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Originally Posted by tigker86  I asked him if he was going to take her back, he said no, I told him I'm making all the decisions for her, and he said, ok. BUT for some reason I still think he would snatch her again. =( hopefully my intuition is wrong.
As for our relationship. He gave her back to keep the relationship a float. I haven't had a decent convo since I got her back. So I will have to see.
I also made up a contract for him to sign, so that it officially signs Lexi over to me, and i'll make all her decisions, but he refused to sign the paper, so i'm trying to trust him, but I'm still uneasy with this situation. I hate seeing Lexi so mixed up.
When i got her back they said she wasn't eatting, and when I looked at her bowl of food, it's like they don't wash her bowl, it was filled with food more half way, when she gets less than quarter of that bowl. And it was filled with treats! I don't even believe she had fresh food! I'm so upset she had to live like that.
She's even having a hard time eating right now. So I'm going to the vet to see if she's ok. Hopefully she eats later on. |
hi there!! i'm glad you got lexi back
... it sounds like you are well-equipped to take good care of her ... now, just one favor ... please go back through your posts and re-read them ... i know that you are probably a little overwhelmed with the situation with lexi and you don't have to make any decisions immediately, but i quoted this particular post of yours b/c it says the most IMPORTANT things thus far: 1) "i hope my intuition is wrong" and 2) "he refused to sign the paper" ... i hope you know that your intuition is NEVER wrong!!! the thing is that it can sometimes tell you things you don't want to hear
i have so much more to say, but i think it's time for me to shut up, b/c you are clearly very much in tune with yourself ... the only question is whether you will actually listen to yourself ... good luck to you!!
03-18-2010, 10:20 PM
