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Malia · 03-13-2009, 02:31 PM

I feel for Romeo just as you felt for Smokey! Just wanted to let you know I feel your pain and can't even imagine what you're going through!!
It will definitely take some time for your wounds to heal. Keep a place for him in your heart and know that he is in a better place and he is in God's hands.
I lost my mom to Ovarian cancer in Dec 2007 and at times it still hard to be here without her but I know that she is not suffereing anymore and that she's looking over me.
You have to be strong and get through this and let us know if we can help in any way. We are here for you

Xaleia · 03-14-2009, 07:51 AM

Tears are flowing as I read your post.
First, thank you for coming here and sharing your pain. I don't think everyone in your everyday life, understands the pain and the loss of someone so special to you. Yes it was a dog. Yes it was an animal not a human. Yes you can love an animal very nearly as deeply as you love your own children. They are an everyday part of our lives, are they not?
Quiet warm comfort in an insane every day life.
Gentle love and joy given so endlessly, every day of their little lives.
Our confidants at times, our continual sources of smiles and laughter.
Nothing quite compares to those large eyes, peering at us from those tiny little faces.
Now... give yourself time. You have every right to mourn and grieve. Then, leave the guilt behind hon. We cannot forsee any accidents or disease that might take our little ones from us. You deserve no guilt as you gave your all to your Smokey..while he was alive and would of done anything to keep him from any pain or injury. Your not psychic darlin....
Please know that each and everyone of us here know the pain your going thru.
I had to put my Leilauni down a year ago this last Thanksgiving. I still tear up and get sad when I remember that day. It was best for her, but still in all I grieve..I feel some guilt too..as I feel I killed her....
But I did not. Disease was killing her and she was suffering.
Sometimes does not make it any easier.
Like a human child, a Mom takes on the role (willingly and naturally) where we want to protect and keep safe our children. Same with our fur babies.
God is now holding your Smokey and my Lei and the many other so loved..and the ones not so loved right now. He is bouncing and playing with Cassie, Lei, Thumper, Hang, Boscoe, Shadow, Fujji, and my first baby, Candy.
Those were my pups at one time. Smokey is playing with them and all the other angels.
*Big huge hugs* as I know you are hurting.

I waited a long time as I just could not imagine anyone taking my Lei's place. Well I have Marley now to share my home with Corkie.
He is a monster, a treasure and a fountain of smiles. He can never move aside or lessen the love of my Lei or my Cassie..etc.... but you know what? He has helped me move on and remember them with smiles instead of crying.
He has made me focus on the now and not the past. The pain is much less now and I think a new pup, WHEN YOU are ready, will help you transition and move on in time.
Right now..your heart is bleeding and may not be a good time to get another..but one day it will I hope, because it appears to me that you have so much love to give a little one.
If only all the unwanted little critters had a Mom such as you and the rest of the people here on YT.
My heart goes out to you.
Bless you and your Smokey

bcrass2 · 03-14-2009, 08:08 AM

God bless you and smokey

Time will heal your pain...but Smokey lives forever in your heart! I lost my silky five years ago. I picked a big tree in my backyard and buried him there. Petsmart has beautiful headstones. I put a little gate around the tree and a bench nearby to sit on. I sit out there often and think of my baby.

I have 3 furbabies now. They are definitely not him but they did fill that void in my heart! Eventually you will be ready...Take your time and heal. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

Ashley V · 03-14-2009, 08:56 AM

I'm so sorry. I have a Smokey too and just reading your description of him, reminds me of my own. It brought tears to my eyes. RIP dear Smokey.

Corrine Parrott · 03-14-2009, 09:04 AM

I am so sorry for you loss. I know how you feel. I lost Bear just after Christmas. The is a poem about going over a bridge and meeting up with him again as he will be waiting for your arrival when it is your time and he will run to meet you. Bear was just old and nothing other than a heart transplant could save him. We all grieved and then our 16 year old started to go down hill, she was so depressed so we now have Zipper. She has perked up and life goes on.

Nikis2 · 03-14-2009, 09:50 AM

I am crying for Smokey too. I don't no what happened to him with whoever he was with but none of that matters now. He is gone and your heart is broke. I no you must feel like a zombie right now and in need of a big hug I only wish I knew you to be able to give you one. You can never replace a piece of your heart that is gone but, you can open it up to another to help fill the void. You need to give yourself some time and don't jump into getting the first puppy you see if you decide to get one. Please no you gave your little man a wonder happy life and you were both filled with great memories to hold onto.

FlDebra · 03-14-2009, 02:50 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand your need to write about your little Smokey in a place that others feel the depth of your pain. I recently lost my dear Sadie on the 3rd day after she gave me 5 beautiful puppies. I had not been to Yorkietalk for quite some time, but knew this was a place with people who could really understand what it means to lose one of these precious Yorkie friends. I knew too, that a wealth of experience and knowledge was here for the asking. It provides solace to read the responses of so many that genuinely share in your grief and wish you peace and comfort. Know that you are not alone and we all would love to hear some of your memories of Smokey when you are ready to share them.

As to another dog. Take time to grieve Smokey but yes, I think there is another puppy out there that needs your loving attention ... when you feel it's time.

Take care of yourself and try to hold on to the fact that you and Smokey had so much joy from one another in the time you had together. So many never know that bond.

chestermama · 03-14-2009, 04:08 PM

Im so sorry for your loss, he had a very good mommy

vangelis · 03-14-2009, 06:16 PM

Im sorry for your loss

lgoodall · 03-15-2009, 12:17 PM

I am so saddened by your loss. I can't imagine losing one from a tragic accident. My little Murdoch had to be put down a couple of years ago. I wanted to die also. I know your pain. However, he was old, and in sick. It was still awful. I had him cremated, and his ashes are in my bedrom .I waited two years to get my precious Yorkie, Tucker. I got Tucker because Murdock came to me in a dream, and scratched my arm with his paws. I woke up, and reached for him. It was so real. I decided, then, it was time for a new puppy. You will never forget your love for the one that died, but after a while, a new one will fill an empty space in your heart.

kitad48 · 03-16-2009, 08:51 PM

I wanted to attach some funny pictures of my Beloved Smokey

kitad48 · 03-16-2009, 08:54 PM

You guys are the greatest. Thank you so much for helping me to get through my grief.

AbbysMom08 · 03-16-2009, 09:05 PM

I am so very sorry doe your loss.
I know full well the pain you are going through as I lost my precious Kayla last July and it seems like yesterday. She was the light of my life.
I will keep you in my prayers and ask God to comfort you in your time of sorrow.

03-13-2009, 02:31 PM	#31
Malia YT Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Livermore, CA Posts: 299	I feel for Romeo just as you felt for Smokey! Just wanted to let you know I feel your pain and can't even imagine what you're going through!! It will definitely take some time for your wounds to heal. Keep a place for him in your heart and know that he is in a better place and he is in God's hands. I lost my mom to Ovarian cancer in Dec 2007 and at times it still hard to be here without her but I know that she is not suffereing anymore and that she's looking over me. You have to be strong and get through this and let us know if we can help in any way. We are here for you __________________ Now if only the rest of us were as determined as this dog

03-14-2009, 07:51 AM	#32
Xaleia YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Lincoln, CA Posts: 252	Tears are flowing as I read your post. First, thank you for coming here and sharing your pain. I don't think everyone in your everyday life, understands the pain and the loss of someone so special to you. Yes it was a dog. Yes it was an animal not a human. Yes you can love an animal very nearly as deeply as you love your own children. They are an everyday part of our lives, are they not? Quiet warm comfort in an insane every day life. Gentle love and joy given so endlessly, every day of their little lives. Our confidants at times, our continual sources of smiles and laughter. Nothing quite compares to those large eyes, peering at us from those tiny little faces. Now... give yourself time. You have every right to mourn and grieve. Then, leave the guilt behind hon. We cannot forsee any accidents or disease that might take our little ones from us. You deserve no guilt as you gave your all to your Smokey..while he was alive and would of done anything to keep him from any pain or injury. Your not psychic darlin.... Please know that each and everyone of us here know the pain your going thru. I had to put my Leilauni down a year ago this last Thanksgiving. I still tear up and get sad when I remember that day. It was best for her, but still in all I grieve..I feel some guilt too..as I feel I killed her.... But I did not. Disease was killing her and she was suffering. Sometimes does not make it any easier. Like a human child, a Mom takes on the role (willingly and naturally) where we want to protect and keep safe our children. Same with our fur babies. God is now holding your Smokey and my Lei and the many other so loved..and the ones not so loved right now. He is bouncing and playing with Cassie, Lei, Thumper, Hang, Boscoe, Shadow, Fujji, and my first baby, Candy. Those were my pups at one time. Smokey is playing with them and all the other angels. Big huge hugs as I know you are hurting. I waited a long time as I just could not imagine anyone taking my Lei's place. Well I have Marley now to share my home with Corkie. He is a monster, a treasure and a fountain of smiles. He can never move aside or lessen the love of my Lei or my Cassie..etc.... but you know what? He has helped me move on and remember them with smiles instead of crying. He has made me focus on the now and not the past. The pain is much less now and I think a new pup, WHEN YOU are ready, will help you transition and move on in time. Right now..your heart is bleeding and may not be a good time to get another..but one day it will I hope, because it appears to me that you have so much love to give a little one. If only all the unwanted little critters had a Mom such as you and the rest of the people here on YT. My heart goes out to you. Bless you and your Smokey __________________ ~On the 8th day, God made Yorkies~ Cj , Corkie Marley and now Lily Keilani!

03-14-2009, 08:08 AM	#33
bcrass2 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Snowflake, AZ, USA Posts: 672	God bless you and smokey Time will heal your pain...but Smokey lives forever in your heart! I lost my silky five years ago. I picked a big tree in my backyard and buried him there. Petsmart has beautiful headstones. I put a little gate around the tree and a bench nearby to sit on. I sit out there often and think of my baby. I have 3 furbabies now. They are definitely not him but they did fill that void in my heart! Eventually you will be ready...Take your time and heal. You will be in my thoughts and prayers! __________________ Chloe and Little Man's Mommy We Miss you Milo!

03-14-2009, 08:56 AM	#34
Ashley V ♥ Chip ♥ Smokey ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Leesburg Posts: 3,835	I'm so sorry. I have a Smokey too and just reading your description of him, reminds me of my own. It brought tears to my eyes. RIP dear Smokey. __________________ ~~ Chip ~~ Smokey ~*~ My heart is wrapped around their little paws Karley Marissa born 1/20/12 weighing 8 lbs 11 oz and 21.5 inches long

03-14-2009, 09:04 AM	#35
Corrine Parrott Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Chilliwack, BC, Canada Posts: 92	Loss of Smokey I am so sorry for you loss. I know how you feel. I lost Bear just after Christmas. The is a poem about going over a bridge and meeting up with him again as he will be waiting for your arrival when it is your time and he will run to meet you. Bear was just old and nothing other than a heart transplant could save him. We all grieved and then our 16 year old started to go down hill, she was so depressed so we now have Zipper. She has perked up and life goes on.

03-14-2009, 09:50 AM	#36
Nikis2 Currently Suspended! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Berlin MD US Posts: 381	I am crying for Smokey too. I don't no what happened to him with whoever he was with but none of that matters now. He is gone and your heart is broke. I no you must feel like a zombie right now and in need of a big hug I only wish I knew you to be able to give you one. You can never replace a piece of your heart that is gone but, you can open it up to another to help fill the void. You need to give yourself some time and don't jump into getting the first puppy you see if you decide to get one. Please no you gave your little man a wonder happy life and you were both filled with great memories to hold onto.

03-14-2009, 02:50 PM	#37
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	I am so sorry for your loss. I understand your need to write about your little Smokey in a place that others feel the depth of your pain. I recently lost my dear Sadie on the 3rd day after she gave me 5 beautiful puppies. I had not been to Yorkietalk for quite some time, but knew this was a place with people who could really understand what it means to lose one of these precious Yorkie friends. I knew too, that a wealth of experience and knowledge was here for the asking. It provides solace to read the responses of so many that genuinely share in your grief and wish you peace and comfort. Know that you are not alone and we all would love to hear some of your memories of Smokey when you are ready to share them. As to another dog. Take time to grieve Smokey but yes, I think there is another puppy out there that needs your loving attention ... when you feel it's time. Take care of yourself and try to hold on to the fact that you and Smokey had so much joy from one another in the time you had together. So many never know that bond. __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

03-14-2009, 04:08 PM	#38
chestermama YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: washington Posts: 3,383 Blog Entries: 1	Im so sorry for your loss, he had a very good mommy

03-14-2009, 06:16 PM	#39
vangelis Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 33	Im sorry for your loss

03-15-2009, 12:17 PM	#40
lgoodall YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Tuscaloosa, Alabama Posts: 260	I am so saddened by your loss. I can't imagine losing one from a tragic accident. My little Murdoch had to be put down a couple of years ago. I wanted to die also. I know your pain. However, he was old, and in sick. It was still awful. I had him cremated, and his ashes are in my bedrom .I waited two years to get my precious Yorkie, Tucker. I got Tucker because Murdock came to me in a dream, and scratched my arm with his paws. I woke up, and reached for him. It was so real. I decided, then, it was time for a new puppy. You will never forget your love for the one that died, but after a while, a new one will fill an empty space in your heart.

03-16-2009, 08:51 PM	#41
kitad48 Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 11 Blog Entries: 1	Thank you So Much I wanted to attach some funny pictures of my Beloved Smokey Attached Thumbnails

03-16-2009, 08:54 PM	#42
kitad48 Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 11 Blog Entries: 1	Funny pictures of my beloved Smokey You guys are the greatest. Thank you so much for helping me to get through my grief. Attached Thumbnails Last edited by kitad48; 03-16-2009 at 08:58 PM.

03-16-2009, 09:05 PM	#43
AbbysMom08 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Illinois Posts: 2,268	I am so very sorry doe your loss. I know full well the pain you are going through as I lost my precious Kayla last July and it seems like yesterday. She was the light of my life. I will keep you in my prayers and ask God to comfort you in your time of sorrow.