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tumismom · 11-02-2007, 09:14 AM

she won't tell me where she got the puppy..i asked! i am just mad everytime i think about it. I did give her some web links for info and give her advice on the diet and the care. I am just waiting to see how it works out..I am gonna take the puppy if she were to give it up. i know 3 will be over our heads but i just love the furbutts!

Yorkiekids · 11-02-2007, 09:14 AM

Well I hope everything works out. Everything happens for a reason. I hope she doesn't have a balcony.

s13silviagirl · 11-02-2007, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by tumismom

she won't tell me where she got the puppy..i asked! i am just mad everytime i think about it. I did give her some web links for info and give her advice on the diet and the care. I am just waiting to see how it works out..I am gonna take the puppy if she were to give it up. i know 3 will be over our heads but i just love the furbutts!

Best wishes to the pup. I hope you end up with 3!!!! hehe. I do understand how you feel, my brother and his wife are similar. No money, never pay my parents the rent money (the live in my parents rental house

) but they can buy their 6 year old a quad for his birthday....

Hope it all works out for the best, sooner rather than later. Oh, and it sounds to me like SHE wanted the Yorkie, and used her son as the excuse to get one!

hha · 11-02-2007, 11:36 AM

Not all 2 year olds are bad, and it doesn't make a bad breeder for selling to someone with a 2 year old..My g-daughter was taught from day one to be good to dogs..she is almost 5 and lets the dogs even lick her in the mouth, she would never hurt one..my daughter had a yorkie when my g-daughter was 2 or maybe younger, but both of my g-kids are better with dogs than a lof of adults.

MIZBROWN · 11-02-2007, 11:54 AM

Nothing much you can do now but try to be supportive and hopefully everything works out...

Ladymom · 11-02-2007, 12:10 PM

Shame on that breeder for letting a puppy go to a situation like that!

That's just a disaster waiting to happen IMO.

Tammyh · 11-02-2007, 12:26 PM

I understand your concerns and frustrations. As mentioned before all you can do is be there for her and the puppy and give as much advise as she'll take. She's a married adult and has a right to make her own decisions even if you don't agree so try not to get too angry about it, all it does is hurt you and you don't need that. NOW that she has the puppy the more positive support and input she gets from you, the better it will be for the puppy

Good luck!

s13silviagirl · 11-02-2007, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Ladymom

Shame on that breeder for letting a puppy go to a situation like that!

That's just a disaster waiting to happen IMO.

Not everyone is truthfull. It is possible that the breeder didnt know. As far as the kids, my 4 year old and my 1 year old are great with my dogs.

hha · 11-02-2007, 01:22 PM

silvia, my kids were always great with dogs also, as are my g-children..Like I said, a lot of little kids(if they're taught from an early age) are a lot of times better with animals than their parents are..

tumismom · 11-02-2007, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by hha

Not all 2 year olds are bad, and it doesn't make a bad breeder for selling to someone with a 2 year old..My g-daughter was taught from day one to be good to dogs..she is almost 5 and lets the dogs even lick her in the mouth, she would never hurt one..my daughter had a yorkie when my g-daughter was 2 or maybe younger, but both of my g-kids are better with dogs than a lof of adults.

Oh i don't think all kids are bad. I used to be a kindergarten teacher and i love kids. i mean my step sis's son is a brat..he is really spoiled and there is no one to set rules for him.. i love love kids but i can't stand to be around him or his parents. their parenting is not the best. the kid is rude. kicks, screams and cries constantly. even my parents are not crazy about him considering he is their first and only grandkid. i am thinking if i was a breeder, i would like to see the whole family, including the kid before handing the puppy off. i just think it is only fair that she/he sees how the kid is before they sell the puppy. i dunno in my opinion, the breeder is not that great. i just don't like kids who have no boundaries and parents without having good parenting skills.

hha · 11-02-2007, 06:55 PM

It wasn't you hon, someone else said what kind of breeder would let their yorkies go to a home with kids...And I was saying not all kids are bad..My g-daugther should be a vet one day, she even likes lizzards(calls them her lil buddies), catches them, puts them in a bug box, then lets them go..even informed me she pet a snake the other day(YUKK), but, yes, the breeders for little dogs should meet the family if there are kids..

Keno · 11-02-2007, 06:58 PM

a new puppy and a 2 year old??? Sounds like a lot of work to me ...hope it works out!!!

munchkinlady · 11-02-2007, 07:32 PM

Sorry to hear about your sis getting a yorkie and having a 2 year old. Be ready to help any way you can .

alex_143 · 11-02-2007, 11:29 PM

im sorry to hear this and pray that she gets over whelmed and the puppy ends up with you

Sugar's Mom · 11-03-2007, 03:33 PM

that is sad. good thing she didn't contact me. i would have turned her flat down in a heartbeat.

11-02-2007, 09:14 AM	#17
Yorkiekids Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida Posts: 14,495	Well I hope everything works out. Everything happens for a reason. I hope she doesn't have a balcony. __________________ Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki

11-02-2007, 11:54 AM	#20
MIZBROWN Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 2,293	Nothing much you can do now but try to be supportive and hopefully everything works out... __________________ Mommy to Meka "MeMe" Brown aka Meka the Diva Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club & CA Yorkies www.dogster.com/dogs/567943

11-02-2007, 12:10 PM	#21
Ladymom Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: North Carolina Posts: 8,317	Shame on that breeder for letting a puppy go to a situation like that! That's just a disaster waiting to happen IMO. __________________ http://www.myladysdogbows.com/ http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref...6213341?ref=nf

11-02-2007, 12:26 PM	#22
Tammyh YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 399	I understand your concerns and frustrations. As mentioned before all you can do is be there for her and the puppy and give as much advise as she'll take. She's a married adult and has a right to make her own decisions even if you don't agree so try not to get too angry about it, all it does is hurt you and you don't need that. NOW that she has the puppy the more positive support and input she gets from you, the better it will be for the puppy Good luck! __________________ Bella & Lucee's Momma

11-02-2007, 06:58 PM	#27
Keno Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: sunny CA Posts: 789	a new puppy and a 2 year old??? Sounds like a lot of work to me ...hope it works out!!! __________________ Dogs are such agreeable friends, they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms, they do not borrow money, they only beg for food and love.

11-02-2007, 09:14 AM	#16
tumismom Owned by Tumi & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 2,321	she won't tell me where she got the puppy..i asked! i am just mad everytime i think about it. I did give her some web links for info and give her advice on the diet and the care. I am just waiting to see how it works out..I am gonna take the puppy if she were to give it up. i know 3 will be over our heads but i just love the furbutts!

11-02-2007, 11:36 AM	#19
hha No Longer a Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Seneca, SC Posts: 2,837	Not all 2 year olds are bad, and it doesn't make a bad breeder for selling to someone with a 2 year old..My g-daughter was taught from day one to be good to dogs..she is almost 5 and lets the dogs even lick her in the mouth, she would never hurt one..my daughter had a yorkie when my g-daughter was 2 or maybe younger, but both of my g-kids are better with dogs than a lof of adults.

11-02-2007, 01:22 PM	#24
hha No Longer a Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Seneca, SC Posts: 2,837	silvia, my kids were always great with dogs also, as are my g-children..Like I said, a lot of little kids(if they're taught from an early age) are a lot of times better with animals than their parents are..

11-02-2007, 06:55 PM	#26
hha No Longer a Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Seneca, SC Posts: 2,837	It wasn't you hon, someone else said what kind of breeder would let their yorkies go to a home with kids...And I was saying not all kids are bad..My g-daugther should be a vet one day, she even likes lizzards(calls them her lil buddies), catches them, puts them in a bug box, then lets them go..even informed me she pet a snake the other day(YUKK), but, yes, the breeders for little dogs should meet the family if there are kids..

11-02-2007, 07:32 PM	#28
munchkinlady Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: texas Posts: 29	Sorry to hear about your sis getting a yorkie and having a 2 year old. Be ready to help any way you can .

11-02-2007, 11:29 PM	#29
alex_143 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,041	im sorry to hear this and pray that she gets over whelmed and the puppy ends up with you

11-03-2007, 03:33 PM	#30
Sugar's Mom BANNED! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 9,248	that is sad. good thing she didn't contact me. i would have turned her flat down in a heartbeat.