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MyLilyRose 04-09-2011 09:01 PM
I am so sorry this happened. DON'T beat yourself up over it, girl...you didn't know. Things like this happen all the time. It does NOT make you a bad mom!!!!

Now I don't know much about these things but I have to agree with the others- I would do the spay since the risk of Bee dying is greater if she tried to give birth to the litter.

Rachael x 04-10-2011 12:59 AM
Im sorry this has happend to you and little Bee, dont beat yourself up over it because everyone makes mistakes at times. But now you have the chance to put it right, I agree with other posters that a spay would be less dangerous then her having these pups seen as the father is so much bigger. I would try a different vet. Good luck!

deonk1 04-10-2011 05:43 AM
Don't beat yourself up, accidents happen. I agree with the post that says it's how you deal with it that displays truly the type of owner you are. You came here and asked for help, that's what matters.

Someone I know has recently experienced some issues with vets giving faulty information, it was horrific. (it was on the weekend when the normal clinic is open). I've heard horror stories of c-sections, and agree that it is probably far better for your little girl to go through the spay. Please give us an update, we'll all be here to hold your hand.

AlicetheYorkie 04-10-2011 06:07 PM
You're not a bad mom, stuff happens, life is all about making mistakes and learning from them:) There's no need to beat yourself up. Now, as others have said though, it's time to think about this - #1 - definatly definatly find another vet, I can't possibly think of a reason that a spay would be extra risky right now if this just happened. #2 - talk to some breeders on here so you can properly weigh the situation and make an informed desision asap. If it was my dog, I'd 100% get her spayed NOW

Lovetodream88 04-11-2011 02:03 PM
I really wish we could get an update on this..........

Bitsy 04-11-2011 02:05 PM
Me too... :(

dexterandalana 04-11-2011 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Bitsy (Post 3483313)
On my thread someone said something that really struck home with me. It was Boopster who said, "Accidents happen to even the most careful people. It's how we respond to them that shows what we are made of."
This is soooo true, and i love this saying!!!

just adding my opinion to say that it is risky for any small dog to give birth...even if the male is small. she COULD give birth fine with a bigger dog as a sire...but the chances are far greater for there to be complications and you have to know that there is a REAL chance you could loose not only the puppies, but your baby too. if it was me, that is a chance that i would not be willing to take...and would get her an emergency spay ASAP.

you are not a bad person or mommy for having this happen. but now you know better AND you have a choice on how to proceed. good luck to little Bee with whatever you decide for her. our thoughts and well wishishes are with her

ArmaniMan 04-11-2011 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Lovetodream88 (Post 3495510)
I really wish we could get an update on this..........
I am guessing we are not going to get one- the OP has been on several times in the last few days, even posting asking about where to buy dog clothes- and yet there is no update here.

Rhetts_mama 04-11-2011 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted by ArmaniMan (Post 3495663)
I am guessing we are not going to get one- the OP has been on several times in the last few days, even posting asking about where to buy dog clothes- and yet there is no update here.
Hey, even expectant moms want to look good. :rolleyes:

{ducks and runs}

MyLilyRose 04-11-2011 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Rhetts_mama (Post 3495665)
Hey, even expectant moms want to look good. :rolleyes:

{ducks and runs}
:rofl28ib:

BeyonceMomma23 04-11-2011 07:39 PM
you all want to know why I am not posting on here ? it's because most people have not posted in a nice supportive way. their opinions were nasty sounding & I don't feel like the people who are going to sound negative really deserve the reply. anyone who honestly cared about not only Bee but about ME reached out to me & messaged me or emailed me. not just asking if I was gonna reply. so to Armaniman & everyone else that's why I haven't responded, because you all made me upset with your mean sounding opinions. I was willing for open honest opinions. but most of yours sounded nasty. not ALL, but most. I was excepting nice helpful opinions & I am not the only one who thinks you were sounding nasty. so unless you're trying to be SUPPORTIVE i don't want an opinion or comment. thanks. have a good day.

-Lauren & Bee

Bitsy 04-11-2011 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Bitsy (Post 3483313)
My Peyton is right now at the vet hospital because he hurt his leg. He hurt his leg because I made a very stupid decision to place him on a chair, he is too young to know to sit still like Sophia knows. I totally beat myself up and felt so much guilt...still do.

On my thread someone said something that really struck home with me. It was Boopster who said, "Accidents happen to even the most careful people. It's how we respond to them that shows what we are made of."

That statement along with so many others has really comforted me.

We are here for you. I feel bad that you are so upset. Hang in there, we are here for you. {{{{{hugs}}}}} to you and Bee.

I am sorry you feel that way. :confused: :(
There are a lot of people who posted in a VERY caring and concerned way. Are you not going to respond to any of us? I am genuinely worried for Bee. I am not asking to start trouble in ANY way. You did share this with all of us...we were just wanting to know how she was doing. :confused:

BeyonceMomma23 04-11-2011 08:10 PM
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I am sorry you feel that way. :confused: :(
There are a lot of people who posted in a VERY caring and concerned way. Are you not going to respond to any of us? I am genuinely worried for Bee. I am not asking to start trouble in ANY way. You did share this with all of us...we were just wanting to know how she was doing. :confused:

I know & as I said "most" people sounded nasty & I just didnt reply on this because I didnt want them to say more, because it honestly upset me. This is where I came for ANY support & then people are like this.
I would NEVER do anything that was unhealthy or risky for Bee & anything who thinks I would can rethink & buzz off. She is my first priorty. But thank you Bitsy, I didnt think you were "nasty" at all.

DvlshAngel985 04-11-2011 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by BeyonceMomma23 (Post 3495967)
you all want to know why I am not posting on here ? it's because most people have not posted in a nice supportive way. their opinions were nasty sounding & I don't feel like the people who are going to sound negative really deserve the reply. anyone who honestly cared about not only Bee but about ME reached out to me & messaged me or emailed me. not just asking if I was gonna reply. so to Armaniman & everyone else that's why I haven't responded, because you all made me upset with your mean sounding opinions. I was willing for open honest opinions. but most of yours sounded nasty. not ALL, but most. I was excepting nice helpful opinions & I am not the only one who thinks you were sounding nasty. so unless you're trying to be SUPPORTIVE i don't want an opinion or comment. thanks. have a good day.

-Lauren & Bee
I'm honestly sorry you feel that way. In my opinion, you received honest responses. It sounds horrible to have your possibly pregnant pup spayed, I know it does. Are you really going to ignore the suggestions of seasoned breeders? Forget what other pet owners think, or what he forum thinks. My suggestion to you is go find a reputable breeder, one that breeds and shows yorkies that is local to you. Talk to them about your situation and ask them why they think the way they do. Remember that this situation is so not about you, it is entirely about Bee. This was Bee's first heat, meaning she is not physically or mentally prepared to be a mother.

MyLilyRose 04-11-2011 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by BeyonceMomma23 (Post 3495994)
I know & as I said "most" people sounded nasty & I just didnt reply on this because I didnt want them to say more, because it honestly upset me. This is where I came for ANY support & then people are like this.
I would NEVER do anything that was unhealthy or risky for Bee & anything who thinks I would can rethink & buzz off. She is my first priorty. But thank you Bitsy, I didnt think you were "nasty" at all.
Hey Lauren- I am sorry you are upset..you shouldn't have to feel that way after what has already happened. You have my support 100%. You were one of the first people to contact me when I first joined the site..You said that if I needed anything then I could always come to you. So I feel like that should be reciprocated. I am here if you need anything.

I hope you and Bee are doing well.


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