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red98vett · 07-31-2005, 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by lycansmom

Ok so we are picking Luna up today at 1 pm(woo hoo) but last night we got out lycans carrier to clean it out and i just bawled like a baby, i feel like i am betraying her or something. When she died we put everything away and didnt give it a second look now i just cant quit getting teary eyed when i look at it. Her little food bowls, her carrier, crate.

You made me cry reading this. It's ok...you loved her and miss her. I'm so sorry it hurts so bad ...having a new baby to love will ease some of the pain but I doubt it will ever really go away - BIG hugs to you ....GOOD luck today and I'm really really happy for you that you're getting Luna...I wish you the BEST with her and look forward to lots of pictures and stories.

wendybee · 07-31-2005, 07:38 AM

its natural to cry and theres nothing wrong with that, you are not trying to replace your baby or forget her she will always have a place in your heart, your moving on and giving another baby love and thats a wonderful thing to do, so you enjoy your new baby.

wendy and rosie

chloeandj · 07-31-2005, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by sabrinasmom

Me too - I couldn't use Muffy (the peke) stuff with Sabrina. It just hurt me after 15 years with her, and I'm sorry - but I celebrated my new puppy by giving all Muffy's stuff away and buying new stuff.

I know - I know - but that's how I handled it. On the way to get her, I bought a new carrier, new leash, collar, bowls and bed. It was like a celebrationof new life and I knew Muffy would approve of me finally getting over it.

Frankie - sabrinasmom

I actually did this as well. I kept her crate and my favorite harness for her. That was it. Her clothes and shoes and tons of leashes and collars, I gave away. The harness and a hair clipping I put in a special box. Tinkerbell uses her crate and it feels good to be using it.

Enjoy those little paw steps on the floor and those morning kisses that will soon be at your house again.

lycansmom · 07-31-2005, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

You made me cry reading this. It's ok...you loved her and miss her. I'm so sorry it hurts so bad ...having a new baby to love will ease some of the pain but I doubt it will ever really go away - BIG hugs to you ....GOOD luck today and I'm really really happy for you that you're getting Luna...I wish you the BEST with her and look forward to lots of pictures and stories.

Villette between you and I its bawlfest on yt today....everytime someone replies to this that they have been through it as well i just start crying all over again...

chewysmom · 07-31-2005, 07:55 AM

Oh no Angie, it's not stupid, it's really normal. When I lost my pug last December I would just break out into tears every time I saw a pug.
We took him in to be cremated and then went out of town so i didn't get his ashes until almost the end of January and when I got there and they gave me the box I just started sobbing, right there at the desk!

The day I got Chewy was so emotional, after the day was over and everyone went to bed I sat with him in the kitchen and then started crying again, this poor animal didn't know what hit him!! He has made me so happy and has filled the void that was left by Pike. Cry, get it out of your system, it's fine. Little Luna baby is going to make you happy - you'll see. Chin up and pictures, please!

red98vett · 07-31-2005, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by lycansmom

Villette between you and I its bawlfest on yt today....everytime someone replies to this that they have been through it as well i just start crying all over again...

Sweetie ...I'm right there with you ...I can't imagine...I really feel for you. Your new Luna will get HER own place in your heart to be with your little RB angel - there's plenty of room for both ....I HONESTLY believe Lycan is watching over you and happy that you have it in your heart to let in another yorkie to love. I don't just say this - I BELIEVE it

sabrinasmom · 07-31-2005, 08:19 AM

Okay - I'm not reading anymore - I keep crying thinking of all the furbabies gone on before and sabrina's looking at me like I've lost it! It'a a miracle we do this again and again!

It's the love - they give so much - it's so worth it - I'll do it again - I have to do it again - God, feels so good it hurts!

Sabrinasmom - frankie

suzysmitt · 07-31-2005, 08:23 AM

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your feelings. Maybe you want to put her stuff away, and get new for your new baby.

Kelz · 07-31-2005, 09:14 AM

oh angie!! it's not stupid!! perfectly normal!! but you will have lil luna to help you get through it!

whispersmom2 · 07-31-2005, 09:31 AM

You have lots of company in the grieving department. I have 7 younguns and still I cry for my wee Jesse every day..LIKE RIGHT NOW! Villette was so kind as to include him in my avatar. There will never be another like him.
I took one of my grand-daughters to lunch the other day. She was owned by one of my rescued Yorkies, CeCe, who died of a heart ailment last winter. When we got into my car andopened the case for a CD, there was a bright green harness that had been CeCe's. I keep it in there in case another baby will need to be rescued, and to give me alittle piece of her. Brit picked up the harnes and looked at me with the saddest face a 17 y.o. can have. Whisper (who is in Pat's avatar) is Brit's dog now and is so loved but she will not wear that harness, ever. It is CeCe!!
Okay, now I cannot see the keyboard for the tears but, your little one and my little one and all those that have crossed RB will always be with us and will always be missed.

Diego · 07-31-2005, 09:38 AM

You are not stupid at all . It often happens to me . I kept some of Zsa Zsa things as her little tent and doghouse that she received for her bithday and when I see Jade and Choulita using them , sometimes I cry ( remembering Zsa Zsa sleeping in it) . It is only human , we loved them and they are not here anymore .

Annadoodle · 07-31-2005, 09:47 AM

I'm just now reading this post...and am thinking of you as you go get Your Luna.
I've been right where you are...and it does hurt so much...
***
When you reach and get Luna...the feeling you get at that moment is so incredibly hard to explain...almost like a gift being given...
And its because of this past loss..this past baby you had....that your passing on a New Love to a New puppy.
The puppy has Lycan to thank for the tons of love you have spilling out to give....so..somehow..Lycan lives on...in both you and Luna...
***
One day...one sweet glorious day...you will be with Lycan..and Luna...and our entire time on this earth will make more sense...
***
Bless your heart...we are thinking of you...and enjoy those sweet Luna puppy kisses...they come from a special place.

Chelsey · 07-31-2005, 10:27 AM

Annadoodle, those words are very touching, i stayed strong reading through this entire thread, but those last words you wrote got the better of me!

I have lost 3 yorkies in the past, i kept somethings from each of them, i dont let my baby girls ( Chelsey & Chanel ) use them, i still feel that those few things belong to them, i still think and cry over each one of those babies, but my Chelsey and Chanel make things a lot easier, they do things the others did, they sometimes look at me in the same way that my others used to, thats when i know that they will never leave me, and they know they will ALWAYS be loved by us, and i know that one sweet day, we will all meet again!!

Lycansmom, enjoy your new baby, she came to you with good reason, she is a godsgift

I cant wait to see pics of her and read all your stories!!

Sidney · 07-31-2005, 01:56 PM

You're not stupid at all....and you 're definiately not alone .
I've kept Pepper's little things... makes me tear up just writing his name. His little face is still my screen saver on my computer..I don't know if I'll ever want to change it. We can't help from missing them.

Enjoy you're new baby and congratulations!

jeanne

MeganS · 07-31-2005, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Annadoodle

I'm just now reading this post...and am thinking of you as you go get Your Luna.
I've been right where you are...and it does hurt so much...
***
When you reach and get Luna...the feeling you get at that moment is so incredibly hard to explain...almost like a gift being given...
And its because of this past loss..this past baby you had....that your passing on a New Love to a New puppy.
The puppy has Lycan to thank for the tons of love you have spilling out to give....so..somehow..Lycan lives on...in both you and Luna...
***
One day...one sweet glorious day...you will be with Lycan..and Luna...and our entire time on this earth will make more sense...
***
Bless your heart...we are thinking of you...and enjoy those sweet Luna puppy kisses...they come from a special place.

those are beautiful words! you can tell they come straight from the heart. half way through i started to cry. i'm sure they will be greatly appreciated by her!

07-31-2005, 09:14 AM	#24
Kelz YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Yukon, ok Posts: 2,885	oh angie!! it's not stupid!! perfectly normal!! but you will have lil luna to help you get through it! __________________ Kelly- momma to Parker, Star,Zoe, & Kegan.. RIP Silly Lily OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org

07-31-2005, 09:31 AM	#25
whispersmom2 Inactive Account Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: MD Posts: 2,985	Those who have crossed the Bridge You have lots of company in the grieving department. I have 7 younguns and still I cry for my wee Jesse every day..LIKE RIGHT NOW! Villette was so kind as to include him in my avatar. There will never be another like him. I took one of my grand-daughters to lunch the other day. She was owned by one of my rescued Yorkies, CeCe, who died of a heart ailment last winter. When we got into my car andopened the case for a CD, there was a bright green harness that had been CeCe's. I keep it in there in case another baby will need to be rescued, and to give me alittle piece of her. Brit picked up the harnes and looked at me with the saddest face a 17 y.o. can have. Whisper (who is in Pat's avatar) is Brit's dog now and is so loved but she will not wear that harness, ever. It is CeCe!! Okay, now I cannot see the keyboard for the tears but, your little one and my little one and all those that have crossed RB will always be with us and will always be missed.

07-31-2005, 09:47 AM	#27
Annadoodle A Yorkie Touched My Heart Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: "soon to be" MO Posts: 1,550	Hugs and Puppy Kisses I'm just now reading this post...and am thinking of you as you go get Your Luna. I've been right where you are...and it does hurt so much... * When you reach and get Luna...the feeling you get at that moment is so incredibly hard to explain...almost like a gift being given... And its because of this past loss..this past baby you had....that your passing on a New Love to a New puppy. The puppy has Lycan to thank for the tons of love you have spilling out to give....so..somehow..Lycan lives on...in both you and Luna... * One day...one sweet glorious day...you will be with Lycan..and Luna...and our entire time on this earth will make more sense... * Bless your heart...we are thinking of you...and enjoy those sweet Luna puppy kisses...they come from a special place. __________________ Melissa & "Sophie Girl" Support Our Troops Supporting Courtney's Fight**

07-31-2005, 10:27 AM	#28
Chelsey My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N Posts: 4,097	Annadoodle, those words are very touching, i stayed strong reading through this entire thread, but those last words you wrote got the better of me! I have lost 3 yorkies in the past, i kept somethings from each of them, i dont let my baby girls ( Chelsey & Chanel ) use them, i still feel that those few things belong to them, i still think and cry over each one of those babies, but my Chelsey and Chanel make things a lot easier, they do things the others did, they sometimes look at me in the same way that my others used to, thats when i know that they will never leave me, and they know they will ALWAYS be loved by us, and i know that one sweet day, we will all meet again!! Lycansmom, enjoy your new baby, she came to you with good reason, she is a godsgift I cant wait to see pics of her and read all your stories!! __________________ Proud member of the crazy club

07-31-2005, 07:38 AM	#17
wendybee BANNED! Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 966	its natural to cry and theres nothing wrong with that, you are not trying to replace your baby or forget her she will always have a place in your heart, your moving on and giving another baby love and thats a wonderful thing to do, so you enjoy your new baby. wendy and rosie

07-31-2005, 07:55 AM	#20
chewysmom My Precious Pup Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 2,092	Oh no Angie, it's not stupid, it's really normal. When I lost my pug last December I would just break out into tears every time I saw a pug. We took him in to be cremated and then went out of town so i didn't get his ashes until almost the end of January and when I got there and they gave me the box I just started sobbing, right there at the desk! The day I got Chewy was so emotional, after the day was over and everyone went to bed I sat with him in the kitchen and then started crying again, this poor animal didn't know what hit him!! He has made me so happy and has filled the void that was left by Pike. Cry, get it out of your system, it's fine. Little Luna baby is going to make you happy - you'll see. Chin up and pictures, please!

07-31-2005, 08:19 AM	#22
sabrinasmom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: texas Posts: 769	Okay - I'm not reading anymore - I keep crying thinking of all the furbabies gone on before and sabrina's looking at me like I've lost it! It'a a miracle we do this again and again! It's the love - they give so much - it's so worth it - I'll do it again - I have to do it again - God, feels so good it hurts! Sabrinasmom - frankie

07-31-2005, 08:23 AM	#23
suzysmitt Currently Suspended! Join Date: May 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,150	There's absolutely nothing wrong with your feelings. Maybe you want to put her stuff away, and get new for your new baby.

07-31-2005, 09:38 AM	#26
Diego Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 3,617	You are not stupid at all . It often happens to me . I kept some of Zsa Zsa things as her little tent and doghouse that she received for her bithday and when I see Jade and Choulita using them , sometimes I cry ( remembering Zsa Zsa sleeping in it) . It is only human , we loved them and they are not here anymore .

07-31-2005, 01:56 PM	#29
Sidney YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Northern California Posts: 514	You're not stupid at all....and you 're definiately not alone . I've kept Pepper's little things... makes me tear up just writing his name. His little face is still my screen saver on my computer..I don't know if I'll ever want to change it. We can't help from missing them. Enjoy you're new baby and congratulations! jeanne