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addevo · 10-04-2011, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by VickiG

... His reply was good luck finding someone to deal with that and hung up, ....

That guy is definitely a jerk. To him I say "good luck finding someone to deal with your selfish and uninformed attitude about animals." Good riddance to him, he didn't deserve you.

I also have a husband who is crazy about his little yorkies. We were at the beach one day in early Spring a few years ago, and he was worried that little Tina was getting too cold, so he put her inside his sweatshirt. See below. Tina passed away last winter, and this is still my favorite picture of her. She looks so content.

shodanusmc · 10-04-2011, 09:22 AM

Glad you found out that this guy is not playing with a full deck sooner rather than later!

spr377 · 10-04-2011, 09:29 AM

JERK! In more ways than one! First of all, he doesn't like dogs, second of all......he didn't need to speak to you the way he did and be rude and hang up!!

BlueBelle · 10-04-2011, 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by addevo

That guy is definitely a jerk. To him I say "good luck finding someone to deal with your selfish and uninformed attitude about animals." Good riddance to him, he didn't deserve you.

I also have a husband who is crazy about his little yorkies. We were at the beach one day in early Spring a few years ago, and he was worried that little Tina was getting too cold, so he put her inside his sweatshirt. See below. Tina passed away last winter, and this is still my favorite picture of her. She looks so content.

That is a beautiful picture. I hope you have it in an 8x10!!

VickiG · 10-04-2011, 09:38 AM

I just knew everyone here would back me one this one, really missing my husband today. Thank you all

Rachael1983 · 10-04-2011, 09:38 AM

Package Deal! (Me, my kid, my dog and all the rest of my baggage) Don't like it or love it you can shove it!

I think I would've said other things besides Jerk. Dating isn't easy and I hope and know you'll find someone who deserves you and your little Peanut!

Buster Brown · 10-04-2011, 09:39 AM

Consider yourself lucky to have found out what a jerk this guy is before you got emotionally tangled up with him. On top of that he was rude and then hung up! You are usually on your good behavior when you first start dating someone so how mean would he be to you down the road! My condolences on the loss of your husband. I am glad you have the unconditional love from Peanut and I hope you meet a wonderful man who loves you and Peanut!

susan lynn · 10-04-2011, 10:02 AM

Thank goodness you know not to talk to him anymore. If I was ever in this position that would be my first concern. You can't love me if you don't love my dogs.I would not sacrifice my dogs for any man. I am sure there are plenty of nice men out there that will love your babies, just take your time. Sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, I know it must be very hard for you.

MamaZiggy · 10-04-2011, 10:09 AM

Jerk Much!! Gosh, i recently considered getting back together with my x. he came to visite and was fine with Ziggy, then came bed time and he didnt want my baby to sleep in bed with us! i was like: oh hell no! so clearly thats not going to work! But its fine, i truelly believe there is someone out there who will love Me and Ziggy. I mean gosh, look at all the cute daddies on this site! I will find him, and so will you.. Im sorry for the loss of your husband

marcie · 10-04-2011, 10:37 AM

So sorry about your husband. There is someone out there
who loves you and Peanut. That guy needs to crawl back under the rock he came from.

CouversMom · 10-04-2011, 10:40 AM

Wow, I think you got out of that at the right time... With an attitude like that, imagine what he would be like later in the relationship? Jerk for sure...

Princess10 · 10-04-2011, 10:51 AM

He's an idiot. I think we should feel sorry for him though, he'll never know the love an animal can offer...and that it can often be more loyal than the love of a human.

myteddybear · 10-04-2011, 11:04 AM

I say congrats and thank God for the timely escape of what surely would have been a disaster! Good ridens JERK!

southernbelle04 · 10-04-2011, 11:43 AM

Oh my gosh! What a jerk!!! That was so rude! So sorry you had to deal with that!

salazark · 10-04-2011, 11:51 AM

I agree with all the other posters. You are so much better off to find out now that he definately isn't good enough for you!

As for pets having a soul and going to heaven. I know for a fact that there will be pets in "my" heaven. It wouldn't be heaven without them!

10-04-2011, 09:29 AM	#18
spr377 Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Upstate, NY Posts: 2,015	JERK! In more ways than one! First of all, he doesn't like dogs, second of all......he didn't need to speak to you the way he did and be rude and hang up!! __________________ Piper Leo Baby Piccolo

10-04-2011, 09:38 AM	#21
Rachael1983 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Burbs of DC Posts: 2,198	Package Deal! (Me, my kid, my dog and all the rest of my baggage) Don't like it or love it you can shove it! I think I would've said other things besides Jerk. Dating isn't easy and I hope and know you'll find someone who deserves you and your little Peanut! __________________ Owned by Troy(RIP) & Emma

10-04-2011, 09:39 AM	#22
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	Consider yourself lucky to have found out what a jerk this guy is before you got emotionally tangled up with him. On top of that he was rude and then hung up! You are usually on your good behavior when you first start dating someone so how mean would he be to you down the road! My condolences on the loss of your husband. I am glad you have the unconditional love from Peanut and I hope you meet a wonderful man who loves you and Peanut! __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

10-04-2011, 10:02 AM	#23
susan lynn Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Georgia Posts: 3,262	Thank goodness you know not to talk to him anymore. If I was ever in this position that would be my first concern. You can't love me if you don't love my dogs.I would not sacrifice my dogs for any man. I am sure there are plenty of nice men out there that will love your babies, just take your time. Sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, I know it must be very hard for you. __________________ SUSAN : TESSIE : HOBBES :CALVIN :SASSY There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face! ~ Ben Williams

10-04-2011, 10:09 AM	#24
MamaZiggy YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Johannesburg, South Africa Posts: 1,637	Jerk Much!! Gosh, i recently considered getting back together with my x. he came to visite and was fine with Ziggy, then came bed time and he didnt want my baby to sleep in bed with us! i was like: oh hell no! so clearly thats not going to work! But its fine, i truelly believe there is someone out there who will love Me and Ziggy. I mean gosh, look at all the cute daddies on this site! I will find him, and so will you.. Im sorry for the loss of your husband __________________ Xolani mommy to Ziggy and Toby The two loves of my life

10-04-2011, 09:22 AM	#17
shodanusmc BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,603	Glad you found out that this guy is not playing with a full deck sooner rather than later!

10-04-2011, 09:38 AM	#20
VickiG YT Addict Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sewell, NJ Posts: 373	I just knew everyone here would back me one this one, really missing my husband today. Thank you all

10-04-2011, 10:37 AM	#25
marcie and Lucy too Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: ohio Posts: 6,325	So sorry about your husband. There is someone out there who loves you and Peanut. That guy needs to crawl back under the rock he came from.

10-04-2011, 10:40 AM	#26
CouversMom and Khloe Mae's too! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Eastern Washington Posts: 14,732	Wow, I think you got out of that at the right time... With an attitude like that, imagine what he would be like later in the relationship? Jerk for sure... __________________ Michelle- mommy to Couver and Khloe Mae! http://yorkiehavenrescue.com/

10-04-2011, 10:51 AM	#27
Princess10 Banning Queen Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Home of the Kalamazoo Wings, MI. Posts: 3,122	He's an idiot. I think we should feel sorry for him though, he'll never know the love an animal can offer...and that it can often be more loyal than the love of a human. __________________ For The Night Is Dark & Full Of Terriers

10-04-2011, 11:04 AM	#28
myteddybear Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Cambridgeshire, England Posts: 1,208	I say congrats and thank God for the timely escape of what surely would have been a disaster! Good ridens JERK! __________________ Please help save Lennox! http://www.savelennox.co.uk/ Let your voice be heard so Lennox can go home

10-04-2011, 11:43 AM	#29
southernbelle04 Katie Scarlett's Mommy Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Sweet Home Alabama Posts: 7,554 Blog Entries: 1	Oh my gosh! What a jerk!!! That was so rude! So sorry you had to deal with that! __________________ Aymee & Katie Scarlett

10-04-2011, 11:51 AM	#30
salazark Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Alabama Posts: 941	I agree with all the other posters. You are so much better off to find out now that he definately isn't good enough for you! As for pets having a soul and going to heaven. I know for a fact that there will be pets in "my" heaven. It wouldn't be heaven without them! __________________ *Karen and the Kids* Sadie and Beemer