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tiggerr36792 · 11-30-2007, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

My husband told me that Sal is his dog and I am just here for the ride. He went to Wal-mart today and brought him a two new chew toys. He does not like me to feed him or play with him when he is around. I am start to feel like I am Sal maid. My husband is now starting fighting with me over the type of food I buy.
I told him to buy Sal food himself. I am starting to feel like I am the servant and Sal is the King. What do I do about this? How can I get my husband to understand that Sal is both of our dog?

Get yourself a puppy and make hubby clean up after yours,lol!! Just a thought.

yorkiecrazy · 11-30-2007, 06:49 PM

Talk to him, then go get your baby!!! Men can be very hard headed and they never really listen to what we have to say so, talking to him isn't really going to work, but you can say, "Well, I talked to you, don't you remember????" Then he will have no argument about your new puppy, y'all have already talked about it.

Cathi · 12-01-2007, 06:51 AM

We talked last night and he got up and took Sal with me and drove off. He stop by the house this morning to get so clothes and left to work and drop Sal off for me to babysit. I try to call him but he hangs up on me. All I hear is that Sal is my dog. I just do understand what is wrong this is the same man that it took me two years to get him to let me have another dog, then two years to find the dog we want. I am just beginning to think that he is going through the middle life crisis.

luckylady · 12-01-2007, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Buddy-licious

Tell him to play nice in your sandbox or you will take your toys and leave!!!! lol

I second that.....

addicted · 12-01-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

We talked last night and he got up and took Sal with me and drove off. He stop by the house this morning to get so clothes and left to work and drop Sal off for me to babysit. I try to call him but he hangs up on me. All I hear is that Sal is my dog. I just do understand what is wrong this is the same man that it took me two years to get him to let me have another dog, then two years to find the dog we want. I am just beginning to think that he is going through the middle life crisis.

OMG I can't believe that.... Childish I might say. Reminds me of highschool romance. Men can be so insensitive.

Are you guys going through problems though? Maybe that's why he's taking it out on you?

Cathi · 12-01-2007, 12:09 PM

He ia just being a jerk

Cathi · 12-01-2007, 12:10 PM

He is just being a jerk

addicted · 12-01-2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

He ia just being a jerk

I would get rid of him and get myself a new puppy, but I know it's just easy for me to say.

I'm not married.. so I guess I have no strings attached. Whatever you do, I hope you will be safe and happy.

spruitt7 · 12-01-2007, 12:14 PM

I was like this toward my boyfriend when we first got Riley. I didnt want Ryan doing anything with Riley. The main reason was because I was so afraid that something would happen to Riley accidentally. I trust my boyfriend, but to me, I thought Riley wasn't safe unless it was me feeding him or holding him. I've finally gotten past it. My boyfriend and I also fought about all that stuff. That maybe why he is so protective toward your little pup.

11-30-2007, 06:49 PM	#17
yorkiecrazy Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Houston area Posts: 2,672	Talk to him, then go get your baby!!! Men can be very hard headed and they never really listen to what we have to say so, talking to him isn't really going to work, but you can say, "Well, I talked to you, don't you remember????" Then he will have no argument about your new puppy, y'all have already talked about it. __________________ Jamie - Gracie's Katie's and Chloe's mom : Gracie 11-12-99 11-1-2012

12-01-2007, 06:51 AM	#18
Cathi YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Beaufort South Carolina Posts: 380	He is not joking We talked last night and he got up and took Sal with me and drove off. He stop by the house this morning to get so clothes and left to work and drop Sal off for me to babysit. I try to call him but he hangs up on me. All I hear is that Sal is my dog. I just do understand what is wrong this is the same man that it took me two years to get him to let me have another dog, then two years to find the dog we want. I am just beginning to think that he is going through the middle life crisis.

12-01-2007, 12:09 PM	#21
Cathi YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Beaufort South Carolina Posts: 380	no problems He ia just being a jerk

12-01-2007, 12:10 PM	#22
Cathi YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Beaufort South Carolina Posts: 380	it suppose to say He is just being a jerk

12-01-2007, 12:14 PM	#24
spruitt7 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Chicago Posts: 944	I was like this toward my boyfriend when we first got Riley. I didnt want Ryan doing anything with Riley. The main reason was because I was so afraid that something would happen to Riley accidentally. I trust my boyfriend, but to me, I thought Riley wasn't safe unless it was me feeding him or holding him. I've finally gotten past it. My boyfriend and I also fought about all that stuff. That maybe why he is so protective toward your little pup.