I am so sorry for your loss. Our baby just left us last month, and we had him cremated and brought him home. The place that did it, did a private cremation and we have him in a beautiful little marble jar, right next to my dad. We would have buried him at home, but right now we are renting and did not want to leave him here when we move. But I can tell you first hand, that seeing the little jar with his name on it keeps his memory alive. Whoever passes by him remarks about something he use to do that made us laugh.
So I hope that you can find some peace and are able to make a decision that is right for you. My deepest sympathy............
|