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sugarmamma · 09-17-2009, 02:37 PM

<<<<<<HUGS>>>>>> from across the pond! Tia will help you as much (if not more) than we do~ I know Sugar always knows when to snuggle

Any possibility of getting Mum involved in activities with other Seniors or other widow/widowers in her area?

luckylady · 09-17-2009, 02:45 PM

I am so very sorry for the recent loss of your dad. Dealing with the feelings of the loss and stress of handling all that goes along with the death of a loved one is a very difficult time for those left behind. It will get better and I send prayers for you and your family.
I understand your feelings about coming here not only to get away from it all for a while, but also for the support we have for our YT family. I know in my time of need, my YT friends would bring me great comfort.
Hugs to you & prayers for your family.

cynsir · 09-17-2009, 02:54 PM

Julie, I'm so sorry about your loss. I hope that you are taking time for yourself. Tia will help you a lot during this time period. Just remember you have friends on YT.

yorkiemomto4 · 09-18-2009, 01:05 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose a parent. I lost my dad in 2000, then a brother in 2003, that was so hard on my mom. It took so much out of her. We lost her in 2005. I still miss them very much. Stay strong, it will get better with time. I don't think we ever get over it, we just learn to deal with it as time goes on. Trust in God and he will see you through it. My prayers go out to you and your family.

cheryl19 · 09-18-2009, 02:24 AM

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. Prayers to you and your family

kat618 · 09-18-2009, 04:40 AM

I am very sorry for your loss, when I lost my dad I never knew such pain.....you always here someone say there heart is broken and then I understood what they meant not just sadness but the feeling that nothing will ever be the same again......Just wanted to say it will get better, takes a LOT of time and belive it or not there will be a day you can think of your dad and instantly smile at the thought of memories instead of just feeling the pain. Keep Tia near and remember its ok to cry and grieve and please take time to do that for you....even though you have to be strong for others allow yourself that time to heal.

And remember it is also still ok to laugh, sometimes when you just cant take no more you know these babies pictures/videos will make you smile even for just a little while!

yorkie mad · 09-18-2009, 09:59 AM

I just can't reply to you all at once, so I will say one big thank you to you all ,your response was over whelming.
Don't want to get too mushy lol but I love you all , thanks for being there when I needed it.

ARCHIE · 09-18-2009, 10:04 AM

Sorry to be just seeing this and I am so sorry for the loss of your father.
It takes time, lot's of time to heal from lossing a loved one.
I am glad you have Tia to comfort you.

Hugs,

poppys mummy · 09-18-2009, 11:01 AM

hiya julie , i am so sorry for your sad loss , give your mum and sister our condolenses

hope as a family you are all as well as you can be , tia must have been a lifesaver bless her ,

best wishes to you all , take care love jill n poppy n family xx

yorkie mad · 09-18-2009, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by ARCHIE

Sorry to be just seeing this and I am so sorry for the loss of your father.
It takes time, lot's of time to heal from lossing a loved one.
I am glad you have Tia to comfort you.

Hugs,

You are so right Archie, Tia has helped me and my mums dog to get through this.

Quote:

Originally Posted by poppys mummy

hiya julie , i am so sorry for your sad loss , give your mum and sister our condolenses

hope as a family you are all as well as you can be , tia must have been a lifesaver bless her ,

best wishes to you all , take care love jill n poppy n family xx

Thank you Poppys mum , Its been 5 weeks and 3 days but its taken me a while before I can even type it. How mad is that!

poppys mummy · 09-18-2009, 11:18 AM

julie its not mad at all , just very , very , brave , cant begin to imagine what you are going through

love jill n poppy xx

yorkie mad · 09-18-2009, 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by poppys mummy

julie its not mad at all , just very , very , brave , cant begin to imagine what you are going through

love jill n poppy xx

No I'm not brave , lots of people go through this Jill , Thanks for your support hun x

chachi · 09-18-2009, 11:44 AM

I am sorry your Dad passed. I am glad you have a get away here though. We are all here for you

JackieJack · 09-18-2009, 12:10 PM

I am so sorry about your dad. I hope everything is started to get a little better for you now. Hugs!

BLADE · 09-18-2009, 02:56 PM

I'm glad that we can be here for you. I lost my daddy very suddenly a year ago and I know exactly how you feel. My baby Kimbo helps brighten my days with his wet kisses and playfulness.

09-17-2009, 02:37 PM	#16
sugarmamma Donating YT 18K Club Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Yorkie Zoo Posts: 34,152	<<<<<<HUGS>>>>>> from across the pond! Tia will help you as much (if not more) than we do~ I know Sugar always knows when to snuggle Any possibility of getting Mum involved in activities with other Seniors or other widow/widowers in her area? __________________ Lisa, Mom to Curri Bee Vindi Loo Tikka Masala Sugar Baby

09-17-2009, 02:45 PM	#17
luckylady Living My Yorkie Dream Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Nebraska Posts: 6,114 Blog Entries: 6	I am so very sorry for the recent loss of your dad. Dealing with the feelings of the loss and stress of handling all that goes along with the death of a loved one is a very difficult time for those left behind. It will get better and I send prayers for you and your family. I understand your feelings about coming here not only to get away from it all for a while, but also for the support we have for our YT family. I know in my time of need, my YT friends would bring me great comfort. Hugs to you & prayers for your family. __________________ Rose Lucky,Toby, Hannah,Camie, & Reggie Heartland Biewers and Yorkies

09-17-2009, 02:54 PM	#18
cynsir The 3 Musketeers Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cloquet, MN Posts: 738 Blog Entries: 1	Julie, I'm so sorry about your loss. I hope that you are taking time for yourself. Tia will help you a lot during this time period. Just remember you have friends on YT. __________________ Cindy and Misty and Mazie and Cassie Max (3/31/08 - 6/1/09)

09-18-2009, 01:05 AM	#19
yorkiemomto4 YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Matewan,WV,US Posts: 468	I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose a parent. I lost my dad in 2000, then a brother in 2003, that was so hard on my mom. It took so much out of her. We lost her in 2005. I still miss them very much. Stay strong, it will get better with time. I don't think we ever get over it, we just learn to deal with it as time goes on. Trust in God and he will see you through it. My prayers go out to you and your family. __________________ LITTLEBIT,PRINCESS,CHICO,JASPER ACTS 2:38

09-18-2009, 02:24 AM	#20
cheryl19 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NY USA Posts: 1,749	I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. Prayers to you and your family __________________ Ivy, Max, Reggie & Cheryl

09-18-2009, 04:40 AM	#21
kat618 YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Missouri Posts: 250	I am very sorry for your loss, when I lost my dad I never knew such pain.....you always here someone say there heart is broken and then I understood what they meant not just sadness but the feeling that nothing will ever be the same again......Just wanted to say it will get better, takes a LOT of time and belive it or not there will be a day you can think of your dad and instantly smile at the thought of memories instead of just feeling the pain. Keep Tia near and remember its ok to cry and grieve and please take time to do that for you....even though you have to be strong for others allow yourself that time to heal. And remember it is also still ok to laugh, sometimes when you just cant take no more you know these babies pictures/videos will make you smile even for just a little while! __________________ Mini Cooper & Chloe's mommy

09-18-2009, 09:59 AM	#22
yorkie mad ♥Tiny Tia my Furbaby♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: portsmouth england Posts: 1,824 Blog Entries: 7	I just can't reply to you all at once, so I will say one big thank you to you all ,your response was over whelming. Don't want to get too mushy lol but I love you all , thanks for being there when I needed it. __________________ Lots of love from Julie , Olly &Tia's mummy. Yorkies leave paw prints on our hearts

09-18-2009, 10:04 AM	#23
ARCHIE No Longer A Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 16,218	Sorry to be just seeing this and I am so sorry for the loss of your father. It takes time, lot's of time to heal from lossing a loved one. I am glad you have Tia to comfort you. Hugs,

09-18-2009, 11:01 AM	#24
poppys mummy Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: uk Posts: 811 Blog Entries: 1	thinking of you julie hiya julie , i am so sorry for your sad loss , give your mum and sister our condolenses hope as a family you are all as well as you can be , tia must have been a lifesaver bless her , best wishes to you all , take care love jill n poppy n family xx

09-18-2009, 11:18 AM	#26
poppys mummy Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: uk Posts: 811 Blog Entries: 1	julie its not mad at all , just very , very , brave , cant begin to imagine what you are going through love jill n poppy xx

09-18-2009, 11:44 AM	#28
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I am sorry your Dad passed. I am glad you have a get away here though. We are all here for you __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

09-18-2009, 12:10 PM	#29
JackieJack Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Central PA Posts: 91	I am so sorry about your dad. I hope everything is started to get a little better for you now. Hugs! __________________ RIP GingerJackFat puddy

09-18-2009, 02:56 PM	#30
BLADE YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 251	I'm glad that we can be here for you. I lost my daddy very suddenly a year ago and I know exactly how you feel. My baby Kimbo helps brighten my days with his wet kisses and playfulness.