mentor issue (and heat cycle question)

[HollyandMommy]

Maedelin is one of the best to ask for help when it comes whelping needs I have read many of her post and she is very helpful so I would keep that in mind for an emergency. Sorry Mardelin son't know your name yet. Anyway I love every one post on breeder section.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by HollyandMommy

Maedelin is one of the best to ask for help when it comes whelping needs I have read many of her post and she is very helpful so I would keep that in mind for an emergency. Sorry Mardelin son't know your name yet. Anyway I love every one post on breeder section.

The name is Mary, Mardelin is the my prefix/Kennel Name.

[HollyandMommy]

Thanks Mary "

[BamaFan121s]

She answers to "Merdlin" too.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

She answers to "Merdlin" too.

I thought she wrote Merlin, didn't see the "d". But, yes, I usually answer to most anything.

[BamaFan121s]

I have to say....I completely forgot about the whole "Merdlin" thing until just now. Went back and read a few threads and had a good laugh this AM.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

I have to say....I completely forgot about the whole "Merdlin" thing until just now. Went back and read a few threads and had a good laugh this AM.

Now I'm wondering if that Merdlin thing isn't a Fruedian slip. Maybe eluding to the french word s#!+

[HollyandMommy]

LOL so sorry Mary. I was on my cel so just getting to type in that little screen. I am so sorry.

[HollyandMommy]

I will understand if you get upset I hate it when people call me Jennifer. Not even close

[gemy]

First from all the help Mary Mardelin has given on public posts, over the phone, in pm's etc; I think anyone would count their lucky stars if she is their mentor!

For many who come and post here especially at the last minute; ie: their bitch is already pregnant, or beginning or just had a whelp, the most practical solution, given the time constraints is to find a labour coach.

But back to the main idea of the title. In yoga we would call the type of mentor/breeder that Mary speaks about as a guru. That very special and unique person, who has delved deeply, studied constantly, has loads of experience in their chosen field, and almost as importantly, can teach/share with another. Usually these folks are very choosey, who they accept as a student, to share their life's learning with. this definition for me would be what I would capitalize as a MENTOR.

For many students they will not be so lucky in life to find that Capital Mentor. Along the way, they will hopefully meet those breeders who do know and are willing to share their knowledge, but the depth or breadth of their experience just isn't at the MENTOR level. Call them teachers or small "m" mentors.

The knowledge base from neophyte to the show breeding world, to accomplished breeder/exhibitor is vast.

To the OP: I would say never "burn" your bridges. Communicate with your original mentor, on many subjects, listen, record, for there is often a nugget of good information that can be gleaned from almost any-one. And yes, your studies, info from other breeders, can help you evaluate how you put each piece of knowledge into place.

I do know that you are from Ireland and that is a small country, and quite simply put, there may not be a whole lot of top notch Yorkie breeders available to you. But Ireland breeds some world famous Irish Wolf Hounds, not to mention the quality of the horse breeding. Also there will be many knowledgeable people about how to assess the quality of breeding stock, and the puppies. Good conformation is good conformation, and usually translates across most breeds (with some exceptions).

Also don't forget the net; there may be breeding seminars on line that might be available to you. Judging seminars which are often open to the public are a valuable experience.

Go out to shows, touch as many dogs as you can. Touch any dog in public that you can. Develop your palpatory feel through the touching. Watch any dog move. Over time you will notice differences. Look at videos on line, watch the movement. Touch to feel not to judge. Look to see, not to judge. Keep eyes and touch soft.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by HollyandMommy

LOL so sorry Mary. I was on my cel so just getting to type in that little screen. I am so sorry.

Nothing to be sorry about....I wasn't serious.....just joking and laughing and really not at your expense.

[HollyandMommy]

LOL I was doing the same thing this am. I love learning from you even if I'm not thinking about breeding there is lots of useful info. I love my babies and want to learn all there is to make there lives the best I can.
Thanks for all I have learned from you. I would love to be your friend and keep learning.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by HollyandMommy

LOL I was doing the same thing this am. I love learning from you even if I'm not thinking about breeding there is lots of useful info. I love my babies and want to learn all there is to make there lives the best I can.
Thanks for all I have learned from you. I would love to be your friend and keep learning.

Careful, careful. That's how I started....bought a couple of "pet" yorkies and just wanted to learn everything I could about the breed......then came joining a breed club, then attending every single show within driving distance and becoming a gopher, making exhibitors nuts with my constant questions......and then, and then, and then......at it goes on and it never stops.

[HollyandMommy]

LOL I'm not old you never know, but not for 10 years maybe. Maybe then I'll be close but I don't think I could breed.

[BamaFan121s]

Originally Posted by HollyandMommy

LOL so sorry Mary. I was on my cel so just getting to type in that little screen. I am so sorry.

Originally Posted by Mardelin

Nothing to be sorry about....I wasn't serious.....just joking and laughing and really not at your expense.

I'm sorry...I wasn't poking fun at you. Another member called her "Merdlin" once and it became kind of a running joke that I resurrected for my own entertainment.