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luvsyorkies · 03-30-2007, 03:18 PM

hi I wanted to ask a question if you go out with a guy like 5 times doesn't that mean it not meant to be or is meant to be but just to young for it????

jacky · 03-30-2007, 03:46 PM

its really not about the number of times youve went out with him, its about how you feel about him. Just enjoy it, dont rush and just have fun

if it is meant to be, then thats wonderful, if not, then that o.k also, there are plenty of fish in the sea. but 5 dates does mean something, it means that you both like each others company and that maybe it will turn into a relationship.

luvsyorkies · 03-30-2007, 03:52 PM

oh ok thanks.

xxmxaxrxyxx · 03-30-2007, 03:57 PM

counting the numbers of time you go out doesn't really mean anything....it is about how you 2 feel when you are around each other...

if the relationship progress than good...if it doesn't then remember there are other fishes in the sea...kekek

i would stress on that too much...just go with the flow and let whatever happen happen...

Catrina · 03-30-2007, 04:07 PM

i agree with the above poster... its all about the chemistry and connection with the other person

Pipersmommy · 03-30-2007, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by luvsyorkies

hi I wanted to ask a question if you go out with a guy like 5 times doesn't that mean it not meant to be or is meant to be but just to young for it????

All depends on the guy. At your age, from what I read on your profile is 13. I wasn't even allowed to date at that age. Boys your age or a little older put to much pressure on girls your age. Slow down & don't worry about getting to serious.

luvsyorkies · 03-30-2007, 04:11 PM

lol we have alot of chemistry and connection then u think we have been friends for like 1st to 7th grade that's long and 6 grade that's when we decided and it didn't work so we tried and tried but he too imarture and i was serious but this year he's more serious and more funny and more fun to talk to and we talk for like 5 hours like everyday and we weren't like that last year.

sims822257 · 03-31-2007, 03:50 AM

I agree....There are many fish in teh sea. Take your time because only time will tell if he is right for you or it is meant to be.

Sugar's Mom · 03-31-2007, 05:45 AM

honey girl, you are way too young to be worrying about dating and "meant to be' right now.

Mardelin · 03-31-2007, 05:50 AM

I know at your age we're in a hurry for everything to happen. Don't hurry, just have fun at everything you do...

Just remember this you're going to kiss a lot of frogs before your Prince Charming turns up in your life.

JeanieK · 03-31-2007, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by luvsyorkies

lol we have alot of chemistry and connection then u think we have been friends for like 1st to 7th grade that's long and 6 grade that's when we decided and it didn't work so we tried and tried but he too imarture and i was serious but this year he's more serious and more funny and more fun to talk to and we talk for like 5 hours like everyday and we weren't like that last year.

Honey, you are way too young to be getting serious about any boy. Just be friends for a few more years.

I didn't allow my daughters to date until they were 16. Before that they had a lot of "boy" firends, but no "boyfirends"

all those feelings that you are experiencing, everyone feels that, does not mean it's chemistry or anything else, it's infatuation. You could feel the same with a dozen different boys.

If it is meant to be, he will still be there in 5 years, in 10 years, however long it takes.

Peters · 03-31-2007, 06:27 AM

wow your worried about that stuff already at 13! odd i don't think your old enough personally but they older i get the younger others seem to be! i look at teen these days and think back hoping i wasn't so goofy and immature at that age but most likely i was and wouldn't listen to anything at all. but anyways no at 13 you shouldn't be going out with anyone! you have to wait until at least 18 or that's what i'll be telling my daughter! 30 would be even better

Yorkiedaze · 03-31-2007, 08:23 AM

You should be talking to a parent of counsler. Your much too young to date one on one. You should be thinking of doing good in school so you can go off to a University and get a wonderful life and career started.

luvsyorkies · 03-31-2007, 01:38 PM

I don't think it's meant to be I'm just canfused it seems like every time I try to get away we alway seem to be stuck together I don't know it's like all the time.

Sugar's Mom · 03-31-2007, 02:00 PM

are you all getting pm's from this childd? i have just asked her to please stop writing me. now is there any wonder people on the contributing members forum are asking for an age 18 rule? don't mean to be rude here and I was done with this post until the pm's started coming. Now I am aggravated. Admin needs to just close this thread.

03-30-2007, 03:18 PM	#1
luvsyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: illnois Posts: 183	breaking up hi I wanted to ask a question if you go out with a guy like 5 times doesn't that mean it not meant to be or is meant to be but just to young for it????

03-30-2007, 03:57 PM	#4
xxmxaxrxyxx Missing Yoshi Everyday! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 15,110 Blog Entries: 3	counting the numbers of time you go out doesn't really mean anything....it is about how you 2 feel when you are around each other... if the relationship progress than good...if it doesn't then remember there are other fishes in the sea...kekek i would stress on that too much...just go with the flow and let whatever happen happen... __________________ Yoshi Mei Ling Ting Ting Ting Ki Sun Hye Yukio Kioshi

03-31-2007, 03:50 AM	#8
sims822257 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 3,436	I agree....There are many fish in teh sea. Take your time because only time will tell if he is right for you or it is meant to be. __________________ Caren, mommy to Murphy and Mia Murphy WUVS his girlfriend Trixie

03-31-2007, 05:50 AM	#10
Mardelin Mardelin Yorkshire Terriers Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: California Posts: 14,776	I know at your age we're in a hurry for everything to happen. Don't hurry, just have fun at everything you do... Just remember this you're going to kiss a lot of frogs before your Prince Charming turns up in your life. __________________ Mardelin *Yorkshire* *Terriers*

03-31-2007, 06:27 AM	#12
Peters YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 2,225	wow your worried about that stuff already at 13! odd i don't think your old enough personally but they older i get the younger others seem to be! i look at teen these days and think back hoping i wasn't so goofy and immature at that age but most likely i was and wouldn't listen to anything at all. but anyways no at 13 you shouldn't be going out with anyone! you have to wait until at least 18 or that's what i'll be telling my daughter! 30 would be even better __________________ A pet's love is true right from the start, through good times and bad, like sharing one heart.

03-30-2007, 03:46 PM	#2
jacky YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Miami Posts: 308	its really not about the number of times youve went out with him, its about how you feel about him. Just enjoy it, dont rush and just have fun if it is meant to be, then thats wonderful, if not, then that o.k also, there are plenty of fish in the sea. but 5 dates does mean something, it means that you both like each others company and that maybe it will turn into a relationship.

03-30-2007, 03:52 PM	#3
luvsyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: illnois Posts: 183	oh ok thanks.

03-30-2007, 04:07 PM	#5
Catrina I love my lil wolf! ;) Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 2,434	i agree with the above poster... its all about the chemistry and connection with the other person

03-30-2007, 04:11 PM	#7
luvsyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: illnois Posts: 183	lol we have alot of chemistry and connection then u think we have been friends for like 1st to 7th grade that's long and 6 grade that's when we decided and it didn't work so we tried and tried but he too imarture and i was serious but this year he's more serious and more funny and more fun to talk to and we talk for like 5 hours like everyday and we weren't like that last year.

03-31-2007, 05:45 AM	#9
Sugar's Mom BANNED! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 9,248	honey girl, you are way too young to be worrying about dating and "meant to be' right now.

03-31-2007, 08:23 AM	#13
Yorkiedaze My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca. Posts: 12,228	You should be talking to a parent of counsler. Your much too young to date one on one. You should be thinking of doing good in school so you can go off to a University and get a wonderful life and career started.

03-31-2007, 01:38 PM	#14
luvsyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: illnois Posts: 183	I don't think it's meant to be I'm just canfused it seems like every time I try to get away we alway seem to be stuck together I don't know it's like all the time.

03-31-2007, 02:00 PM	#15
Sugar's Mom BANNED! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 9,248	are you all getting pm's from this childd? i have just asked her to please stop writing me. now is there any wonder people on the contributing members forum are asking for an age 18 rule? don't mean to be rude here and I was done with this post until the pm's started coming. Now I am aggravated. Admin needs to just close this thread.