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Marie · 06-29-2005, 08:05 AM

Im so sorry you are heartbroken. Im just happy that you have you little baby to comfort you. Is amazing how our babies sense we are feeling sad and offer us uncondional love. Your Prince is out there, and who knows it can even be a Yorkie daddy.You never know.

eensor · 06-29-2005, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by vainchick5

Last night my boyfriend and I broke up. I can't stop crying but isn't it amazing how our furbabies know exactly what to do? She hasn't stopped cuddling with me or licking me. I let her sleep in my bed and we cuddled all night. Both of us woke up at the same times and just cuddled. Talk about love, huh?

Well there must be something wrong with him! We know there isn't anything wrong with you! Hang in there darlin'! Men are like buses, a new one comes along every five minutes, its up to you whether you want to get on!

Bella Bear · 06-29-2005, 08:40 AM

Oh my gosh Noebella, I am so sorry to hear about the break up. Time will help heal your heart. Especially if it was a really serious relationship, hopefully this wont be the end, maybe he just needed a break? I hope things will work out. I'm sure CoCo will know how to mend your broken heart.

vainchick5 · 06-29-2005, 08:44 AM

I broke up with him, but we love eachother so much. Love isn't always enough though. I just wasn't as happy. In my gut I felt I knew something wasn't right. It was a gradual process but you never realize how much it will hurt. We had been dating for 2 and a half year. It's really hard. I can't stop getting teary at work, I wish I could just get over it. Thanks for all the love. I don't know what I would do without Coco. My friends have planned a girls night in tonight with hopefully LOTS of martinis.

Bella Bear · 06-29-2005, 08:48 AM

Oh...I am so sorry! It is really tough. I've been in your exact situation, its really hard but you made the right decision. Its never easy, even if you are the one to do the breaking up, especially since you still care about them. But you did the right thing, rather then stay because you've been together for so long, you did what you felt was right even though it was a hard decision. Time will heal your heart. Time and lots of martinis! Kisses from CoCo will help as well

SarahG816 · 06-29-2005, 08:56 AM

Hey girl - I know how you feel. My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I broke up about a month ago. It was very much mutual but I was ALL torn up about it. He didn't seem to care at first - he was happy being single. But then as SOON as I started getting over him, now he wants to get back together!

Guys are so confusing. They always want what they don't have. But I've really used this time to pray about my life and really try to see what God wants for me right now. I feel like it's in His plan for me to be single right now and enjoy my own company for a while. Of course, it doesn't hurt to have our little babies by our side - I can't wait to go get Dash tomorrow!! Good luck with everything!! I'll be praying for you!!

vainchick5 · 06-29-2005, 09:30 AM

I've been praying that I made the right decision. I am having a really hard time coping with it, but there are always reasons for things that happen. But he is Coco's daddy so we are staying friends so he can spend time with her. She loves him a lot and he loves her too. So we'll see what happens. Thanks for all the support

Stitches29 · 06-29-2005, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by vainchick5

Last night my boyfriend and I broke up. I can't stop crying but isn't it amazing how our furbabies know exactly what to do? She hasn't stopped cuddling with me or licking me. I let her sleep in my bed and we cuddled all night. Both of us woke up at the same times and just cuddled. Talk about love, huh?

Animals have a special "ESP", that is cannot be denied. They know and they are trying to help.

LIL MIS' MAGIC · 06-29-2005, 10:15 AM

I am soooo sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend...I know right now that little can be said that makes you feel better but everyday gets easier and with Coco by your side you will make it through a stronger person and who knows maybe meet your soulmate along the way!!!

Magic and Sailor send you big puppy kisses.....

debi_s · 06-29-2005, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by vainchick5

Last night my boyfriend and I broke up. I can't stop crying but isn't it amazing how our furbabies know exactly what to do? She hasn't stopped cuddling with me or licking me. I let her sleep in my bed and we cuddled all night. Both of us woke up at the same times and just cuddled. Talk about love, huh?

LISTEN.......... Listen to your heart....listen to your head.....listen to the radio......but mostly....listen to your dog..... That dog easily has more sense than whoever just 'broke-up' with any of you!!!!!
That little dog knows you better than you think... and they love us all even with our faults and flaws!!!!!

That is what REAL LOVE is allabout.......When you find a guy that treats you as good as your dog treats you......then hold on to him!!!!

luzangela428 · 06-29-2005, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Stitches29

Animals have a special "ESP", that is cannot be denied. They know and they are trying to help.

A little off topic..but ESP is soo true...Maximus and his daddy were annoying me last night (more my bf then anything but I was trying to read paperwork and Maximus was crawling on my face and my bf riling him up) so i flipped over so I was facing my bf's toes and mine were in his face..well he started tickling my feet and Maximus started nibbling and I went to get up and at the same time my bf's foot went out and BOOM!!! right into my lip..I have half a FAT ALBERT lip.... but anyways..Maximus immediately started barking and growling at my bf and came to lick my cheek!!!

vainchick5 · 06-29-2005, 10:36 AM

I needed a good laugh. You poor thing, put some ice on it. That's really funny, and cute of Maximus at the same time..

tyann24 · 06-29-2005, 11:39 AM

ahhh how cute!!! i know....anytime i am sad or cry hunter comes up to me and licks my tears away until i can't help but laugh because it is so cute!!!! now i have a new little puppy who is a jackrussell/shih tzu mix....he's so funny who is learning to do the same thing so they both get on each side of me and lick me!!! haha

whispersmom2 · 06-29-2005, 01:02 PM

Boyfriends come and go, but Yorkies' love is forever...You younguns are going thru what is known as GRIEVING for a loss-in this case. a relationship.. It doesn't matter what the loss is, we need to grieve before we can heal. AND, our babies have so much love to give us and it helps us heal.
You will find love again, whether with your ex or someone else's ex (that sounds mean, but it isn't). Just be sure to take care of YOU and your baby and you will come out okay.
Yorkie hugs, 7 of them, are coming to y'all from Rini's cuties..

natalie · 06-29-2005, 01:12 PM

I am so sorry to hear about all of the breakups.

Lemme tell ya, I've been through two 2-year relationships. Breaking up sucks but after time.. you get through it and you know that you're young. You have a whole future ahead of yourself to worry about. You also have your gorgeous babies to worry about too. A guy is least of your worries! Heads up, as cliche as it may sound, time will heal the pain.

I've moved on to bigger and better things since my breakups. They were difficult for the first month because I felt an emptiness inside like something was missing. But, in the end I realized that it wasn't him that I was missing because he didn't make me happy to begin with but it was because I was lost without the routine of being with someone. I cured what ailed me by just being around friends. You also have your dogs there for you 100% when you need them. Cheeeer up!

06-29-2005, 08:05 AM	#16
Marie Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 6,427	Im so sorry you are heartbroken. Im just happy that you have you little baby to comfort you. Is amazing how our babies sense we are feeling sad and offer us uncondional love. Your Prince is out there, and who knows it can even be a Yorkie daddy.You never know. __________________ Huggies, Gucci and Marie http://www.dogster.com/?132187 "I have been egged"

06-29-2005, 08:40 AM	#18
Bella Bear YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 494	Oh my gosh Noebella, I am so sorry to hear about the break up. Time will help heal your heart. Especially if it was a really serious relationship, hopefully this wont be the end, maybe he just needed a break? I hope things will work out. I'm sure CoCo will know how to mend your broken heart. __________________ Rachel & Bella Bella's Dogster Profile Meetup.com-Westside Small Dogs Club (Los Angeles)

06-29-2005, 08:44 AM	#19
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	I broke up with him, but we love eachother so much. Love isn't always enough though. I just wasn't as happy. In my gut I felt I knew something wasn't right. It was a gradual process but you never realize how much it will hurt. We had been dating for 2 and a half year. It's really hard. I can't stop getting teary at work, I wish I could just get over it. Thanks for all the love. I don't know what I would do without Coco. My friends have planned a girls night in tonight with hopefully LOTS of martinis. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

06-29-2005, 08:48 AM	#20
Bella Bear YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 494	Oh...I am so sorry! It is really tough. I've been in your exact situation, its really hard but you made the right decision. Its never easy, even if you are the one to do the breaking up, especially since you still care about them. But you did the right thing, rather then stay because you've been together for so long, you did what you felt was right even though it was a hard decision. Time will heal your heart. Time and lots of martinis! Kisses from CoCo will help as well __________________ Rachel & Bella Bella's Dogster Profile Meetup.com-Westside Small Dogs Club (Los Angeles)

06-29-2005, 08:56 AM	#21
SarahG816 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Chattanooga, TN Posts: 66	I know how you feel... Hey girl - I know how you feel. My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I broke up about a month ago. It was very much mutual but I was ALL torn up about it. He didn't seem to care at first - he was happy being single. But then as SOON as I started getting over him, now he wants to get back together! Guys are so confusing. They always want what they don't have. But I've really used this time to pray about my life and really try to see what God wants for me right now. I feel like it's in His plan for me to be single right now and enjoy my own company for a while. Of course, it doesn't hurt to have our little babies by our side - I can't wait to go get Dash tomorrow!! Good luck with everything!! I'll be praying for you!! __________________ Sarah & Dash He's INCREDIBLE!!! Dash's Dogster!

06-29-2005, 09:30 AM	#22
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	I've been praying that I made the right decision. I am having a really hard time coping with it, but there are always reasons for things that happen. But he is Coco's daddy so we are staying friends so he can spend time with her. She loves him a lot and he loves her too. So we'll see what happens. Thanks for all the support __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

06-29-2005, 10:15 AM	#24
LIL MIS' MAGIC Yorkie Lover Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Midlothian, Texas Posts: 4,377 Blog Entries: 3	I am soooo sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend...I know right now that little can be said that makes you feel better but everyday gets easier and with Coco by your side you will make it through a stronger person and who knows maybe meet your soulmate along the way!!! Magic and Sailor send you big puppy kisses..... __________________ Kristin, Mom to: Lil Mis Magic, Sailor and Captain

06-29-2005, 10:36 AM	#27
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	I needed a good laugh. You poor thing, put some ice on it. That's really funny, and cute of Maximus at the same time.. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

06-29-2005, 11:39 AM	#28
tyann24 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 44	ahhh how cute!!! i know....anytime i am sad or cry hunter comes up to me and licks my tears away until i can't help but laugh because it is so cute!!!! now i have a new little puppy who is a jackrussell/shih tzu mix....he's so funny who is learning to do the same thing so they both get on each side of me and lick me!!! haha __________________ [FONT=Comic Sans MS]I Heart my Hunter!![/FONT]

06-29-2005, 01:02 PM	#29
whispersmom2 Inactive Account Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: MD Posts: 2,985	Boyfriends come and go, but Yorkies' love is forever...You younguns are going thru what is known as GRIEVING for a loss-in this case. a relationship.. It doesn't matter what the loss is, we need to grieve before we can heal. AND, our babies have so much love to give us and it helps us heal. You will find love again, whether with your ex or someone else's ex (that sounds mean, but it isn't). Just be sure to take care of YOU and your baby and you will come out okay. Yorkie hugs, 7 of them, are coming to y'all from Rini's cuties..

06-29-2005, 01:12 PM	#30
natalie Owned by Fred Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 1,352	I am so sorry to hear about all of the breakups. Lemme tell ya, I've been through two 2-year relationships. Breaking up sucks but after time.. you get through it and you know that you're young. You have a whole future ahead of yourself to worry about. You also have your gorgeous babies to worry about too. A guy is least of your worries! Heads up, as cliche as it may sound, time will heal the pain. I've moved on to bigger and better things since my breakups. They were difficult for the first month because I felt an emptiness inside like something was missing. But, in the end I realized that it wasn't him that I was missing because he didn't make me happy to begin with but it was because I was lost without the routine of being with someone. I cured what ailed me by just being around friends. You also have your dogs there for you 100% when you need them. Cheeeer up!