Originally Posted by Mardelin (Post 3497273)

She sure is a beauty......

Almost had a little girl for you.....one that was being kept for show and didn't work out....however, someone else was already in line....but, were kind of iffy....couldn't make up their mind on a maltese or yorkie.

Originally Posted by Lizzie07 (Post 3497298)

The above highlighted is definately a misnomer in the yorkie breed. The mother controls the size of the pup while in utero. That is if it is a yorkie to yorkie breeding. Now in this case the yorkie was bred to a much larger breed, the pups will be larger, no ands, ifs or buts.

In your statement of YT members being there to help with the whelp. Two thoughts on that. The OP came on asking for expert advice it was given, and I don't think the OP liked the advice. That being said, I'm not so sure assistance will be readily given with someone that is not receptive to advice.

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B (Post 3497315)

Awww good choice they made chosing the yorkie!

Send me some baby pics of your furbutts so I get my "fix". ;)

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly (Post 3497279)

I love those blinking little eyes in your Avatar. First time I saw that out of the corner of my eye I jumped, then laughed out loud. :):):)

Originally Posted by Mardelin (Post 3497326)

Now this little girl was from my Breeder's breeding....not mine and she only has boys left....I don't have any little furbutts running around at this time. I'm showing Delilah right now and she's 14 months of age....

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B (Post 3497334)

Ahhhh got ya ;)

Originally Posted by FlDebra (Post 3497277)

I had to read through the thread again and I STILL DO NOT SEE anything remotely rude, nasty and mean -- especially nothing to warrant the hysterics of "crying and feeling like giving up."

The OP says she does not want to make it all about her yet, that is what the posts are all about -- HER feeling no support, HER crying all week, HER not being able to eat, HER having an upset stomach, HER not being able to leave the house, HER not being able to work, HER losing 10 pounds, and on and on and on...... Nothing about how this little yorkie girl is doing or what MIGHT be happening to her! Do you know how many posts the OP made without even mentioning her dog's name? THIS IS ALL ABOUT BEE! Her life and death!

No one here was mean, nasty and unsupportive. Just the opposite. People offered help, empathy, sympathy, researched links, offered experiences and advice. People genuinely tried to help. But they are told that they are mean, rude, most are nasty, they are laughing at you, and that they can "buzz off!" Who is the nasty one?

Could it be that you (the OP) had stealed yourself ahead of time for a lecture or rant on letting your girl get impregnanted by a dog 3 times her size? Could that preconceived notion of yours somehow colored your view of the responses actually given? Could you be feeling guilty and somehow projecting that? I don't know the answers -- just something to think about.

I find it amazing that you found 15 toy reproductive vets! I have never heard of even one billing themselves as that let alone 15 -- and not only did you find them, get them on the phone, but ALL of them gave you advice and a prognostication that Bee could carry this litter of unknown composition to term without the benefit of an exam or imagining? Amazing, indeed. Not saying I am doubting this -- just all sorts of amazed. If this is what you are basing your ignoring all of the advice from seasoned yorkie breeders with years of experience with real dogs, experts in the Yorkie breeding world -- I would reconsider. I have found their advice invaluable! They have saved the lives of many pups and momma dogs here. They genuinely care about yorkies! They can help!

If you found the other posts here so nastly, you may not like mine any better. I do hope you take it in the spirit offered though. I would help you in any way, research advice, contact experts, relay my limited expereinces, offer support for Bee in any way. I won't mollycoddle adults though. You have to be strong and stand up for your dog. She is counting on you to be mature and make the right decision to give her the best life possible. You can do it -- you know what should be done!

Originally Posted by lovespandp (Post 3497308)

I agree 100% I said the same thing about the mean comments, I couldn't see anything rude from fellow Yters. I honestly think this is about her and not Bee, which is very sad. Hopefully she will have Bee spayed and let this issue be done. IMO she should of had her spayed awhile ago, but she didnt so why wouldnt she do what was right? I would do anything in my power to make sure Pnut was ok, I know thats how all members think, we all put our dogs first.(sigh) I hope she does what is right.

Originally Posted by Candibee (Post 3497309)

Originally Posted by Ringo1 (Post 3497310)

I have to side with the apparently unpopular, but overwhelming opinion that an emergency spay should be strongly considered. And I don't think I've ever posted that.

I try to picture my little 5 lb Lucy going through with a whelp with much larger puppies; I could not do that to my little Lucy. I would not risk her life.

Yes, accidents happen and no one has blamed you for that. But, now, you must step up and take care of your 5 lb little one. It's about HER and what's best for HER.

And, I must say, I believe that everyone has posted with remarkable restraint.

This would not be a hard decision for me - at all.

Originally Posted by Taryn0405 (Post 3497346)

Wow, just got done reading this thread. Alot of drama seems to have stirred up and honestly, I don't think any of the YT peeps started it.

Even though it's common sense not to leave a female in heat anywhere, let alone with a non-fixed male, you (the OP) did and these are the consequences. You now have put to risk your baby's life. And instead of people digitally smacking you upside the head, many people were kind and agreed that mistakes happen, and that now it's your turn to be responsible and take the best actions possible.

Another thing...If you believed these 15 supposed vet calls and they all told you to "Yes go ahead and like a five pound Yorkie give birth to a sire who is 15+ pounds" then why in the heck are you on here basically trying to convince us to give you sympathy?

Normally, I'm not mean or harsh. But damn woman use your brain. I know you're not dumb. This is common sense.

I read the whole thread and not one comment was rude, in fact members were begging you to respond so we knew the status of Bee. So, since you don't seem to respond well to sympathy, which everyone else has given you, I'll give you the blunt truth.

You have put your dog's life at risk. If she passes away while trying to birth these puppies despite the fact that you talked to "15 vets" then you're to blame, and you should be ashamed. This is selfish and down right sad.

One last thing, I don't really care if I hurt your feelings, it's Bee that I care about. Not your delicate sensibilities. If you plan on responding to how I hurt your feelings I don't really care. I simply care for Bee and that maybe being harsh to you about basically abusing your dog will maybe guilt you into doing the right thing.

I'm done here. It's too sad.