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manolos mom · 12-16-2008, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by PrincessDiana

I don't think how the OP feels about her mother is ANY of your business, no matter how much it offends you. I'm sure she does not care how you feel, how you would treat your mother, or how you think she should treat her mother. To be completely honest, neither do I. I am not saying this to be rude, but this is completely ridiculous! This question was about the treatment of her YORKIE, not her mom. Let me remind you all that this a forum about Yorkies. This thread has gotten way out of hand, as it always does.

I hope admin closes this soon.

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT.....Dealing with my Mother. WHY DID SHE TITLE HER THREAD WITH THIS.....PLEASE READ EVERYTHING BEFORE YOU MAKE A STATEMENT PLEASE. YES WE HOPE HER AND HER MOM WILL COME TO AN AGREEMENT BUT CALLING HER MOTHER A B.... is very bad and its a sin......I grew up in the 70. We were very liberal but never nasty to our parents.....

jmdt · 12-16-2008, 04:11 PM

I will not comment on all of this. I will say that I feed my 3 babies Health Extention Kibble "little bits" The kibble is very small for their little teeth to chew. They love it. I free feed them so if they get hungry they just go eat. It is working for us. I hope all goes well for you and your baby. Have a good holiday.

COCO

PEBBLES

TRIXIE

RockinRhonda · 12-16-2008, 04:41 PM

did I not read your mother pd your vet bill.You do need your mom untill you grow up to live on your own.
I can tell you my daughter is a single mom and lives on her own and pay sher own bill .And makes 15000 a year. And for the most part she takes care of her self and still needs me some times.She is your mom.Moms do that.So as long as you are in here house .Try to be a little nicer.And get no assist from state .So it can be done

PrincessDiana · 12-16-2008, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by manolos mom

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT.....Dealing with my Mother. WHY DID SHE TITLE HER THREAD WITH THIS.....PLEASE READ EVERYTHING BEFORE YOU MAKE A STATEMENT PLEASE. YES WE HOPE HER AND HER MOM WILL COME TO AN AGREEMENT BUT CALLING HER MOTHER A B.... is very bad and its a sin......I grew up in the 70. We were very liberal but never nasty to our parents.....

Her thread was about the way her mother went behind her back and refuses to treat the Yorkie how she wants. Maybe it is a little selfish of her to expect her mother to do something a certain way if she is doing her a favor. Fine, think that. I think so too, but I also can sympathize with how she feels.

The thread is titled "Dealing with my mother" -- she wants to know what the solution to her problem should be. It is not titled "I'm an adult but I would like some random strangers to judge and attack me on a public forum about Yorkies." Why are people responding like it is? Everyone says young people are rude. Well I think YOU people are rude.

Maybe you should re-read the thread before you make judgments about someone who is just looking for a little advice?

Please do not scream at in your posts. It is not necessary or appreciated.

MaxwellHouse · 12-16-2008, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by keylargolady100

Originally Posted by kingston_james
Wow. Today is my first day here and if this is what I have to look forward to by coming to this site, I think perhaps I should just save myself the drama and leave now!

Girl, you are coming across like a downright rude spoiled brat. If you do not want to hear the opinions of the other "mature" ladies on here, then do not post your personal problems on a public forum. This is the internet. You will not always hear what you want to hear; sometimes people may say stuff that upsets you, but if you want to be treated like a mature adult yourself then perhaps you should take it with a grain of salt instead of acting like a prima donna.

kingston's mom (a 20 year old with RESPECT for others who first SHOW respect).

I think you're my lost daughter..

No I think she is mine!! lol

What a pleasure to hear from a young person who shows respect. And she knows that what she shows is what she will recieve.

Oh, no, I'LL take HER for a daughter!!!!!!!

yorkie_mama22 · 12-16-2008, 07:00 PM

The solution is to TALK to her mom and work something out not go on a public form and tell random strangers that her mom is a B... because she doesn't want to feed HER dog what SHE wants the way SHE wants while in her MOTHERS HOME. that is really childish, you know how it feels and I do too but it's pathetic to come on line and talk bad about your mom who is helping you out. Yes young kids are VERY RUDE these days, I am young and ALOT, I mean ALOT of young kids are rude, disrespectful to other adults. I am pretty mature with adults and I respect my elders, especially my parents who help me out, ya they might not always be right or seem like they know what they are talking about but I'm sure her mom raised her better then that.

phfgkl · 12-16-2008, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MaxwellHouse

Oh, no, I'LL take HER for a daughter!!!!!!!

sorry, you're too late, I adopted her 2 weeks ago...her Christmas present is on its way..

kingston_james · 12-16-2008, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by phfgkl

sorry, you're too late, I adopted her 2 weeks ago...her Christmas present is on its way..

lol

manolos mom · 12-17-2008, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by PrincessDiana

Her thread was about the way her mother went behind her back and refuses to treat the Yorkie how she wants. Maybe it is a little selfish of her to expect her mother to do something a certain way if she is doing her a favor. Fine, think that. I think so too, but I also can sympathize with how she feels.

The thread is titled "Dealing with my mother" -- she wants to know what the solution to her problem should be. It is not titled "I'm an adult but I would like some random strangers to judge and attack me on a public forum about Yorkies." Why are people responding like it is? Everyone says young people are rude. Well I think YOU people are rude.

Maybe you should re-read the thread before you make judgments about someone who is just looking for a little advice?

Please do not scream at in your posts. It is not necessary or appreciated.

You guys need to listen to KingstonJames. She is young like you but so grown up and very wise. You all have a Happy Holiday .. Thanks KingstonJames for giving us hope for the future....Lissette

desaree · 12-17-2008, 07:20 AM

Wow, I see I've missed a lot since I’ve been gone.
First of all let me say, I feed my Daisy Natural Balance and she loves it. I thought of starting her on the soft food, but then decided against it.

Second of all,... Come on everyone we are all adults maybe we should start acting like one. Im sure when she was writing this she was mad, don’t we all say things we don’t really mean when we are mad. I know I sure do. I also still live with my mom. She is my BEST FRIEND and yes sometimes we don’t see eye to eye but that’s life. There are no two people exactly the same with exactly the same beliefs. I love my mother more then anyone in the world!! Have I said things to her or about her that I didn’t really mean...yes...it doesn't make her love me any less. It happens, there is not a person alive who is perfect! A person who says and does the right things ALL THE TIME does not exist! I am a firm believer that you must first give respect to receive respect. But we are human, and humans make mistakes.

Ashley V · 12-17-2008, 08:32 AM

Really, I think everyone should agree to disagree. I think everyone agrees with the fact that she shouldn't have called her mother that, but when it comes to whether that should have been stated or not from everyone on the board, you all have very valid points. Not only that the OP hasn't even posted here in awhile. No sense in arguing. Let's all just get along and smile and be friends.

ralphier · 12-17-2008, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ashley V

Really, I think everyone should agree to disagree. I think everyone agrees with the fact that she shouldn't have called her mother that, but when it comes to whether that should have been stated or not from everyone on the board, you all have very valid points. Not only that the OP hasn't even posted here in awhile. No sense in arguing. Let's all just get along and smile and be friends.

donnarod · 12-17-2008, 12:23 PM

OPINIONS!!! Way to many for this thread. Maybe I missed something but I didn't see where she called her Mother a b----- to her face.
People can have a different meaning for that word. My best friends calls me that some time, and it is with humor.
I have not been on this thread for a while until today, I agree, people have too much time on their hands. I know I do today, that it why I am here and certainly didn't read all of the posts. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL.

12-16-2008, 04:41 PM	#78
RockinRhonda Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Maryland Posts: 100	did I not read your mother pd your vet bill.You do need your mom untill you grow up to live on your own. I can tell you my daughter is a single mom and lives on her own and pay sher own bill .And makes 15000 a year. And for the most part she takes care of her self and still needs me some times.She is your mom.Moms do that.So as long as you are in here house .Try to be a little nicer.And get no assist from state .So it can be done __________________ Daisymae,Secret,Juliya and Momma(Me)

12-17-2008, 08:32 AM	#86
Ashley V ♥ Chip ♥ Smokey ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Leesburg Posts: 3,835	Really, I think everyone should agree to disagree. I think everyone agrees with the fact that she shouldn't have called her mother that, but when it comes to whether that should have been stated or not from everyone on the board, you all have very valid points. Not only that the OP hasn't even posted here in awhile. No sense in arguing. Let's all just get along and smile and be friends. __________________ ~~ Chip ~~ Smokey ~*~ My heart is wrapped around their little paws Karley Marissa born 1/20/12 weighing 8 lbs 11 oz and 21.5 inches long

12-17-2008, 12:23 PM	#88
donnarod "Owned" by Miss Tricksie Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Riverview, FL Posts: 3,737	OPINIONS!!! Way to many for this thread. Maybe I missed something but I didn't see where she called her Mother a b----- to her face. People can have a different meaning for that word. My best friends calls me that some time, and it is with humor. I have not been on this thread for a while until today, I agree, people have too much time on their hands. I know I do today, that it why I am here and certainly didn't read all of the posts. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL. __________________ Donna, Tricksie and Peanut

12-16-2008, 04:11 PM	#77
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	I will not comment on all of this. I will say that I feed my 3 babies Health Extention Kibble "little bits" The kibble is very small for their little teeth to chew. They love it. I free feed them so if they get hungry they just go eat. It is working for us. I hope all goes well for you and your baby. Have a good holiday. COCO PEBBLES TRIXIE

12-16-2008, 07:00 PM	#81
yorkie_mama22 Currently Suspended! Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 2,275	The solution is to TALK to her mom and work something out not go on a public form and tell random strangers that her mom is a B... because she doesn't want to feed HER dog what SHE wants the way SHE wants while in her MOTHERS HOME. that is really childish, you know how it feels and I do too but it's pathetic to come on line and talk bad about your mom who is helping you out. Yes young kids are VERY RUDE these days, I am young and ALOT, I mean ALOT of young kids are rude, disrespectful to other adults. I am pretty mature with adults and I respect my elders, especially my parents who help me out, ya they might not always be right or seem like they know what they are talking about but I'm sure her mom raised her better then that.

12-17-2008, 07:20 AM	#85
desaree Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: PA Posts: 130	Wow, I see I've missed a lot since I’ve been gone. First of all let me say, I feed my Daisy Natural Balance and she loves it. I thought of starting her on the soft food, but then decided against it. Second of all,... Come on everyone we are all adults maybe we should start acting like one. Im sure when she was writing this she was mad, don’t we all say things we don’t really mean when we are mad. I know I sure do. I also still live with my mom. She is my BEST FRIEND and yes sometimes we don’t see eye to eye but that’s life. There are no two people exactly the same with exactly the same beliefs. I love my mother more then anyone in the world!! Have I said things to her or about her that I didn’t really mean...yes...it doesn't make her love me any less. It happens, there is not a person alive who is perfect! A person who says and does the right things ALL THE TIME does not exist! I am a firm believer that you must first give respect to receive respect. But we are human, and humans make mistakes.