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mscat · 02-25-2009, 11:49 AM

I am very sorry for the loss of sweet Lacey. I'd have her cremated because then I would have her close to me , forever. RIP precious Lacey.

Dara311 · 02-25-2009, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by enlighten60

Hi Lacey passed away yesterday . It was so hard to see her in pain and she die in my son's arms. We took her to the vet and they will cremate her. I am not sure what to do. My family all went to the vet and we was put in a room to spend time with her. We all cried. We are all still having a hard time today. I can cremate her and have her buried in a pet cemetery or I can cremate her and get her back. We are not sure if we should get her back so we can move on faster but on the other hand if I don't get her back she we be cremated with other pets and put in an unmarked grave. I can't see her being cremated with others. I need help figuring out what I should do.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I would ask the vet if you can take her body home? Some states don't allow that, but I will tell you if you do a private cremation you will get her ashes back, with communial, they just put her in with everything else.

Wylie's Mom · 02-25-2009, 12:15 PM

I am so sorry for your loss

, it's heartbreaking.

When I had to put my beloved cat to sleep a couple years ago, I had her cremated and I still have her ashes in a little container - and I think I will always keep them with me, instead of "spreading" them or burying them.

PiePiper · 02-25-2009, 12:27 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much you are hurting for I had to let my 13 year old Chipper go last March. I did have him cremated along with his favorite stuff toy Buddy Boy which he had from the first day we brought him home from the breeders. I brought Chip and Buddy Boy home in their beautiful urn and have them sitting on my dresser where he'll always be close to me.

lisacam · 02-25-2009, 12:53 PM

I was following your story last week. So sorry to read that you lost Lacey.
My condolences....

to you and your family.

lil fu fu girl · 02-25-2009, 12:55 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Our baby just left us last month, and we had him cremated and brought him home. The place that did it, did a private cremation and we have him in a beautiful little marble jar, right next to my dad. We would have buried him at home, but right now we are renting and did not want to leave him here when we move. But I can tell you first hand, that seeing the little jar with his name on it keeps his memory alive. Whoever passes by him remarks about something he use to do that made us laugh.
So I hope that you can find some peace and are able to make a decision that is right for you. My deepest sympathy............

YorkieShadow · 02-25-2009, 01:43 PM

Im so sorry for your loss, RIP sweet baby.
Only you and your family can make that decision .

sarahheartmaddy · 02-25-2009, 01:45 PM

Poor angel. My thoughts are with you.

celstu1 · 02-25-2009, 01:49 PM

I am so sorry for your loss! RIP Lacey, sweet little angel.

When my stuart died I kept his ashes, its been over 3 years now and I still have the little wooden 'urn' box with his name and dates engraved and a picture of him. Its precious and I love that he's with me still. I hope that helps you make your decision! Again, Im so sorry for your loss. Its so hard with these little ones, you become so attached so easily!

yogini75 · 02-25-2009, 01:54 PM

I was just reading your thread and my heart is broken for you. I have a sick little yorkie that has had issues since he is 12 weeks old (he is now 3 by a miracle)...RIGHT AFTER THE VACCINATIONS! It is heartbreaking!

We have been through a lot and I know how quickly you fall in love with them. She touched your life....and was brought to you for a reason...I would keep her!

ltret0294 · 02-25-2009, 02:04 PM

When Harley, DJ and Annie all died in a span of 6 weeks in Jan/Feb 08 we had them cremated and their ashes returned. I will not spread their ashes anywhere. When we get the study/computer room organized, I will make a resting spot for their cremains. As others have said, "they will always be with me". Take peace in knowing that Lacey is well again and waiting for you at the

Bridge. Rest in Peace Lacey.

cheryl19 · 02-25-2009, 02:31 PM

So sorry for your loss.

RIP little Lacey

Patti · 02-25-2009, 04:24 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my pom and had her cremated and have the ashes with Dixie and Gracie's my 2 yorkies that passed on.

enlighten60 · 02-25-2009, 07:04 PM

are you saying with bag and all? so its not just her body.

enlighten60 · 02-25-2009, 07:14 PM

I would first like to thank everyone for their support and love for Lacey. I have decided to have a private cremation for Lacey. I could not see her being cremated with others. Today was very hard for me. I did bring her back to the vet last week and the vet said keep force feeding her, she might come out of it. but he knew she was not going to. I had the best 2 1/2 weeks with her we loved her so much she was a joy and I know she loved us also. she alway curled up on us to sleep. I will aways love her. Thanks again everyone.

02-25-2009, 11:49 AM	#31
mscat YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Hanford, CA Posts: 4,895	I am very sorry for the loss of sweet Lacey. I'd have her cremated because then I would have her close to me , forever. RIP precious Lacey. __________________ "No matter how little money & how few possessions, you own, having a dog makes you rich."

02-25-2009, 12:15 PM	#33
Wylie's Mom Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 35,889 Blog Entries: 2	I am so sorry for your loss , it's heartbreaking. When I had to put my beloved cat to sleep a couple years ago, I had her cremated and I still have her ashes in a little container - and I think I will always keep them with me, instead of "spreading" them or burying them. __________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann \| Pfeiffer \| Marcel Verdel Purcell \| Wylie \| Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨°

02-25-2009, 12:27 PM	#34
PiePiper Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Connecticut Posts: 759	I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much you are hurting for I had to let my 13 year old Chipper go last March. I did have him cremated along with his favorite stuff toy Buddy Boy which he had from the first day we brought him home from the breeders. I brought Chip and Buddy Boy home in their beautiful urn and have them sitting on my dresser where he'll always be close to me. __________________ Mom to Piper & Chipper

02-25-2009, 01:49 PM	#39
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	I am so sorry for your loss! RIP Lacey, sweet little angel. When my stuart died I kept his ashes, its been over 3 years now and I still have the little wooden 'urn' box with his name and dates engraved and a picture of him. Its precious and I love that he's with me still. I hope that helps you make your decision! Again, Im so sorry for your loss. Its so hard with these little ones, you become so attached so easily! __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

02-25-2009, 01:54 PM	#40
yogini75 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Fort Lauderdale Posts: 33	Im sooooo sorry! I was just reading your thread and my heart is broken for you. I have a sick little yorkie that has had issues since he is 12 weeks old (he is now 3 by a miracle)...RIGHT AFTER THE VACCINATIONS! It is heartbreaking! We have been through a lot and I know how quickly you fall in love with them. She touched your life....and was brought to you for a reason...I would keep her! __________________ love vicki & nobu

02-25-2009, 12:53 PM	#35
lisacam No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: N/A Posts: 134	I was following your story last week. So sorry to read that you lost Lacey. My condolences.... to you and your family.

02-25-2009, 12:55 PM	#36
lil fu fu girl No Longer a Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Maryland Posts: 2,410	I am so sorry for your loss. Our baby just left us last month, and we had him cremated and brought him home. The place that did it, did a private cremation and we have him in a beautiful little marble jar, right next to my dad. We would have buried him at home, but right now we are renting and did not want to leave him here when we move. But I can tell you first hand, that seeing the little jar with his name on it keeps his memory alive. Whoever passes by him remarks about something he use to do that made us laugh. So I hope that you can find some peace and are able to make a decision that is right for you. My deepest sympathy............

02-25-2009, 01:43 PM	#37
YorkieShadow BANNED! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA Posts: 9,999	Im so sorry for your loss, RIP sweet baby. Only you and your family can make that decision .

02-25-2009, 01:45 PM	#38
sarahheartmaddy BANNED FOR TAKING MONEY AND NOT SHIPPING PRODUCTS SOLD!!! Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: San Jose, CA Posts: 1,827	Poor angel. My thoughts are with you.

02-25-2009, 02:04 PM	#41
ltret0294 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Satellite Beach, FL Posts: 838	When Harley, DJ and Annie all died in a span of 6 weeks in Jan/Feb 08 we had them cremated and their ashes returned. I will not spread their ashes anywhere. When we get the study/computer room organized, I will make a resting spot for their cremains. As others have said, "they will always be with me". Take peace in knowing that Lacey is well again and waiting for you at the Bridge. Rest in Peace Lacey. __________________ Zack, Zeke, Zoey, Zipp RIP 6/28/12

02-25-2009, 02:31 PM	#42
cheryl19 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NY USA Posts: 1,749	So sorry for your loss. RIP little Lacey __________________ Ivy, Max, Reggie & Cheryl

02-25-2009, 04:24 PM	#43
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my pom and had her cremated and have the ashes with Dixie and Gracie's my 2 yorkies that passed on. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

02-25-2009, 07:04 PM	#44
enlighten60 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: ma Posts: 122	are you saying with bag and all? so its not just her body.

02-25-2009, 07:14 PM	#45
enlighten60 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: ma Posts: 122	I would first like to thank everyone for their support and love for Lacey. I have decided to have a private cremation for Lacey. I could not see her being cremated with others. Today was very hard for me. I did bring her back to the vet last week and the vet said keep force feeding her, she might come out of it. but he knew she was not going to. I had the best 2 1/2 weeks with her we loved her so much she was a joy and I know she loved us also. she alway curled up on us to sleep. I will aways love her. Thanks again everyone.