I don't know what to do :x - Page 3 - YorkieTalk.com Forums

Rach · 12-30-2010, 05:11 AM

Wow! I never knew one small dog community could/would be so helpful. Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement.

I will now attempt to add pictures. Would it be unfair to the dog if my grandmother watched her? I don't want to traumatize her by making her move/switch homes and people.

She's only 9 weeks (I know, it's not an ideal age)

Rach · 12-30-2010, 05:31 AM

I don't quite understand how to post pictures yet, but here are a few bad blurry ones I took off my phone.

http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1223000922.jpg
http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222002218.jpg
http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001935.jpg
http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001932.jpg

Rach · 12-30-2010, 05:36 AM

Thanks everyone, I don't understand how to post a pic just yet but here are a few bad ones.

http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1223000922.jpg

http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222002218.jpg

http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001935.jpg

http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001932.jpg

dinkyweil · 12-30-2010, 05:42 AM

Adorable! keep the Yorkie. Put up with things while you work out another plan.

Rach · 12-30-2010, 05:45 AM

I didn't know that such a small dog community could be so helpful, it really does mean alot. Thanks again x10000

I don't want to be unfair to the dog by making her switch owners and places, would it be? She's only 9 weeks (I know it's not ideal).

TLC · 12-30-2010, 06:25 AM

How old is your Grandmother? I ask, because a 9 week old Yorkie is a handful and really needs someone experienced to care for this "baby" and she will be in a "baby" phase for quite some time.

You said you have 2 dogs, what is your other dog?

If you have to stay at your Dad's, I would have a good heart to heart talk with him about all of this.

I don't think giving up your dogs is the answer, but there's got to be some sort of compromise. Maybe the dogs are to stay in your room? Do you have an Xpen to keep them contained?

yorkieusa · 12-30-2010, 06:41 AM

Rachael, your little one is adorable. Is your grandmother willing to help you out by caring for her for awhile? Do you have an x-pen you could take to grandmother's place, so she wouldn't be piddling everywhere and would be safe, too? Would you be in a position to see her daily and help care for her? How long do you think she would need to stay with grandmother? These are a few questions I would have. Remember, too, that if grandmother loves dogs, she may become very attached to that little one, too.

south · 12-30-2010, 07:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RachelandSadie

not to be rude but daddie's little gf gots ta go!

i can't believe she is manipulating him into going against his own flesh and blood! that upsets me and i'm so sorry you have to put up with that. i wish i was close i'd take her right away.

Have to agree. Sorry, but dad needs to grow a set & stand firm.

luvmybiewer · 12-30-2010, 08:36 AM

You said you got the dog from your friend. Maybe she would be willing to look after it for you until you get back on your feet.

Donnainohio63 · 12-30-2010, 08:57 AM

I would let Daddy know that you love him and how you feel about your baby and how she is keeping you together after the loss of your other baby. I know how you feel, the kids got Scooter for me after I lost Sophie Lynn and I would not give him up for anything, we would live under a bridge if I had to . Sounds to me like Daddys gf needs a reality check. He was your father way before he was her bf. I wish I lived closer I would help you out.

My babies are spoiled

RIP Sophie Lynn Mommy loves and misses you

SoSoNYC1 · 12-30-2010, 09:05 AM

Uh Rach, why don't you move in with your grandmother. Why surround yourself with major negativity with your father, especially when you have anxiety?? Do yourself a favor and don't bother begging your dad. He's obviously not too worry about you. Sad to say. But you and your baby pup need eachother. And you grammy too.

))

Good Luck!!

Gatord · 12-30-2010, 01:55 PM

You said others (family) were harassing you for chosing the dog over your dad. It seems to me Dad is choosing GF over his daughter. I don't know what to say. Your dad has his GF and for you your baby is part of you like his GF is to him. That would a bad situation if it were me. I would be scared to leave the pup at Dad's when you went to work if he did change his mind now, not telling what GF would do to it. Hopefully things can be worked out with Grandma.
Thank God for Grandmas.

donna-marie · 12-30-2010, 02:00 PM

id have to stand by my dogs, my 3 yorkies, my lil girl especially, have helped me thro a terrible bout of depression, i love them all too bits and would live in the streets b4 i parted with them. i hope u find somewhere for u both xx

Rhetts_mama · 12-30-2010, 02:11 PM

You are in a tough situation. Just my opinion, but I'd look for somewhere else to stay. It's not that you are choosing the dog over your dad, but it sounds like the gf will try to make your life a living h*ll while you are there no matter what. Right now, the dog is her excuse to "pick" at you. But soon enough, it will be something else.

luvmybiewer · 12-30-2010, 02:17 PM

love this little guy!

12-30-2010, 05:36 AM	#33
Rach Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: NY Posts: 11	Thanks everyone, I don't understand how to post a pic just yet but here are a few bad ones. http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1223000922.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222002218.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001935.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001932.jpg Last edited by Rach; 12-30-2010 at 05:38 AM.

12-30-2010, 06:25 AM	#36
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 7,247	How old is your Grandmother? I ask, because a 9 week old Yorkie is a handful and really needs someone experienced to care for this "baby" and she will be in a "baby" phase for quite some time. You said you have 2 dogs, what is your other dog? If you have to stay at your Dad's, I would have a good heart to heart talk with him about all of this. I don't think giving up your dogs is the answer, but there's got to be some sort of compromise. Maybe the dogs are to stay in your room? Do you have an Xpen to keep them contained? __________________ Adopt Donate Foster www.yorkie911rescue.com

12-30-2010, 06:41 AM	#37
yorkieusa Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 21,173	Rachael, your little one is adorable. Is your grandmother willing to help you out by caring for her for awhile? Do you have an x-pen you could take to grandmother's place, so she wouldn't be piddling everywhere and would be safe, too? Would you be in a position to see her daily and help care for her? How long do you think she would need to stay with grandmother? These are a few questions I would have. Remember, too, that if grandmother loves dogs, she may become very attached to that little one, too. __________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel

12-30-2010, 09:05 AM	#41
SoSoNYC1 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Ozone Park, NY Posts: 548	Uh Rach, why don't you move in with your grandmother. Why surround yourself with major negativity with your father, especially when you have anxiety?? Do yourself a favor and don't bother begging your dad. He's obviously not too worry about you. Sad to say. But you and your baby pup need eachother. And you grammy too. )) Good Luck!! __________________ Proud Momma to my furkids: Austin, Chelsea York & Lenox

12-30-2010, 02:11 PM	#44
Rhetts_mama Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,959 Blog Entries: 1	You are in a tough situation. Just my opinion, but I'd look for somewhere else to stay. It's not that you are choosing the dog over your dad, but it sounds like the gf will try to make your life a living hll while you are there no matter what. Right now, the dog is her excuse to "pick" at you. But soon enough, it will be something else. __________________ Don't get your knickers in a knot. Nothing is solved and it just makes you walk funny.*

12-30-2010, 05:11 AM	#31
Rach Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: NY Posts: 11	Wow! I never knew one small dog community could/would be so helpful. Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. I will now attempt to add pictures. Would it be unfair to the dog if my grandmother watched her? I don't want to traumatize her by making her move/switch homes and people. She's only 9 weeks (I know, it's not an ideal age)

12-30-2010, 05:31 AM	#32
Rach Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: NY Posts: 11	I don't quite understand how to post pictures yet, but here are a few bad blurry ones I took off my phone. http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1223000922.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222002218.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001935.jpg http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z...1222001932.jpg

12-30-2010, 05:42 AM	#34
dinkyweil YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Nebo, NC Posts: 479	Adorable! keep the Yorkie. Put up with things while you work out another plan.

12-30-2010, 05:45 AM	#35
Rach Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: NY Posts: 11	I didn't know that such a small dog community could be so helpful, it really does mean alot. Thanks again x10000 I don't want to be unfair to the dog by making her switch owners and places, would it be? She's only 9 weeks (I know it's not ideal).

12-30-2010, 08:36 AM	#39
luvmybiewer Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Fort Myers, Fl Posts: 81 Blog Entries: 1	You said you got the dog from your friend. Maybe she would be willing to look after it for you until you get back on your feet.

12-30-2010, 08:57 AM	#40
Donnainohio63 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Lorain Ohio Posts: 1,882	I would let Daddy know that you love him and how you feel about your baby and how she is keeping you together after the loss of your other baby. I know how you feel, the kids got Scooter for me after I lost Sophie Lynn and I would not give him up for anything, we would live under a bridge if I had to . Sounds to me like Daddys gf needs a reality check. He was your father way before he was her bf. I wish I lived closer I would help you out. My babies are spoiled RIP Sophie Lynn Mommy loves and misses you

12-30-2010, 01:55 PM	#42
Gatord ♥ Jack & Josie ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: FL Posts: 1,235	You said others (family) were harassing you for chosing the dog over your dad. It seems to me Dad is choosing GF over his daughter. I don't know what to say. Your dad has his GF and for you your baby is part of you like his GF is to him. That would a bad situation if it were me. I would be scared to leave the pup at Dad's when you went to work if he did change his mind now, not telling what GF would do to it. Hopefully things can be worked out with Grandma. Thank God for Grandmas.

12-30-2010, 02:00 PM	#43
donna-marie YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: pontypridd, wales Posts: 1	id have to stand by my dogs, my 3 yorkies, my lil girl especially, have helped me thro a terrible bout of depression, i love them all too bits and would live in the streets b4 i parted with them. i hope u find somewhere for u both xx

12-30-2010, 02:17 PM	#45
luvmybiewer Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Fort Myers, Fl Posts: 81 Blog Entries: 1	love this little guy!