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09-10-2007, 06:14 AM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Phillipsburg NJ
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| Hurting... Well Friends after being with my boyfriend for 3 years he came in yesterday and told me he wasn't ready for the committed and devotion of our relationship. I am devastated and I guess looking for some help in fixing a broken heart. We were best friends and bf/ gf. This is harder than I could ever thought...I want to call him constantly; but I know I can't. I feel like I HAVE to talk to him...but I have nothing to say. I just want to make this all go away. I feel incredibly lonely. He went from being completly broken up to going on a "break" he says that he wants freedom. I don't know what to do besides hold my furbaby Bella. I am lost...any suggestions?
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09-10-2007, 06:22 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
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| I am an admin on a site called www.brokenheartedgirl.com! Go there and go to the forum! There are so many amazing girls going through this right now that can support you! Ive been through this, 2 years ago myself. My bf (fiance) of 10 years broke up with me! It was rotten! Its very hard to not give into the 'no contact' but its one of the best things you can do for yourself! Take a couple months and don't talk to him! You'll notice that no contact with him will make you feel more emotionally stable while going through this! You'll get through it girl! (((HUGS)))
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
09-10-2007, 07:50 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | I'm so sorry I know you want to talk to him but don't call him. You need to clear your mind in order to move on. You are young, i know it hurts but you will be okay. I have been there with my last bf except we both parted ways cause that's when i was going away to college and i felt it was better if we were just broken up but i still had feelings for him, and there were other factors involved so it was really hard. After i thought he was the one and that i would never get over him, my now bf of almost 2 yrs had feelings for me and before we knew it we got together. Good things come when you least expect it, just concentrate on getting yourself together and keep yourself busy busy busy, hang out with friends, go running, go to dinner, the movies and before you know it your mind will be thinking about him less and less.
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09-10-2007, 07:53 AM | #4 | |
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09-10-2007, 03:30 PM | #5 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005
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| I am currently going through this. It has been a little over 2 weeks and I still do not feel much better at all. The only thing that is keeping me going is focusing on my work, and knowing in the long run I am going to be better off. I am so sorry this happened to you too. If you need anyone to talk to feel free to email me whenever you like!
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09-10-2007, 03:45 PM | #6 |
Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia
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| How sad for you You're doing the right thing by not calling him, but I know it's so hard not to. That's a long time to invest in a relationship only to have it end like that. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. I hate knowing someone's heart is hurting like yours is. The only thing I do know is that there is someone out there for you who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. I hope time helps you heal.
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09-10-2007, 07:33 PM | #7 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Central Texas
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| It is so hard, you want things to be like they were, but usually, it just doesn't work that way. Think about it this way - why do you yearn for someone who doesn't want to be with you? Take yourself out of the situation, just like he did. Try your best to keep busy, to move on, to get on with life. Fill up your time, volunteer, mentor a child, work with the big sisters organization, drive for meals on wheels, visit a nursing home, work extra, go back to school or take more classes, make time for friends, or make new friends. Do something to help yourself move forward - work on being a good person - do someone a favor without asking - eat some ice cream or whatever makes you feel good! Do not dwell on the past - it is over and you need to make a new future. Good luck!
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09-11-2007, 02:19 AM | #8 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Sunny Southern California!!!!
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| Awww hun I am so sorry! I had a similar thing happen a few years back. But, just know that there IS someone out there that is bigger and better! Who knows, maybe you can meet a man that shares the same passion for Yorkies as you do!
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