Playtime supervisor
Posted 08-06-2008 at 12:43 PM by alaskayorkie
Sometimes I wonder if the individual attention I give my boys is too much. I'm not going to change anything, but I just wonder.
I've noticed they don't play amongst themselves without my direction. Oh, Jack and Rusty will lie together, but they don't play. And Eddie rarely tries to play with Rusty or Jack. It's beneath his alphaness. As for Rusty or Jack trying to initiate a game with Eddie, they wouldn't dare. He's got attitude.
But they play well together with supervision. We have a game called "Get Eddie" that we play in the backyard. It's pretty simple. Eddie grabs a toy and runs for his life. Rusty chases. If Rusty catches him, the rules are he has to stop. As soon as he does, he gets a treat. He's gotten very good at it.
Eddie has learned that he doesn't have Rusty's speed, but he can outmaneuver him around the agility equipment and generally make his way safely under the deck. He thinks he's uncatchable.
Jack doesn't join the pursuit (he'd get squashed), but he knows the "Get Eddie" game as his "Get Treat" game. He goes directly to the teeter-totter and looks at me. When I look his way, he walks over the top and awaits a treat at the bottom. He's got me trained well.
So that's my dilemma. Other dogs I know play well together independently, really an ideal situation. It gives the owners freedom to get something done around the house while the pups still get stimulation and exercise.
Not mine. I wonder where I went wrong.
I've noticed they don't play amongst themselves without my direction. Oh, Jack and Rusty will lie together, but they don't play. And Eddie rarely tries to play with Rusty or Jack. It's beneath his alphaness. As for Rusty or Jack trying to initiate a game with Eddie, they wouldn't dare. He's got attitude.
But they play well together with supervision. We have a game called "Get Eddie" that we play in the backyard. It's pretty simple. Eddie grabs a toy and runs for his life. Rusty chases. If Rusty catches him, the rules are he has to stop. As soon as he does, he gets a treat. He's gotten very good at it.
Eddie has learned that he doesn't have Rusty's speed, but he can outmaneuver him around the agility equipment and generally make his way safely under the deck. He thinks he's uncatchable.
Jack doesn't join the pursuit (he'd get squashed), but he knows the "Get Eddie" game as his "Get Treat" game. He goes directly to the teeter-totter and looks at me. When I look his way, he walks over the top and awaits a treat at the bottom. He's got me trained well.
So that's my dilemma. Other dogs I know play well together independently, really an ideal situation. It gives the owners freedom to get something done around the house while the pups still get stimulation and exercise.
Not mine. I wonder where I went wrong.
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| | You are just too good of a parent. Mine will not let me be for one minute. When I am typing she in on top of my hands. I can't wait to get her another playmate. But you never know. I could run the risk of having the other one taking over my other arm. LOL. I can't even go to the bathroom without Delilah on my lap. LOL |
Posted 08-13-2008 at 08:19 PM by Sharonandtink |
| | Things could be a lot worse - sibling rivalry is a very nasty thing, and my two new girls, who are just 20 weeks have moments when I think they're out to kill one another! An experienced breeder told me to break their fixation on each other by separating them periodically and spending individual time with them walking and playing and fussing over them. This has worked successfully but of late when I suffered a bit of ill health I couldn't do the individual thing and they ended up spending more time together in the outdoor run. This resulted in a return to the original behaviour! So I guess I have to persevere with the individual attention. So Sharon my advice would be if you want a playmate for Tink, get a younger dog and let Tink assert herself over the new pup ... you will help to establish the pecking order, then all should be well between them. Do the little boys Jack, Rusty and Eddie have any rivalry issues? Perhaps it's just a girlie thing. LadyoftheMoor - x |
Posted 08-15-2008 at 12:36 AM by LadyoftheMoor |





