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red98vett · 11-09-2005, 04:52 PM

This must be a very hard decision for you - and I know we yorkie people are nuts for their yorkies and feel so bad hearing this - do you think he is bored being alone all day and maybe this is his way of showing you that he is unhappy ?

I know it took a long time for my Cheri to train and she has an older sister to watch AND I'm home - but they are stimulated emotionally and have someone with them most of the time - too much actually....

I sure hate to hear you think he'd be better off in a new home but he may be the kind of yorkie that needs lots of stimulation and that could be the whole cause of him rebelling ? I feel so bad for you - you're in a bad place but you will know in your heart what is the right decision for you and Rocco - I would try NOT to place him in a Rescue but find him a home where you can meet the people if it comes to that...You'll feel better if you actually have a face to face with his new people if you end up making that decision and it kind of sounds like you have already -

Good luck - I hope Rocco has a great life.... hopefully with you - but if not, then in his next home

Deeni · 11-09-2005, 04:53 PM

Karen, what do you do with Petey at night after you get home. Does he stay in one room until bedtime while you watch him? With Rocco, I try to have him out with me but sometimes he goes back in the laundry room cause I can't keep an eye on him (making dinner, on computer for work, etc.).

Deeni · 11-09-2005, 04:57 PM

red98vett, I think he is bored but I used to be home with him all day (I was unemployed for the past 3 months) and I was still unable to get control of the housebreaking. We played a lot and took lots of walks but his personality was still very hyper and demanding.

troubletb · 11-09-2005, 04:59 PM

Deeni, I try to keep him with me. On the couch or bed. Or I put him out in the screened area in my yard. Do you have a yard? You can always let him out after you get home, make sure he goes, then bring him in. He should be good for at least a 1/2 hour. (hopefully longer) I read here a while back that someone kept their dog on a leash while in the house (during training) so they could keep an eye on him. They said it worked. If the puppy started to have an accident they were right there.

red98vett · 11-09-2005, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Deeni

red98vett, I think he is bored but I used to be home with him all day (I was unemployed for the past 3 months) and I was still unable to get control of the housebreaking. We played a lot and took lots of walks but his personality was still very hyper and demanding.

Ok...One thing in his favor is he is still very young - many dogs all of a sudden 'get it' at a certain age & he's not a year old yet ...So he's really still a puppy.....

How about waiting until he's over a year old and see where you stand with your feelings ? Honestly...I AM home and Cheri was having little accidents all the way up to 10 months and now it's a complete change...she wasn't easy to train like my oldest Chanel - but she did MUCH better when she got closer to a year old -

Just a thought...I know you'll get some great advise here - just don't make a hasty decision that you may regret and can't change once it's done ...and again - good luck -

3CrazyYorkies · 11-09-2005, 05:04 PM

Just wondering if you have given any thought to doggie daycare for him.

Deeni · 11-09-2005, 05:09 PM

I did price doggy day care and also someone to come by during the day to let him out but it was insanely expensive.

I want to try another puppy obedience class. If just for the bonding experience.

jwash · 11-09-2005, 05:11 PM

Just one more thought, I had a friend who trained her dog by tying the leash to her, like when she was in the kitchen, cooking dinner. That way, she was able to watch her dog like a hawk and catch accidents ahead of time.

Julz · 11-09-2005, 05:14 PM

I just held Cowboy and could actually FEEL his love for me. He honestly makes me feel so special to him. I hope you have or will have these kind of moments with Rocco....they are truly priceless. My daughter just said "Mom, I feel like God brought you and Cowboy togehter...you have such a close bond with him". I thought that was just the sweetest thing. It made me think of you and Rocco. Have you tried holding him before he upsets you? Mine can drive me crazy going to the bathroom all over the place...on the pad...off the pad....outside....everywhere it seems. But sometimes, just passing through, I pick one up (I have 2 5-month old pups and 1 3-month-old pup) and that moment is ALWAYS so sweet. I don't know why I am running on and on and keep coming back to this thread. I guess I just don't want you to miss out on something great when you have come this far.

fourdez · 11-09-2005, 05:32 PM

Desi is 11 months and I (like Chewy's Mom) swear by the x-pen. I wasn't crazy about the idea of putting her in a create all day, its just not my thing, but I loved the x-pen. She had her bed, her food and water, and her toys. Just enough room but not too much. At 11 month, I can't honestly say that Desi is 100% trained, but I can says she is 80% trained- "and that aint bad"
Whatever you decide will be the best for you and him.

amanda350 · 11-09-2005, 05:48 PM

Deeni where are you located? Has he been neutered yet? I am sure that if he hasn't, then that would help alot..I hope that you are able to continue working with him and training him, but if we are not to far apart and you have completely given up all hope, then I would be more than happy to take him in. I am a stay at home mother and I have a 15wk old Yorkie named Tucker. I am also getting another one is a couple weeks so they could all learn from each other.. I do however believe that he is not used to being alone so much since you were home with him for so long..Keep trying and be patient..Good things come to those who wait....

Deeni · 11-09-2005, 06:44 PM

Thanks everyone for being so nice. I am getting some great advice.

I think I want to try the xpen. Are they the gates that go around in a circle? Do you put anything on the floor to protect the carpeting in case they go? What room do you usually put them in? Sorry for all the questions!

At night before Rocco goes to bed, I usually sit with him and pet him. It is kind of like our special time together....the one time during the day where we are both relaxed and can enjoy each other. I wish there were more moments like this! He is a cutie and I will try to have faith that he is going to improve and that I will figure out what will work.

BTW, I am in NC about an hour from Raleigh. Thanks for the offer, Amanda.

megan_kat22 · 11-09-2005, 06:51 PM

it sounds like you really love him, keep working, it'd would be horrible to regret rehoming him later. i hope everything works out for you, wish i could help more

mustangbee · 11-09-2005, 06:56 PM

Oh Denni, I really feel for you. I hope you don't give up.
I'm sure it will break your heart. Yorkies take a long time to train.
But with time, they do. I think you should give the x-pen a try.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the very best. Hang in there,
we are here with you.

Clioe · 11-09-2005, 07:10 PM

I do understand how you feel. When I first got Miffy, I wanted to return her because I was waking up everytime she moved because I thought she wanted to go potty. I was following her around the whole day. She eats her poop so I follow her whenever she's out of sight.

You could be stricter with Rocco. Say "no" when he does something wrong in a stern voice. Give him time outs. Confine him when you're out, like the kitchen or the toilet. But him chew toys. Bring him out for walks. Sign up for a training class for socialization. He's 11 months, so give him some more time.

11-09-2005, 04:52 PM	#16
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	This must be a very hard decision for you - and I know we yorkie people are nuts for their yorkies and feel so bad hearing this - do you think he is bored being alone all day and maybe this is his way of showing you that he is unhappy ? I know it took a long time for my Cheri to train and she has an older sister to watch AND I'm home - but they are stimulated emotionally and have someone with them most of the time - too much actually.... I sure hate to hear you think he'd be better off in a new home but he may be the kind of yorkie that needs lots of stimulation and that could be the whole cause of him rebelling ? I feel so bad for you - you're in a bad place but you will know in your heart what is the right decision for you and Rocco - I would try NOT to place him in a Rescue but find him a home where you can meet the people if it comes to that...You'll feel better if you actually have a face to face with his new people if you end up making that decision and it kind of sounds like you have already - Good luck - I hope Rocco has a great life.... hopefully with you - but if not, then in his next home __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

11-09-2005, 04:53 PM	#17
Deeni Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 77	Karen, what do you do with Petey at night after you get home. Does he stay in one room until bedtime while you watch him? With Rocco, I try to have him out with me but sometimes he goes back in the laundry room cause I can't keep an eye on him (making dinner, on computer for work, etc.). __________________ Deeni

11-09-2005, 04:57 PM	#18
Deeni Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 77	red98vett, I think he is bored but I used to be home with him all day (I was unemployed for the past 3 months) and I was still unable to get control of the housebreaking. We played a lot and took lots of walks but his personality was still very hyper and demanding. __________________ Deeni

11-09-2005, 04:59 PM	#19
troubletb Love my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Port Richey, Florida Posts: 2,339	Deeni, I try to keep him with me. On the couch or bed. Or I put him out in the screened area in my yard. Do you have a yard? You can always let him out after you get home, make sure he goes, then bring him in. He should be good for at least a 1/2 hour. (hopefully longer) I read here a while back that someone kept their dog on a leash while in the house (during training) so they could keep an eye on him. They said it worked. If the puppy started to have an accident they were right there. __________________ Karen~ Bell, Lilly and Peter's Mom Rest in Peace <3

11-09-2005, 05:09 PM	#22
Deeni Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 77	I did price doggy day care and also someone to come by during the day to let him out but it was insanely expensive. I want to try another puppy obedience class. If just for the bonding experience. __________________ Deeni

11-09-2005, 05:04 PM	#21
3CrazyYorkies YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Alberta ... Canada Posts: 583	Just wondering if you have given any thought to doggie daycare for him.

11-09-2005, 05:11 PM	#23
jwash YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 723	Just one more thought, I had a friend who trained her dog by tying the leash to her, like when she was in the kitchen, cooking dinner. That way, she was able to watch her dog like a hawk and catch accidents ahead of time.

11-09-2005, 05:14 PM	#24
Julz Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 4,347	I just held Cowboy and could actually FEEL his love for me. He honestly makes me feel so special to him. I hope you have or will have these kind of moments with Rocco....they are truly priceless. My daughter just said "Mom, I feel like God brought you and Cowboy togehter...you have such a close bond with him". I thought that was just the sweetest thing. It made me think of you and Rocco. Have you tried holding him before he upsets you? Mine can drive me crazy going to the bathroom all over the place...on the pad...off the pad....outside....everywhere it seems. But sometimes, just passing through, I pick one up (I have 2 5-month old pups and 1 3-month-old pup) and that moment is ALWAYS so sweet. I don't know why I am running on and on and keep coming back to this thread. I guess I just don't want you to miss out on something great when you have come this far.

11-09-2005, 05:32 PM	#25
fourdez Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Rockland county, NY Posts: 1,306	Desi is 11 months and I (like Chewy's Mom) swear by the x-pen. I wasn't crazy about the idea of putting her in a create all day, its just not my thing, but I loved the x-pen. She had her bed, her food and water, and her toys. Just enough room but not too much. At 11 month, I can't honestly say that Desi is 100% trained, but I can says she is 80% trained- "and that aint bad" Whatever you decide will be the best for you and him. __________________ ********************* Nedda & My Girls Desi & Millie & my boy Ricky

11-09-2005, 05:48 PM	#26
amanda350 No Longer A Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Tennessee Posts: 986	Deeni where are you located? Has he been neutered yet? I am sure that if he hasn't, then that would help alot..I hope that you are able to continue working with him and training him, but if we are not to far apart and you have completely given up all hope, then I would be more than happy to take him in. I am a stay at home mother and I have a 15wk old Yorkie named Tucker. I am also getting another one is a couple weeks so they could all learn from each other.. I do however believe that he is not used to being alone so much since you were home with him for so long..Keep trying and be patient..Good things come to those who wait....

11-09-2005, 06:44 PM	#27
Deeni Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 77	Thanks everyone for being so nice. I am getting some great advice. I think I want to try the xpen. Are they the gates that go around in a circle? Do you put anything on the floor to protect the carpeting in case they go? What room do you usually put them in? Sorry for all the questions! At night before Rocco goes to bed, I usually sit with him and pet him. It is kind of like our special time together....the one time during the day where we are both relaxed and can enjoy each other. I wish there were more moments like this! He is a cutie and I will try to have faith that he is going to improve and that I will figure out what will work. BTW, I am in NC about an hour from Raleigh. Thanks for the offer, Amanda. __________________ Deeni

11-09-2005, 06:51 PM	#28
megan_kat22 I love my boys! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Houston Posts: 1,913	it sounds like you really love him, keep working, it'd would be horrible to regret rehoming him later. i hope everything works out for you, wish i could help more __________________ -Megan, Tucker & Tripp "My little dogs- heartbeats at my feet" www.dropshots.com/megan_kat22

11-09-2005, 06:56 PM	#29
mustangbee Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :) Posts: 10,616	Oh Denni, I really feel for you. I hope you don't give up. I'm sure it will break your heart. Yorkies take a long time to train. But with time, they do. I think you should give the x-pen a try. Whatever you decide, I wish you the very best. Hang in there, we are here with you. __________________ Friends are God's way of apologizing for our relatives. "Love & Support Our YT Members" Gina & Princess Member of the SSLS

11-09-2005, 07:10 PM	#30
Clioe Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Tucson, AZ Posts: 27	I do understand how you feel. When I first got Miffy, I wanted to return her because I was waking up everytime she moved because I thought she wanted to go potty. I was following her around the whole day. She eats her poop so I follow her whenever she's out of sight. You could be stricter with Rocco. Say "no" when he does something wrong in a stern voice. Give him time outs. Confine him when you're out, like the kitchen or the toilet. But him chew toys. Bring him out for walks. Sign up for a training class for socialization. He's 11 months, so give him some more time.