so angry

[grapeguzzler]

Holy Cow..what a mess! I have to say some people do not understand how important our fur babies are to us and that they truly are like our children. Good thing you are still away and have time to cool off before seeing her face-to-face. If she is a friend worth keeping, you need to try to forgive.

[BellarousasMom]

Originally Posted by MamaZiggy

arg im sorry your friend did that. i had a friend () who i love try to hold Ziggy by the scruff of his neck. ziggy yelped. i lost it, told her NOT to ever hold or treat ziggy in a way that she doesnt see me doing. if her's liked it thats fine, mine does not! Arg people like to impose their views and wants on others. Its my pet peeve!!!

A couple of years ago we went riding with my brother and his wife. With Bella we rode to their house. I took Bellas doggles off so she could relax. We was getting ready to head out and I was getting ready to put the doggles back on, Bella didn't want them on. My sil walked over grabbed her head and under her chin tight, I just looked at her while taking control of Bella and told her I've got it. This is all new to her. I think she figured then that I didn't appreciate that. Bella and I were trying to find the key for both of us when it came to putting those doggles on. We finally found it.

[chestermama]

I would be angry as well

[MY OSCAR]

well, i have to say whether she meant well or not it was not her
business to do .

[concretegurl]

Guess who won't ever be dog sitting again...

Why is it some people do you a favor and assume that gives them entitlement to do whatever they so choose?

I had a child care pro ider do something similiar, never again.

[rubymoon2072]

wow that is very rude. i would be beside myself as well...you know who not to allow babysitting rights again and honestly she doesnt sound like such a friend. hope ur babies hair grows back fast.

[Teegy]

that female dog, I'd be questioning her judgement and let her know you are truly unhappy with her but appreciate her taking good care of the dog and it's not a decision she is to make on your behalf

[jeane]

i can totally understand you being upset// i would be too

[Lilly bug]

ok so i´m home now cut my vic short to pick up my baby and guess what....

SHE PHOTOSHOPT the pic of my Lilly and she is fine OMG
don´t know if i´m happy or sad

She was going to tell me the truth but too late i was on my way home and phone was off

[concretegurl]

I don't get it.

She Photoshopped a pic of your Yorkie with a hair cut and posted it on her own FB and then you happened to stubble on it there and that was a prank?

Wow she fails at prank delivery and that's just a mean one anyways.

[Lilly bug]

no she posted the pics on my fb , thinking it will be a fun prank but did not think i´d flip out and go home before she told me about the ´´prank´´

[MidnightUnicorn]

Originally Posted by gracielove

I think there are a lot of trust issues going on here. A "friend" does not laugh at you when you are upset. If you did not ask your friend to take your dog to the groomer then she really had no business doing it. Maybe she is not as good of a friend as you thought that she was. Have you ever discussed the topknot with her? I would not expect a friend or family member to take my dog to a different groomer, much less any groomer, without discussing it with me first. It seems a bit cruel to me to do such a thing and then laugh at you for being upset. You may want to consider who you leave your dog with in the future. This person does not respect boundaries or your feelings.
I have a feeling that your "friend" had felt for a while that your dog would look better with a different look and took advantage of her time with your dog to do what she wanted. You need to get things straight with this person and consider how far you should trust her in the future.

I completely agree with this.

[MidnightUnicorn]

Originally Posted by Lilly bug

no she posted the pics on my fb , thinking it will be a fun prank but did not think i´d flip out and go home before she told me about the ´´prank´´

Oh, it was a prank.

Well, in that case, I think it's funny. She got you.

Don't get mad, get even. Prank her back. Plot. It's on.

[gracielove]

OK. I admit I am older but I don't think that getting a person terribly upset about her dog that she cares very deeply about and posting it on face book as a "joke" is very funny.
You obviously love your dog and this person knows it. That is taking advantage of a friendship and pushing it too far. She thinks it's funny? You were out of your head upset to the point that you cut your vacation short. I hope you set some boundaries concerning this relationship in the future. I enjoy a good joke but not at someone else's expense.

[My lil friend]

A prank is only funny if both parties are laughing,otherwise it is just being cruel and abusive of a trust that you put into someone else.
She may of thought it funny but she broke a trust that you put into her. Stay friends,,yes. Tell her politely that you didnt find it funny,,yes. Trust her with your baby again,, #@!! no.