaded, she gets to run around in the living room/dining room. Then she likes to chase Angus around. He is fully capable of jumping on to the couch to get away, but doesn't. Maybe this means he is getting used to her. She has just discovered the "other puppy" in the kitchen. That would be her reflection in the sliding glass door. Gotta go!

12-26-2005, 12:19 PM	#28
amyann YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: CO Posts: 272	I don't have personal experience on this but my breeder did tell me that my pup play with her brother all the time and he was twice as big as her. Also, a friend of my got a regular size yorkie and the pup love to play with their two Goldens. Now that's a happy family. So... I wouldn't worry too much about the weight difference if I were you. Although we only have one puppy, she doesn't mind saying hello and trying to play with any dog she encountered. In fact, she scared off quite a few dogs way way bigger than her at Petsmart just being "too friendly". Yorkies are fearless. They are tiny but they never truely realize that. They even think they can take out any one if it comes down to that. So, relax and enjoy your puppies. I am sure there is no way you would be able to let her go even if you can get an exchange from your breeder. She is your baby now and you have bonded. They are going to grow up together and become best of friends. Just keep an eye out for her as she is still too young. You said she is eating fine so that's good news. We don't want her blood sugar to get low. There is no turning back now so have fun with them.

12-26-2005, 01:09 PM	#30
Piper Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada Posts: 12	My vet said that she was very healthy. Her heart is strong, baby teeth are in and lots of space for the adult teeth (he said he'd would be surprised if she had any problems there!). No mites, no fleas, nails needed trimming (which I did as soon as we were home - and she wasn't squirmie for it at all). He said that at her age any joint problems would not be apparent, but hips and knees were good. She has quite the tummy on her - but he said that was fine and would "trim down" as she grew.