Thanks everyone for being so nice. I am getting some great advice.
I think I want to try the xpen. Are they the gates that go around in a circle? Do you put anything on the floor to protect the carpeting in case they go? What room do you usually put them in? Sorry for all the questions!
At night before Rocco goes to bed, I usually sit with him and pet him. It is kind of like our special time together....the one time during the day where we are both relaxed and can enjoy each other. I wish there were more moments like this! He is a cutie and I will try to have faith that he is going to improve and that I will figure out what will work.
BTW, I am in NC about an hour from Raleigh. Thanks for the offer, Amanda.