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Jeri Cunningham · 07-09-2008, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexie Blue

What is going on in YT? Is it a full moon? There's so much animosity in a place that used to be so pleasant.

AMEN!!!

spr377 · 07-09-2008, 07:39 PM

Even though I have been on here a year, I still am getting to know people and feel like I have trusted most people's posts as truth.......I'm really confused about what is going on?

peanut · 07-09-2008, 07:44 PM

Well like I said on the other thread I spoke when i shouldn't have, I don't know either one of them, but I have seen baby blessings on a lot and enjoyed her post and have respected her since I started YT. I just jumped in when I shouldn't have said anything but I thought someone was being cruel to one of our members. For that I apologize. I will learn to keep my mouth shout from now on.

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Bizzymammabee · 07-09-2008, 07:56 PM

Honestly the reactions are totally understandable. Patti is on here every day and sharing with us so people identified with her. The other gentleman I see has a small post count so I would dare to speculate he is not a really active/vocal member here. So I can see where people's first reaction would be to protect Patti.

Things got a bit heated because YT is like family and folks were circling the wagons to protect one of our own.

Wigfur · 07-09-2008, 07:57 PM

I am new still yet to YT, and I have no clue what happened here,but I can say this.. I hope this gets worked out and everyone will be okay in the end.. drama is never good. Not with in a family.

MeganS · 07-09-2008, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Wigfur

I am new still yet to YT, and I have no clue what happened here,but I can say this.. I hope this gets worked out and everyone will be okay in the end.. drama is never good. Not with in a family.

Thank you for saying that - really.

(and be glad you don't know what's going on - it's one big headache and a half!)

Connie · 07-09-2008, 08:02 PM

I will also stand behind Patti...that's what friends do.

jencar98 · 07-09-2008, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by MeganS

Lori I know what you're saying. and I'm feeling the same way. It took everything for me to post my post. But it seems to be that this is how it is. I feel like a jerk for betraying Patti, and I'm heartbroken, but until it's proven otherwise, Jerry is obviously the innocent one here.

Thank you Megan for being big enough to admit a mistake and apologize.

I know of Patty and have always loved her posts. Also, I do know Jerry from another forum and always found him to be a very sweet and honest man. Knowing Jerry, the mean spirited comments were very offensive to me and his friends here.

I do not know what actually happened but hope this has taught us all something about jumping to conclusions.

xxmxaxrxyxx · 07-09-2008, 08:34 PM

I don't know what is going on...I must have miss something although I am on here like 24/7 but whatever it is I know in the end will work out for the best! Good luck to those involve...sorry to those who are hurt...

admin · 07-09-2008, 08:47 PM

As simonandhallie stated, Baby Blessing chose to leave YorkieTalk on her own accord, which is fine. We hate losing any member, but if a member chooses to leave, then that is their right to. We are confused on this issue as well, as we did not see the avatar that Baby Blessing had, and how similar or if it was actually the same picture as the picture from jer_lin. From our understanding, Baby Blessing is not a computer expert, and sometimes pictures or images can get confused as well, as MANY Yorkies look eerily similar (see the YorkieTalk twins threads for example).

We understand Baby Blessing is cherished and loved here, and we understand that. But we do not see that jer_lin did anything wrong or attacked Baby Blessing, so we do not feel it is appropriate for members to attack jer_lin. We hope everyone can move on from this situation. Thank you.

xxmxaxrxyxx · 07-09-2008, 08:55 PM

well i did some research on what is going on...and i may offend some people on here...by the truth is in plain site...Jerry I can say that after skimming thru the old posts you are not wrong...and I am sorry for those who attack you because you are the innocent party...jmho!

Wigfur · 07-09-2008, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by MeganS

Thank you for saying that - really.

(and be glad you don't know what's going on - it's one big headache and a half!)

most welcome,and I am already having a head issue so I'll just move right along. hehe

4doggiemama · 07-09-2008, 09:00 PM

It is always the young who show us how it should be, Megan. And, yes, op, you have every right to be angry. And I humbly ask your forgiveness. It is soooo hard for me to absorb that it is possible that someone who has posted such inspirational messages could possibly be the one in the wrong? I viewed her as a prayer warrior. I'd ask her to pray for someone if I thought extra prayers were needed. I am obviously very naive. Way too trusting. And yes, jer_lin deserves my apology. I am very humbled by this experience. A very bad learning experience.

chattiesmom · 07-09-2008, 09:01 PM

I know Jerry and his wife Linda. I have visited with them in their home on three separate occasions. The last last time was about three years ago. I actually sat on the very carpet shown in the picture and held OP. OP stood for Other Puppy. It was an inside joke between Jerry and Linda, me and a third person who bought one of Jerry's pups. OP was a sibling to the pup that the other person bought so Jerry always referred to this puppy as OP or Other Puppy.

chattiesmom · 07-09-2008, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by 4doggiemama

It is always the young who show us how it should be, Megan. And, yes, op, you have every right to be angry. And I humbly ask your forgiveness. It is soooo hard for me to absorb that it is possible that someone who has posted such inspirational messages could possibly be the one in the wrong? I viewed her as a prayer warrior. I'd ask her to pray for someone if I thought extra prayers were needed. I am obviously very naive. Way too trusting. And yes, jer_lin deserves my apology. I am very humbled by this experience. A very bad learning experience.

There is a third possibility -- someone somewhere made an innocent mistake.

07-09-2008, 07:44 PM	#18
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	Well like I said on the other thread I spoke when i shouldn't have, I don't know either one of them, but I have seen baby blessings on a lot and enjoyed her post and have respected her since I started YT. I just jumped in when I shouldn't have said anything but I thought someone was being cruel to one of our members. For that I apologize. I will learn to keep my mouth shout from now on. </IMG> __________________ KIM

07-09-2008, 07:56 PM	#19
Bizzymammabee Luvs Lulu Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 6,931 Blog Entries: 1	Honestly the reactions are totally understandable. Patti is on here every day and sharing with us so people identified with her. The other gentleman I see has a small post count so I would dare to speculate he is not a really active/vocal member here. So I can see where people's first reaction would be to protect Patti. Things got a bit heated because YT is like family and folks were circling the wagons to protect one of our own. __________________ Lulu will always be in my heart

07-09-2008, 07:57 PM	#20
Wigfur Forever Athena's Mommy Donating Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 806	I am new still yet to YT, and I have no clue what happened here,but I can say this.. I hope this gets worked out and everyone will be okay in the end.. drama is never good. Not with in a family. __________________ Proud Mommy Cyan Korbin Athena : Venus

07-09-2008, 08:02 PM	#22
Connie Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota Posts: 10,732	I will also stand behind Patti...that's what friends do. __________________ Custom doggie dresses and vests Memory is a country where I can go to see your face - but where do I go when I miss your embrace?

07-09-2008, 08:34 PM	#24
xxmxaxrxyxx Missing Yoshi Everyday! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 15,110 Blog Entries: 3	I don't know what is going on...I must have miss something although I am on here like 24/7 but whatever it is I know in the end will work out for the best! Good luck to those involve...sorry to those who are hurt... __________________ Yoshi Mei Ling Ting Ting Ting Ki Sun Hye Yukio Kioshi

07-09-2008, 07:39 PM	#17
spr377 Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Upstate, NY Posts: 2,015	Even though I have been on here a year, I still am getting to know people and feel like I have trusted most people's posts as truth.......I'm really confused about what is going on?

07-09-2008, 08:47 PM	#25
admin *Administrator* Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: USA Posts: 3,246 Blog Entries: 3	As simonandhallie stated, Baby Blessing chose to leave YorkieTalk on her own accord, which is fine. We hate losing any member, but if a member chooses to leave, then that is their right to. We are confused on this issue as well, as we did not see the avatar that Baby Blessing had, and how similar or if it was actually the same picture as the picture from jer_lin. From our understanding, Baby Blessing is not a computer expert, and sometimes pictures or images can get confused as well, as MANY Yorkies look eerily similar (see the YorkieTalk twins threads for example). We understand Baby Blessing is cherished and loved here, and we understand that. But we do not see that jer_lin did anything wrong or attacked Baby Blessing, so we do not feel it is appropriate for members to attack jer_lin. We hope everyone can move on from this situation. Thank you.

07-09-2008, 08:55 PM	#26
xxmxaxrxyxx Missing Yoshi Everyday! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 15,110 Blog Entries: 3	well i did some research on what is going on...and i may offend some people on here...by the truth is in plain site...Jerry I can say that after skimming thru the old posts you are not wrong...and I am sorry for those who attack you because you are the innocent party...jmho! __________________ Yoshi Mei Ling Ting Ting Ting Ki Sun Hye Yukio Kioshi

07-09-2008, 09:00 PM	#28
4doggiemama Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS Posts: 3,289	It is always the young who show us how it should be, Megan. And, yes, op, you have every right to be angry. And I humbly ask your forgiveness. It is soooo hard for me to absorb that it is possible that someone who has posted such inspirational messages could possibly be the one in the wrong? I viewed her as a prayer warrior. I'd ask her to pray for someone if I thought extra prayers were needed. I am obviously very naive. Way too trusting. And yes, jer_lin deserves my apology. I am very humbled by this experience. A very bad learning experience. __________________ Joanne Eli ChipperEva Snowboy Rosie(R.I.P. 1996-July 29, 2013) Cocoa(R.I.P 1998-April 26, 2012):

07-09-2008, 09:01 PM	#29
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	I know Jerry and his wife Linda. I have visited with them in their home on three separate occasions. The last last time was about three years ago. I actually sat on the very carpet shown in the picture and held OP. OP stood for Other Puppy. It was an inside joke between Jerry and Linda, me and a third person who bought one of Jerry's pups. OP was a sibling to the pup that the other person bought so Jerry always referred to this puppy as OP or Other Puppy. __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com